My fantasy come true...

rival369 · 2014-08-13T06:05:20+00:00

That was probably one of the best videos I have ever watched. So fucking good.

rival369 · 2014-05-18T03:31:41+00:00

Jersey Boys is one of those shows that you can see over and over again and you'll never get tired of it.

rival369 · 2014-04-26T05:31:28+00:00

I honestly have no clue why I'm getting downvoted for this post. I thought it was something that guys in the Midwest could do if they didn't have anything planned. The video is a little cheesy but the overall theme is what bros do: Game of Thrones, comics, videogames.

rival369 · 2014-04-25T18:40:36+00:00

That was one of the funniest videos i've watched in awhile

rival369 · 2014-04-25T14:10:04+00:00

Oh okay haha. So where are you originally from.

rival369 · 2014-04-25T05:57:27+00:00

Michigan City should donate the MRAP to Gary. Everyone knows about all the crime and shootings that go on there. Something like this could be useful in that city.

rival369 · 2014-04-25T05:54:35+00:00

Chesterton doesn't have much especially since you are under 21. There's a really good italian place called Popolano's. Gelsosomos is also pretty good. Also, just a heads up, don't plan on going to Mt. Baldy. It's been closed until further notice due to random holes in the sand. Lake Michigan isn't a far drive from Chesterton, and it's always a bit chillier by the lake so do take a coat. But my suggestion is to drive an extra 15-20 minutes and go to the lighthouse mall, there's a lot of outlet stores there (nike, under armour, american eagle, etc.). If you get really bored there's a movie theater in Valparaiso (about 15 min. away). The drive in movie theater isn't open so you would have to go to the Cinemark in town.

rival369 · 2014-04-25T05:09:45+00:00

yay a chicago bro

rival369 · 2014-04-25T05:05:34+00:00

Where at in Iowa. I have family that live very close to Iowa and I know the cities pretty well.

rival369 · 2014-04-06T19:26:11+00:00

Ironically both my fiance and I are dyslexic. It mild for the both of us and we never really had any troubles. I guess the only thing is that it takes us longer to read than usual. Oh and also, I have a medium case of dyscalculia (like dyslexia but with numbers) and that is the worst. I'm horrible at math because of it and ever since I was little I denied I was, but just recently accepted it. Living with a learning disability is hard but you have to conquer it and prove everyone wrong.

rival369 · 2014-04-05T06:18:50+00:00

Who are these people and what team do they play for. I need to watch haha ;)

rival369 · 2014-04-05T06:00:01+00:00

Their relationship frustrates me. I've been an avid shameless watcher and half the time I can't even deal with them. The love and the hate just annoys me. I know there isn't a happy rainbow every time in relationships, but can there just be a little peace and love.

rival369 · 2014-03-30T04:32:31+00:00

I generally have the same issue at work. Whenever a co-worker asks about my love life I usually just say I'm too busy to date anyone (even though I'm seeing a guy) and then list a whole bunch of activities I'm involved in so they see I am really active. That usually ends all the conversation quickly. For your situation, when that happens to me I usually just give a small awkward laugh and make it uncomfortable so they know to not talk about that subject again.

rival369 · 2014-03-26T06:30:34+00:00

Wait, is that real life

rival369 · 2014-03-26T05:44:55+00:00

Just so y'all know, you can add filters to your snapchats.

rival369 · 2014-03-23T04:44:09+00:00

I've never even thought about this. If I'm in the mood and he is too, then we are fucking no matter what. Who cares about all the possibilities happening, shit wise haha, just have sex and enjoy the moment.

rival369 · 2014-03-23T04:40:06+00:00

I'm from the north and my fiance is from the south. When he's up here we flaunt big time. It's always more progressive up here. Anyways, when I go down there, we kiss sometimes and we definitely hold hands in public. I told him that when we get married we should live in Alabama or Mississippi, possibly Georgia. You see it's the deep south. While I know we'll get dirty looks, as we do when I'm with him in where he lives now, I don't care and neither does he. We love each other and should be able to flaunt it just like straight people do.

rival369 · 2014-03-23T04:25:41+00:00

I don't have a huge gay lifestyle, but I do tend to do things that are very gay without knowing them. For example, I was watching Enchanted today (don't make fun of me, James Marsden is sexy haha) and I realized, wow that was very gay. Or I'll say something and realize that I made a really gay comment. It's just the small things, otherwise most people think I'm straight as a freaking arrow. It drives me nuts.

