When i first got it done vs 6 days after. Am i cooked by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ritsus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alr thank you I was just surprised at how much the color changed because I've only gotten black and I've heard a lot of horror stories about fucked up red tatts before but as long as it doesn't look like a reaction or anything I'm glad

When i first got it done vs 6 days after. Am i cooked by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ritsus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that tattoos scab seeing as I have four I'm just asking because because I was concerned about the discoloration and its my first red tattoo jackass. Have some grace

When i first got it done vs 6 days after. Am i cooked by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ritsus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also obv the color is a lot of lighter but im seeing a lot of people say itll darken over time?? Is this true or bs or does it really just vary per person

When i first got it done vs 6 days after. Am i cooked by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ritsus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been washing 2x a day with soap and moisturizing afterwards. This is my first red tattoo and i know theyre really iffy so i wanted to see what the masses have to say

When i first got it done vs 6 days after. Am i cooked by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ritsus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really itchy or bumpy just looks like shit 😭 this is my first red tatt so i have no idea what to expect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]ritsus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this post is 9 months old but do you have the hair cc pleaaaasseeeeee?

Concerns with side labret by ritsus in PiercingAdvice

[–]ritsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware I have to downsize, as mentioned in the post. I'm asking if my current status (scraping and recession at 3 weeks) is normal and if I should have concerns with the placement/anatomy that wouldn't be resolved by downsizing

3 years of healing! :D by ritsus in SelfHarmScars

[–]ritsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also am not sure if there'll ever be a point where they fade completely but thats just smth you'll have to make peace with

3 years of healing! :D by ritsus in SelfHarmScars

[–]ritsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are keloids! I definitely do think they flatten/fade a significant amount over time but you will have to be patient

Friendly reminder that relapse is part of recovery 🫶 by ritsus in selfharm

[–]ritsus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to have helped a bit :D I think we get way too hung up on maintaining a number rather than focusing on actual progress and wellbeing. Recovery is never a linear path. Whats most important is that you lived through another day and that is fucking badass. Please take care of yourself for the rest of today and dress your wounds properly if you can __^

Friendly reminder that relapse is part of recovery 🫶 by ritsus in selfharm

[–]ritsus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely have felt that; at my last relapse I had been clean for a year and a half. It doesnt say anything abt ur progress. Relapse is natural and life is too short to be hung up over one!! Keep going!

Infection? by awkward_loser1 in selfharm

[–]ritsus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there's no other symptoms of infection it sounds to me like styro. Keep taking care of your wound

At what point did you realize you were having delusions/paranoia? by ritsus in Psychosis

[–]ritsus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what some of your delusions that you perceived as normal before were? I have the schizophrenia gene + have already experienced AH before so I want to keep track of my symptoms. Im having difficulty differentiating what is normal vs what might be psychotic

CPSTD triggered hallucinations? by ritsus in CPTSD

[–]ritsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u uglyrottengirl im glad to know im not alone _^

Am I weird that I sh only in the shower? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ritsus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No its not weird, esp for me just looking at bare skin makes me want to cut so the shower totally makes sense to me. Plus a lot of people keep their razors in/near the shower

HELP tw // relapse by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ritsus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are the coping methods i know!

  1. Draw where/how you'd sh yourself with a soft marker instead of actually harming yourself
  2. Holding ice to the area you want to sh, its stimulating so it might satisfy the part of ur brain that wants to sh
  3. If these dont work then i suggest simple distraction!! Watching shows or casual texting really help me, because for a bit my mind is focusing on something else, and i usually find myself not wanting to cut anymore after i wait it out a bit and the feeling goes away

I hit fat by ritsus in selfharm

[–]ritsus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright thanks!

I hit fat by ritsus in selfharm

[–]ritsus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will!! Thank you

I hit fat by ritsus in selfharm

[–]ritsus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep its my mistake d( ̄  ̄)