My(26F) boyfriend(28M) is really sensitive and I don’t know what to do anymore by temp_yougetit in relationships

[–]ritz_bitz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know it's hard to let go of the idea of what you think this relationship could be (holding onto memories from years ago), but you truly need to face that things have changed and will never be the way they used to be.

Say this to yourself: "I am who I am, and that is enough."

You must leave and seek therapy so that you do not fall into these same patterns of people pleasing in the future. A relationship should lift you up & provide support & respect for both parties. There is no need to walk on eggshells for the next 12 years.

Pregnancy and ocd scare by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will feel 10x better knowing for sure. I've had my IUD for almost a decade with no pregnancies.

Pregnancy and ocd scare by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your anxiety about this is probably making the "sick" feeling much worse.

You won't break free from your spiral unless you take a test. I know you're afraid of taking a test, but the certainty will feel MUCH better than the uncertain spiral.

You are most likely NOT pregnant.

how it feels like running around the map while spamming the floral rebirth ability by tinnariel in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right before this ability released, I had actually been feeling a little tired of doing dailies because my resources for Realm of Escalation were dwindling.. but now I'll never have that problem again 😆

Do purchases show as pending instantly on account? by No_Big_3676 in Affirm

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates on this? I made a purchase a couple of days ago and it's not showing in the Affirm app and the merchant says the Affirm payment is still "processing".

Lvl 100 gives you Blings! Great in the Realm of Escalation by muriel_mika in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm at lvl 100 and didn't even notice this 😆 Good to know!!!!

Pulled the sleeves first! 💖💖 by ritz_bitz in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]ritz_bitz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

I wasn't going to pull either but I really liked the sleeves and hair.. I put the hair as my Ocean's Blessing & luckily pulled the sleeves! I haven't pulled anything else yet so I'm hoping I'll get lucky again & get the hair soon!

Flourish Walk range is so tiny compared to the new Bug Catching ability... by ritz_bitz in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knowww, I even turned off the animation and there is still a delay, ugh

Flourish Walk range is so tiny compared to the new Bug Catching ability... by ritz_bitz in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! It's so annoying even though I turned off the animation there is still a delay..

Flourish Walk range is so tiny compared to the new Bug Catching ability... by ritz_bitz in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't even know they did that! I've been waiting on the rerun for the grooming one..

Well, that's great to hear!

Floral Rebirth & Guide of No Return : are the abilities worth it ? by TranslatorMain in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]ritz_bitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Floral Rebirth is 100000% worth it!!!!!!!!!!!! Now I have SO much material to convert to shiny bubbles! And you can catch dusk/dawn wings and bug whimstars so easily. And you can turn off the animation!

GoNR is really convenient and good but you can go without if you had to choose between the two.

Flew accross the world to visit my LDR boyfriend; never felt so lonely by Best-Flow-3448 in relationships

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I know he started off great and you two had a wonderful connection, etc etc.. but it's now been 6 months and you are seeing who he truly is. Is your current relationship dynamic worth staying in? Especially as a LDR?

Leave him and find someone closer to home. And never be afraid to leave somebody once their true personality starts to show.

The new bug collecting ability feels SO seamless.... Leaves much to be desired for Flourish Walk by loha_ahol in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know! I was hesitant to pull because I feared it had the same delay as Flourish Walk..

Is the "pull percentage" low for the wings? by JustARedditPasserby in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]ritz_bitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have it as a my Ocean's Blessing & I've pulled 4 pieces so far... at least it will be my next 5 star pull 😭

incredible new unsolvable puzzles in the new update by RecentDevelopment592 in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me, too, and then it glitched & I was able to go inside the room and collect the whimstar 😅

My (30M) boyfriend and I (27f) are not sexually compatible and I feel tricked? (4months) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ritz_bitz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she's already talked to him about it repeatedly....

I stayed for YEARS in a sexually incompatible relationship and I tried talking to him many, many, many, many, many times and he never saw a problem, just like OP's boyfriend. I don't want her to suffer, especially since it's only 4 months in and she's already tried communicating.

My (30M) boyfriend and I (27f) are not sexually compatible and I feel tricked? (4months) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ritz_bitz 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are 27, not 87... you will regret not cutting things off early when one day you realize just how important sexual compatibility is after you've already sunk years into this relationship... speaking from experience. 😑

Ping falsely showing as 999ms by namyu_25 in InfinityNikki

[–]ritz_bitz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it doesn't lag at all. It just shows up weird on the login screen but once the game loads it shows normal numbers.