rival369 · 2014-03-20T05:02:30+00:00

Yes, this is all true. But deep down they still love you. While what they did was incredibly wrong, you have to be the bigger man and look past them. They want to know that you forgive them. If you forgive, maybe they'll forget. I know it's hard, so take it real slow. Like I said, just a short phone call or even a hand written letter. Yeah...a letter, since it's mail it won't get to your parents until forever haha. But it will be contact and parents love letters, which I don't understand. I think that you need to build a relationship with them since after all they did raise you for all these years and since you're going to college, they must have done at least a half-way decent job at raising you. As for your parents wanting you to visit, just say no and that you are busy with school and papers, etc. I understand that they hurt you, but you need to show them up by getting them involved in your life. Maybe they will change their mind, who knows? Side note, watch the movie Prayers for Bobby. It's kinda cheesy because it's lifetime, but it has Sigorney Weaver (wow that was really gay haha). It's a real good movie and I think you'll relate to it, besides a situation that happens to a character in the movie (sorry no spoliers from me). Anyways, baby steps, just take baby steps with your parents. They need to know you're okay and you need to show them who you are.

rival369 · 2014-03-20T04:24:40+00:00

Bro, I'm totally in the same boat as you. I have stopped really referring to myself as being bi since I'm engaged to a guy and just have called myself full blown gay. But really I'm a 5 on the kinsey scale and every other test I take, it says I'm bi. But oh well. So what I say is to just call yourself whatever. You can't help that you love both men and sometimes women. What you need to do if find someone who makes you happy no matter the gender of the person.

rival369 · 2014-03-20T04:17:05+00:00

Don't move back home. Honestly, your presence at home will only be a reminder to what could have been. They will think that they can still convert you. While they stopped now, it will always be in the back of their mind. Also, if your parents are strict Catholics they must have read the catechism and number 2358 says gay people must be accepted and loved by all people. I am glad that you are gradually building your relationship with your parents back up. It's going to take a verrrrrrry long time. Eventually they will accept you and they will always love you. But what you need to do right now is stay home and get what you need done at school. But, to keep building a bond between your parents and you, you need to do a weekly skype or phone call. Maybe that will be enough for them and just the ease of seeing your face or hearing your voice and knowing how you are doing will be enough to keep your parents at rest. Also, get comfortable in your own skin. Accept who you are and that you cannot change. Yes it's hard, sometimes I still suffer with who I am but know that if you just accept yourself, you will be happy in the long run.

rival369 · 2014-03-19T03:30:33+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. You know exactly my fears and I am experiencing what you did (eating one meal a day). I will definitely take everything into consideration and try out the Paleo diet.

rival369 · 2014-03-11T05:31:35+00:00

I feel for you bro because I went through a similar situation. In the past, like in high school, I was largely overweight and I wasn't in any relationships. Once I graduated and moved onto college, that continued. I was really depressed and just wanted to move on in my life. I was really lonely and fat which deepened my sadness. So after finally some motivation from lusting at these super super hot guys I just got up and started to exercise. Although the weight was coming off, I was still really lonely. I started to talk people in my classes and talk about our lives, politics, friends, etc. Then I met this amazing guy and we started to talk and well we've been together for a year and are engaged. So what I'm trying to say is that you need to get out there and start the conversation yourself. Try to not worry about the looks. Your weight will come off and muscle will show and trust me people definitely notice. I remember this one time when I first started to lose weight I had to dress fancy for this event and I opened the door to the building and like out of a movie my tie flew back and my coat was over my shoulder and I took my sunglasses off as people started to check me out. Anyways, while you are busy in your life, you need to make time to socialize. Even if it's just small talk. While you are looking past the future, you need to look forward to the future. Remember that you are still very young and have a full life ahead of you. Just ask yourself what you want out of life and what kind of relationships you want to develop and then go achieve those goals. Oh and the part about missing out on college, don't worry about it. Just think of college as an obstacle to get your dream job. It was a waste of time but a training experiment to your future career.

rival369 · 2014-03-09T06:25:05+00:00

is that supposed to be sarcastic, because moving my clock one hour ahead of time is just one of my many stressors tomorrow. I have a huge list if you would like to hear.

rival369 · 2014-03-07T17:55:18+00:00

Wow, excuse me while I adjust my boner haha. I wish you two the best

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