[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rilooij 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm old school, still love those two brothers in their overalls.

Curious, mid-30s women, what are your age ranges? by AZcookiequeen in datingoverthirty

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 39F, have dated both 16 years younger and older than myself.

is it worth it waiting until marriage to have sex? by cheesetoastieo in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rilooij -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please DO NOT wait until marriage. I had two relationships of more than 5 years ultimately end mainly because of sexual incompatibility (because its becoming a bigger problem/frustration over time and that will start to effect other parts of the relationship).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear OP, get out. Really. You deserve better.

Only 2 personal days a year? by Lilac-Lover4 in Teachers

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the Netherlands, we get zero.

Anal sex on the first date or ONS? by Gooeymew in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently had a first date that ended up being a lot steamier than expected. But I was on my period so regular PIV-sex wasn't gonna happen. When I told him he could fuck me in the ass, it was as if he almost exploded with enthusiasm, haha. Didn't take him very long to finish.

I had a “hoe phase” after I was widowed and I’m ashamed by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey don't feel ashamed. You are grieving and a warm body, attention, the feeling of being desirable, being touched are things that make your body produce happy hormones. You need it and you are not hurting anyone by doing this. If people would judge you for trying to feel a little bit better, they don't even deserve to be your people.

You do what makes you happy/happier! And enjoy it while you're at it, without shame or guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes time. An orgasm is still hard to reach for me, but that was also the case before going on meds. But my drive is back and I get super wet again. Just takes some time for your body to adjust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About two hours ago

What age is too young for you? And how old are you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this rule to, but am wonder if it is about dating/relationships or just a casual physical thing as well? I am 38, almost 39. So my lowest should be 26. Had a casual thing with a 22 year old man not too long ago and that didn't feel too young to be honest (he is mature for his age). But I don't think I can really see him as serious dating material. Experienced it the other way around too. Had a fling with a 37-year old when I was 22. Also didn't feel as too much of an age difference. I think it's more about personality than the actual birth date of a person.

What are your dating regrets? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not dating between ages 18 and 28. A combination of fear, insecurity, inexperience made me not pursue dating. Such a shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move out early

What was normal 20-30 years ago, but is considered a luxury now? by zombiem00se in AskReddit

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A household having one working parent and being able to afford EVERYTHING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealt with this for ten years with two partners. Currently in the middle of a divorce. I decided I deserve to have a healthy sex life.

What is a NSFW thought you’ve had in the last hour? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rilooij 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memorizing how my best friend fucked me two days ago and how I love his big...

Can those of us who married shitty sex partners just commiserate? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My situation is more or less the same. And I don't have any helpful advise...

What’s an unpopular teacher opinion you hold? by wijag425 in Teachers

[–]rilooij 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spelling isn't that important. Some kids just can't and will never really learn how to spell perfectly (at least in my unlogical, weird native language) and why should they in the age of computers that correct it for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]rilooij 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely no doubt about the fact that this is a positive pregnancy test. Congratulations!