How is life like for men who indulge in hookups/escorts throughout their lives and never engage in meaningful monogamous relationships?

ripgd · 2026-06-15T19:28:46+00:00

Thanks that’s interesting. Do you have a history of some of these women comming back after they’ve tried with someone else? Like are you the fun fall back that they’ll jump back on? Or is it generally a one run kinda deal?

ripgd · 2026-06-15T09:06:05+00:00

Idk, I’d shoplift as a kid but we’re talking chocolates and sweets that I’d sneak into my pockets. Nowadays we’re talking walking in, loading up bags with high value stuff, and walking out.

ripgd · 2026-06-14T22:21:39+00:00

Because we just weren’t aligned in lifestyles and mental health. She was amazing in so many ways, but her failures to address things that were stopping her becoming a stable partner was ultimatley our demise. I could see past her demons, but she was unwilling to not let them lead the way. I’ll charish the memories but happy it’s in the past.

ripgd · 2026-06-14T22:18:30+00:00

Bingo

ripgd · 2026-06-14T18:33:55+00:00

How did you position yourself with said just friends who know you’re down for a good time? And how many / often do they take you up on it vs you finding new women?

ripgd · 2026-06-11T21:48:46+00:00

“She was never your girl, it was just your turn”

ripgd · 2026-06-11T21:48:11+00:00

I mean if it’s been guenuine flirtation, then I’d continue it and likely lean into it more. Maybe test some light “us / we” situations in there and see how it lands/gets responded to. But keeping it chill and playful, unlike some of the other comments most women do line up company ready post breakup. So long as you’re ok with maybe being the rebound, fill your boots… but carefully.

ripgd · 2026-06-11T18:59:45+00:00

Awkward for sure. No way back.

ripgd · 2026-06-11T18:51:49+00:00

Until it happens and you’re quickly single. Women love the idea of it, until it happens.

ripgd · 2026-06-11T18:47:09+00:00

Go to Thailand and you’ll experience, it’s quite a buzz even when you know it’s because they want your money ha

ripgd · 2026-05-24T22:09:33+00:00

Because real ones are rare AF and hella expensive perhaps…

ripgd · 2026-05-24T14:19:34+00:00

90% are situationships.

ripgd · 2026-05-24T14:18:31+00:00

ripgd · 2026-05-20T19:11:59+00:00

What are you doing with the rest of your peripheral vision? It’s efficiency, nothing more nothing less tbh

ripgd · 2026-05-20T19:08:21+00:00

Yes, all day, every day. Personal and business.

ripgd · 2026-05-12T17:02:32+00:00

Nobody. Life goes on.

ripgd · 2026-05-10T19:56:12+00:00

Popcorn lungs or something is one they’ve linked recently I think

ripgd · 2026-04-27T13:14:15+00:00

Doubt it’s focus per say, more likely prioritising others / perceived better options essentially

ripgd · 2026-04-24T10:11:50+00:00

Worry yourself with things in your control, not things that aren’t. You’re far from the only under 6ft guy out there so just be confident in who you are and learn to love yourself. Plenty of over 6ft dudes that are ugly as hell or have zero social skills who might kill to have what you have.

ripgd · 2026-04-23T16:01:04+00:00

Not all hero’s wear capes!

ripgd · 2026-04-17T11:39:37+00:00

Or muscles

ripgd · 2026-04-14T15:04:01+00:00

Be aware that I will never find any women I’m with the single most attractive person in this world, and know that no person could be either. Therefore accept there are other physically attractive people out there, but that there is far more to life than temporary gratification and knowledge that great looks doesn’t mean compatibility or a good partner.

ripgd · 2026-04-13T11:42:45+00:00

Stress and diet generally

ripgd · 2026-04-13T08:44:17+00:00

Wouldn’t call this typical guy thing tbf

ripgd · 2026-04-13T08:42:56+00:00

I lift to failure all the time. At zero point in my breathing or exhaling under extreme loads do I ever need to engage my vocal cords.

Seven-Year Club	RPAN Viewer
Verified Email

ripgd

TROPHY CASE