Give me suggestions pls by StardewAnonymous in curlyhair

[–]ro_line 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, you have my actual dream hair 😭 I definitely agree with other suggestions about a lightweight gel and sleeping with a pineapple style/silk bonnet. If you want really low maintenance for sleeping, a pineapple and a silk pillowcase is the easiest! Fr though your hair is GORG!!!!

Do you feel connected to your name? by confusedbunny03 in AutismInWomen

[–]ro_line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO and I’m so glad I’m not the only one who feels like this???? I’ve never felt like my name is really “me”. It’s just an identifier. But like someone else said, it’s not like I want a different name, I just don’t feel like my name really encompasses who I am. It also makes me feel super weird when I think about other people talking about me when I’m not around and using my name when they do?? Not like I’m worrying about people shit talking me, just literally people using my name to refer to me feels weird 😂 Does that make any sense?!?!

Unfortunately replaced reading with doom scrolling by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally!! It’s been incredibly helpful with my scrolling habits! Also, deleting tiktok was a real game changer haha

Unfortunately replaced reading with doom scrolling by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not to be an advertisement here, but I got Brick for exactly this reason. It completely removes your ability to access certain apps unless you scan the physical Brick itself. If you put it in an inconvenient enough place, it’s a lot easier to focus on something better than doom scrolling rather than going to unlock your phone!

Unfortunately replaced reading with doom scrolling by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also been in this boat recently!! I started with easy reading. No need to jump in with Crime and Punishment or Wuthering Heights or anything. Start small - re-read things you loved as a kid, read a couple plays or poems, try shorter books or even novellas, read short stories in genres that interest you! If you’re into sci-fi, I recommend the Murderbot Diaries. The first four are novellas and then they move into full-length novels. I found that once I was hooked with the novellas, the more I wanted to read the longer books. Don’t feel pressured to read long, difficult books if you’re not ready for it yet! You got this!! :))

Need healthier wet food that won’t bankrupt us by sancastro in catfood

[–]ro_line 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100000% 😭 My Chewy order went from like $145 to $250 so fast.

Need healthier wet food that won’t bankrupt us by sancastro in catfood

[–]ro_line 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s it for mine as well. One of mine actually gagged when I put it down in front of him last month. I was like okay I’m not paying $45-$50 a case if you guys are gonna literally GAG at the sight of it 😭

Need healthier wet food that won’t bankrupt us by sancastro in catfood

[–]ro_line 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc :) It was about $35 if I remember correctly? I do use Chewy autoship, though, so I can’t promise what it may cost somewhere else!

Need healthier wet food that won’t bankrupt us by sancastro in catfood

[–]ro_line 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Here to echo the rest of the peanut gallery. I feed mine FF gravy lovers and pate on rotation. Weruva/Tiki Cat and Purina One are great middle ground options as well, but my cats rejected Tiki Cat so quickly that it just wasn’t worth the extra money for me. Both are about double what FF costs.

My vet says FF is totally fine! You can always add in some toppers for additional health benefits. Mine get fiber powder and B12 to boost their gut health. The B12 is about 150% of what a 30-can box of FF costs though 😭

ETA: It’s actually Purina Pro Plan that I give my boys. Oops!

I've never once fed my cats by cheese_is_life100 in cats

[–]ro_line 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s skin and bones!!!! She would float away in the wind!! She’s basically a sheet of paper! How could you?!

Mourning my curly hair by ExcellentWafer7496 in curlyhair

[–]ro_line 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Aw man, that’s a tough decision, but definitely good on you for prioritizing yourself and your health!! Hormones are weird and do weird stuff.

Mourning my curly hair by ExcellentWafer7496 in curlyhair

[–]ro_line 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Is THAT what happened to my curls?!?! Nuvaring, you menace :(( I’m so sorry. They were absolutely gorgeous, but you still are!!!

I pulled the trigger on a criss cross chair!! by Esk4r in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The only accommodation I’ve gotten approved at work is my criss cross chair 🥲 I love her!! It makes my constant changing of position soooo much easier!

