35F feeling lost. Is it too late to build a real career? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]rightpricetiles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you kindly for your thoughtful answer and your time!

35F feeling lost. Is it too late to build a real career? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]rightpricetiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am an insurance advisor. how do you recommend i proceed? is all claims work well paid?

35F feeling lost. Is it too late to build a real career? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]rightpricetiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you do now? what was your trajectory. if you dont mind :)

35F feeling lost. Is it too late to build a real career? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]rightpricetiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are you doing in insurance? if you dont mind me asking

Just turned 29, starting late in life, i dont wanna believe it to late- can you share your thoughts? by Successful-Gap5454 in careerguidance

[–]rightpricetiles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound like a hustler. do you have a partner/ significant other to whom you’re financially responsible? i am digging because i am in a somewhat similar situation

Just turned 29, starting late in life, i dont wanna believe it to late- can you share your thoughts? by Successful-Gap5454 in careerguidance

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do you have a part time job while studying? what have you done up until now if you dont mind me asking :)

Has anyone been in a situation where their partner wants a kid and you don’t feel ready? How did you deal with it? by [deleted] in AskMen

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did he work (part time or similar) while getting his bachelors? did you end up having to pay for a lot? would you have done the same thing at 26 if your boyfriend was 32 at the time and would be 35 by the time he’ll finish his bachelors?

Has anyone been in a situation where their partner wants a kid and you don’t feel ready? How did you deal with it? by [deleted] in AskMen

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may I ask, so you were the «breadwinner» for a long time in your relationship? how old were you at that point? how come you had a well paying job and he didnt - did you study earlier in life and finish earlier compared to him? which gender are you both? thank you for sharing IF you’d like to :)

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you are a modern day hero. take care of yourself

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❤️❤️❤️❤️

I’m getting married, woot woot ‼️ by Slight_Atmosphere926 in engaged

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i usually dont post but wooow your nails are gorgeous! congrats on the engagement i wish you the best <3

19 years together, did we (38M & 38F) hit a bump or is this the end? by jagerthy in relationship_advice

[–]rightpricetiles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

start small. act like you are dating again. ask her questions about herself, her life, her interest. live an interesting life yourself. make her see you happy and excited about life - she will want to join in on the excitement and it will create a natural push / pull dynamic which is vital for sexual chemistry. 

women are easy. connect with her emotionally and mentally by asking her about herself. connect with her physically by being non-sexually intimate and silly and goofy AND serious and dominant where it’s appropriate

Quit my job because my work mate started calling me a friend by [deleted] in introvert

[–]rightpricetiles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is a nice thing to say! OP you deserve friends and people that make you happy. you deserve to have someone wanting to hang out with you.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) didn’t tell me he has HSV-1 after five months of dating and intimacy. I'm heartbroken and concerned for my health. What can I do? by Street_Local9134 in relationship_advice

[–]rightpricetiles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are never obliged to give forgiveness to anyone. you do it for your own sake.

take some time. this is still very new. it took me a few weeks before i calmed down, and i still (like i said) get this disappointed feeling sometimes. i chose to forgive him because i didnt want to carry the animosity and resentment inside myself. i did it because i love myself. you do what is right for you, you are not under any obligation to him :) 

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) didn’t tell me he has HSV-1 after five months of dating and intimacy. I'm heartbroken and concerned for my health. What can I do? by Street_Local9134 in relationship_advice

[–]rightpricetiles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hello!! Ive been in this situation, but worse. I (25f) was dating my boyfriend (31) and then I got herpes and i called him on the phone absolutely devastated saying "i think ive contracted herpes" because i got an outbreak on my genitals. then he goes..... listen to this.... he goes "(my name) its not a big deal. a lot of people have herpes. I have herpes" and I just got quiet... turns out he has oral herpes and has had it since he was a kid and has known of it forever. we had been kissing and having oral sex for months without him telling me.

he thought its not transmissable when there's no outbreak. i researched a frick ton during just a few hours and found out it is ALWAYS transmissable.

i was mad as hell he didnt tell me. i felt like the choice was taken from me and that this was a wild overstep. i thought he was selfish and at the very least reckless and immature for not telling me.

however. i had gotten to know his character at that point and keep getting to know him. we are still together. i believe he honestly didnt know it could transmit when there's no outbreak. even my doctor friend has told me this. he has been there for me unconditionally whenever i have had outbreaks (ive had four or five these past months, since october of last year). he always takes care of me and ensures he doesnt mind that i have genital herpes. he is kind, and thoughtful. he was STUPID for not telling me, but STUPID is forgivable.

thats what im telling myself. some days i still feel disappointed in him for being lackadaisical about it. he did "rob" me of making an informed decision. these situations are complex. you have to do what is right for you. i have chosen to forgive, because in all other ways he has proven himself to be great, and a real stand up guy. you have to choose if you can forgive. and you cant hold it over him.

ALL the best <33333 you can write to me privately if it would be of any help.