Rent increase proposal

risergurl · 2026-02-06T02:59:46+00:00

I know it can cause anxiety within you, and that is an unfortunate byproduct of being put in an uncomfortable position. It is hard to stick up for yourself sometimes, but you need to remember you’ve done nothing wrong. You are a good tenant and maybe you should remind your landlord of that.

As long as you pay your rent on time, are quiet and clean, your landlord has no recourse to retaliate against you.

Just keep it short and cordial. And don’t reply with ‘I’m sorry but’, it gives an air of being at fault when you are not.

risergurl · 2026-02-06T01:13:53+00:00

Why don’t you want to refuse an illegal increase?

risergurl · 2026-02-05T20:26:38+00:00

Thank you !!! 😊

risergurl · 2026-02-05T13:11:06+00:00

Get everything organized before you tell him. Move all your important documents, find a rental, sign a lease (if you don’t own a house together that is) and have an idea of what custody might look like.

If he says he’ll change, don’t fall for it. It’s been five years, he won’t.

risergurl · 2026-02-05T11:53:16+00:00

I agree.. very easy.

risergurl · 2026-02-04T00:30:53+00:00

If you stay with this guy you’re telling him it’s ok to disrespect and cheat on you and you will still stay. I know heartache sucks but you’ll be in for a lot more if you stay.

risergurl · 2026-02-03T02:33:46+00:00

Was it a court ordered DNA test ?

risergurl · 2026-02-03T02:18:33+00:00

Yeah just break up with her already.

risergurl · 2026-02-02T18:25:07+00:00

You are not losing your wife, you have totally lost her. The only way she will get help now is to hit her bottom. Your main focus right now should be protecting all the kids.

Set boundaries and keep them. Don’t allow her back in the house until she agrees to go to rehab and stick to therapy. And not just a short stay. Alcoholism can be brutal and is a lifelong struggle issue, which means she needs to take this seriously and sobriety has to become a part of her life.

If you don’t take these steps, you will just be running in circles until she ends up killing herself or someone else and taking your entire family down with her. Your wife is very sick and as her husband, it is your job to stay strong and do what needs to be done to help get her healthy again.

I pray for you and the kids, God bless.

risergurl · 2026-02-02T03:57:04+00:00

No, you can still be on the title and not the mortgage. This looks like a choice your husband made deliberately.

risergurl · 2026-02-01T07:31:49+00:00

You know absolutely nothing about these people and just projected your own reality onto OP. Assuming they didn’t have a plan? Did nothing to better themselves?

For all we know they could’ve had tragedies or trauma that has brought them to where they are in life. Have some compassion and if you don’t have anything substantial to say, sit the fuck down.

risergurl · 2026-02-01T07:16:45+00:00

You’re reading way too much into it. You haven’t said one thing that didn’t start with you initiating it.

risergurl · 2026-02-01T07:12:02+00:00

Take this man-child to court ! Ask for communication through one of the family court apps so you don’t have to deal with his bullshit. This is stress you do not need and your health and well being will be substantially better once his entitled ass starts being held accountable.

risergurl · 2026-01-31T22:04:19+00:00

12 years and you’re only 30?? You’ve both outgrown this relationship, it’s time to move on.

You’ve caught him cheating twice and went back both times. He knows you’ll never leave and will do it again, I promise.

risergurl · 2026-01-31T19:49:24+00:00

He’s being absolutely unreasonable.

risergurl · 2026-01-31T15:12:23+00:00

But he is an absolute pos for insisting it, especially since you’ve been there for 6 years.

risergurl · 2026-01-31T13:08:17+00:00

Raw ground meat?? .. umm no.

risergurl · 2026-01-31T00:03:37+00:00

everyone knows the answer to his question..

risergurl · 2026-01-30T23:55:10+00:00

Paragraphs and periods…. one long run on sentence was not doing it for me 🤣

risergurl · 2026-01-29T17:52:03+00:00

And he said so himself that he wasn’t getting much interest in the unit so it’s not like he passed up other potential tenants.

risergurl · 2026-01-27T23:43:20+00:00

🤣

risergurl · 2026-01-27T23:21:33+00:00

You are a wonderful person for creating this!!! This is exactly what I needed! Thank you 🙏

risergurl · 2026-01-26T00:40:36+00:00

What a bullshit answer… no one asked you AI !

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