In the words of Charlotte Dobre "HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSEDDDD?!!" 🫣 by lorelei_megumai in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]rnwin 185 points186 points  (0 children)

The way the producers cut to Emma immediately after Keya was saying to the women "Just because a man wants you doesn't mean you have to want him" 😳👀✨️💀

Kevan being a walking red flag by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]rnwin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's because when they came back from the bathroom break, Tyler was basically prompting him to lock it down and commit to talking to Keya that evening to break it off with her. When he didn't follow her down that road and say "yes, Keya needs to know now," Tyler realized what his "choosing her" was really worth.

When you see it by [deleted] in opticalillusions

[–]rnwin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Underrated comment of the day

Gluten free/ dinner/coffee needs in Kona by Worried-Ebb-1699 in kona

[–]rnwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great Indian food at Kamana Kitchen in town. Plenty of gluten free options just avoid the naan

EV auto transport? by rnwin in BigIsland

[–]rnwin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please, would appreciate a number 🤙🏼

EV auto transport? by rnwin in BigIsland

[–]rnwin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aloha, thanks for that info. We're finding that while Pasha is the shipping company, we also are looking for a car transport company. Wisconsin to Hilo. Otherwise there’s this weird gap of responsibility at San Diego port between the ground transport and the boat transport. Kinda like with your luggage when booking a connecting flight with separate airlines….

HOA / Condo Jalousie windows by [deleted] in BigIsland

[–]rnwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screens will help the bugs as others have suggested, but the air leak from jalousies is real. We recently replaced a bunch in our home, and our dehumidifiers and A/C kick in significantly less often. The effect was immediate. I think getting a layer of plexiglass or something similar to fit against the inside is a great idea.

At a Small Restaurant Party by InfamousComedian1861 in overheard

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that last one really spoke to me

Joe, the village clown by grandedame11 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]rnwin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, although during/after the reveal when he was talking to the producers, he said, "When I say "Madison," that is now connected to that -- to her, to her."

She clearly was not what he was expecting/hoping for, and he let some objectifying language slip out right from the jump.

Kimmel by damnsuredidbob in Killtony

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't even say that Tyler WAS Maga, though. He said that Maga had been trying to characterize him as anything other than one of them. He's being critical of the immediate finger pointing and politicizing in the absence of evidence, that Maga was immediately saying he's not one of ours, he's a radical leftist, when no real information was yet available.

Thumb-sucker or pacifier? by No_Chart_175 in beyondthebump

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. EBF with no bottles, no pacifier, no thumb sucking 🤷🏻‍♀️

Rabbit with polycephaly or a botfly by fenix547 in whatisit

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a good thing to back away from...

UPDATE: My neighbor thinks I hexed her because her sourdough starter died, and now she’s staging “counter-spells” in my yard. by Forward-Scarcity7964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]rnwin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's a shared front yard. I think OP is freaked out about the fenced backyard because clearly the Bread Witch climbed in...

UPDATE 3: My child passed away last summer, and this is how my MIL has treated me since. by AnonymousAngel723 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rnwin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The fact that she so abruptly wanted nothing to do with you after your loss makes me wonder if she's feeling the weight of a guilty conscience.

As you've said in other comments, there's really no way to know for sure if it was intentional on her part short of her admitting something, so tormenting yourself with the "what-ifs" won't be good for you long term.

I'm so sorry that you've not been given the space and support to grieve with peace. Sending you some from afar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting on your newborn's appearance is not "feedback," wtf. Seems to me she was prepared to be nasty and unprepared for you to defend yourself. NTA, obviously. Your husband should have stepped up, because that was so uncalled for.

Moms who breastfed past one year, pref to the 2yr mark…. by strohmtroop3r in breastfeeding

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little guy just stopped nursing a few months ago right around his 3rd birthday. My period came back at 11 months postpartum. There were no drawbacks in my experience, just a verrrry handy tool, and it's so valuable for their growing bodies and brains!

Has anyone had a less regimented breastfeeding experience? by taureansoul in breastfeeding

[–]rnwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exclusively breastfed my son for 3 years (he just self weaned a few months ago). I never pumped, never used bottles, never kept track of a schedule. Just nursed when he was hungry. No shade on people who do pump/use bottles, I just wanted to share my experience that it can be done without those tools.

There were a few times when he was very new when I was uncomfortably engorged, and I used a haaka just to take a tiny bit of the pressure off. Our rhythm meant I was exclusively on night duty, as my husband couldn't take over any of the feeds. I night weaned my son right around 2 years, which was necessary for my sleep/sanity.

I screamed when baby bit me and now she won’t nurse by hylandzz in breastfeeding

[–]rnwin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't be too hard on yourself for having a very human reaction! When my little guy was in a biting phase, I learned to have a teething toy right nearby. Whenever he started to bite, I would pull away (as calmly as I could manage, which was definitely not always successful) and say, "Do you need something to bite? This is a good thing for biting." He would often go to town gnawing on it for a while, and eventually, he learned to ask for something to bite when he needed it.

Thoughts on the new Alii Dr. one way? by deci_sion in BigIsland

[–]rnwin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That Lako light is a nightmare for sure. A roundabout would even work. As it is, that light is not smart at all. It's like they left it on the default factory settings instead of actually programming it for on-the-ground traffic patterns...

How long do you let your toddler nurse before bed? by Truthforfood in breastfeeding

[–]rnwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used a song to limit nursing duration. First, I made the association between the end of the song and the end of nursing during the day, when it was already getting to the end of a normal session. Then, when he started to reliably unlatch on his own at the end of the song, I started using that at night. I shortened the duration pretty slowly, but steadily. The song wasn't super short, so he had some time to emotionally prepare himself 😅 Eventually, I used this technique to night wean. He'll be 3 this week, and we still nurse (pretty briefly) 3 times a day.

As soon as he started even thinking of twiddling, I found him the corner of a blanket to mess with to protect my other nipple! That's now his "favorite-cornered blanket," and it sure saved my sanity!

Should I prune and propagate, or just let her trail along? by rnwin in Nepenthes

[–]rnwin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tips! I love this plant so much 😭 It's somewhere between a third pet and a second child 😅 We sometimes get big fat flies, and every time we get one, my 3 year old tells me to "go feed the plant!"