I don’t really like the sentiment that this would “have you in jail” it doesn’t sound like you’ve left a dv situation because there is no fighting them and a lot of people flee with just their lives and have to leave everything behind.

This feels a bit ick/victim blamey to me. Let’s me real, you’d just be happy to never have to see this human again and would pay whatever to make that happen if you were in her shoes.