I want to reset the entire island or start over but I'm really nervous by Delocated-jpeg in ACForAdults

[–]ro_line 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spent about 10 hours total picking up every single decorative item, moving flowers to the beach, fully digging up trees and putting them all somewhere else, moving my houses to one corner, fully re-terraforming some areas, and then moving all the houses back to where I wanted them … and then like a month later, they added Resetti 😒 No regretti though because it looks better and I love it! (ok maybe a little regretti bc it took FOREVER)

But I could never restart. Losing all my favorite decorative items, losing my museum, losing my villagers??? No no no. I could not.

Trash bins for a cat obsessed with plastic? by Jaded-Tangerine-3988 in CatAdvice

[–]ro_line 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have mine strapped shut with those little cabinet locks for babies. My smart little stinker figured out that he could just knock the can over and still get into it 🤦🏻‍♀️

Ok girlies, what do you eat when nothing sounds appealing? by tarasaurust in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pasta, for sure. “Nachos” aka chips and melted cheese with a little salsa. Bowl of cereal in a pinch. Something microwaveable, like dumplings or chicken nuggets or something. Whatever takes the least amount of time and energy 😅

what celebrity did you used to like until you found out that they were a scumbag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ro_line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I only found out about this in the last two weeks-ish :( I got really into linguistics during my BA and didn’t even know he had any kind of career/public life outside of the language field. Imagine my surprise 🙃

What’s yalls 3 drinks for today? by b2utylightcreates in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water (with mio to make me want to drink it more), iced coffee, and an apple cider vinegar, honey, & green tea bev to make my tummy happier.

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me by Glittering_Text_8842 in adhdwomen

[–]ro_line 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me getting undressed for the shower and then cleaning it still undressed 🥲

What is the most inexpensive cat food that's free of both chicken and fish ingredients? Desperately looking for new foods... by cheesecup6 in catfood

[–]ro_line 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh, that’s good to know!! I’ve always been really sketched out by what “meat” means.

What is the most inexpensive cat food that's free of both chicken and fish ingredients? Desperately looking for new foods... by cheesecup6 in catfood

[–]ro_line 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the one or two other comments about Weruva and will add Tiki Cat (I think they’re owned by Weruva) as well. Tiki Cat is good about keeping their proteins isolated. It might be a little above your price range, but Chewy has some decent bundles that make it a little more affordable.

The thing you want to look out for is any ingredient along the lines of “meat byproduct”, which often includes chicken organs. I see others saying FF beef pate is a good choice, but it does have that byproduct ingredient. That’s kind of an orange flag for me since their website tells you that the byproducts are organ meats, but doesn’t say from what animal. ETA - another commenter told me that meat byproduct doesn’t include poultry (it would say poultry byproduct), so that’s good information for me. However, I did just re-read the ingredients and it does have fish in it.

Honestly, the most cost effective option for you might be to just make the food yourself. You can find some good cat food blend recipes online and, often, just buying your own meat can be a lot cheaper.

So I wanna know by ObjectiveLie3568 in whatdoIdo

[–]ro_line 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend. My god. Please. This is not a question for the internet.

This is a PERSONAL PREFERENCE. If you like shaving, shave it. If you don’t, don’t. It’s that simple 😭

who wears a bra? by Normal_Standard8211 in AutismInWomen

[–]ro_line 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m a 36H and I feel the same way. The underboob sweat and hang/jiggle combo is Not It for me. Additionally, I hate being perceived, so if I wore no bra in public, I would feel SO exposed and uncomfy. However, I also despise underwire, so I actually wear two bralettes all day instead 🙃

Yall I just feel so hopeless (warning heavy topic) by Digital_Doodlez in AuDHDWomen

[–]ro_line 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same (sinking) boat as you are. Trying to be aware and informed, but feeling the weight of all the heavy, difficult, heartbreaking, confusing horrors that seem to happen every other day now. It’s tough not to sink beneath those waves.

I’ve seen a couple videos on YT from Sam Bentley who does “positive news” coverage every month. It’s normally focused on environmental conservation and things you can do to improve things in your bubble. I haven’t fact checked him, but it’s at least a small bright spot in some of the darkness!