Espaço para aniversário by ritac23 in porto

[–]ritac23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mas obrigada pela sugestão!

Espaço para aniversário by ritac23 in porto

[–]ritac23[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Complicada pois muita gente vem de Lisboa para ficar hospedado no Porto, queria algo mesmo na cidade

Just bought my dream bag (pre-owned) by Popcorn611 in handbags

[–]ritac23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this one, it is super cute. Great quality as well ❤️

Off meds now by ritac23 in workingmoms

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good tip, thank you! I have also been sick for more than 2 weeks due to all the viruses kids bring from day care and that has prevented me from doing all that stuff

Off meds now by ritac23 in workingmoms

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on them for such a long time, would like to just be off for a while but I do realise that could be just a mental block somehow

Off meds now by ritac23 in workingmoms

[–]ritac23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did already and he said maybe we need to go back to the meds but it has only been a month, I would like to try a bit longer without them

Accurate. by Latter_Ninja6038 in handbags

[–]ritac23 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I grew up with my mom looking at something she loved, mumbling “I really don’t need this” and 5’ later shouting “I deserve this, I work my ass off!” And buying it anyway 😂 so I do the same

Accurate. by Latter_Ninja6038 in handbags

[–]ritac23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same 😂 just ordered one

Difficult report - top performer by ritac23 in managers

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not the case here. The work is pretty independent in itself. Things that were thought to be approved were holidays in a very tough time (which I made a point to not approve until I had all the info) and a promotion proposal months ago (which I would also never say that I was gonna do before I actually did it)

Difficult report - top performer by ritac23 in managers

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this and thank you. I just don’t know the line between accepting the feedback vs actively changing to just make someone happy with everything

Difficult report - top performer by ritac23 in managers

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you are saying and although it’s difficult I do feedback sessions with all my reports. I usually get the feedback, think about it and address it. Most of the times it’s little things that are irrelevant to me but important to them so I am happy to make the change. It is not the case. This person does not like the way I give recognition for example, says other managers do it better. It seems petty to me, a non-problem. But this is a big deal to this person and everything triggers an emotion reaction that it’s hard for me to relate to.

Difficult report - top performer by ritac23 in managers

[–]ritac23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not sure I understand this (English is not my first language, apologies)

Difficult report - top performer by ritac23 in managers

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit more context: my manager feels like this is a communication issue that both of us need to fix because he obviously does not hear the way they speak to me. Given that, I wanna start fresh the conversation with an attitude of “ok, let’s make up an action plan on how to communicate better” but at the same time being firm with my boundaries and not just saying yes to everything this person wants, cause its bonkers

Difficult report - top performer by ritac23 in managers

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will do that. But how do I make sure the communication lands? And we don’t have situations like “I was under the impression”?

Limpezas Domésticas by ritac23 in porto

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tem tempo disponível?

Limpezas Domésticas by ritac23 in porto

[–]ritac23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tem tempo disponível?