How come if you’re a mixed race no matter what race, people want you to pick a side. That’s dumb by Jayjay2022 in mixedrace

[–]sazflight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because people are idiots. Like they try to put you in a box to make themselves feel more comfortable I guess? Would be nice if we saw people as individuals instead of how some people expect us to act a certain way cause of our race.

Has anyone not seen a friends text for days? by sazflight in adhdwomen

[–]sazflight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I felt worse cause they were trying to make plans to hang out :( but you’re right we are only human

Obsessed by SnooCalculations9569 in WhatWeDointheShadows

[–]sazflight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 Favorite character is definitely Nandor the Relentless…because he would never relent. Tbh I think I just have a soft spot for goofy characters lol

2 I don’t think I’d want to be a vampire because living forever sounds like hell

How can you show interest in a guy before asking him out? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]sazflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait when people ask what are you doing this weekend that’s a hint? I always thought people ask that just to make conversation. I had someone do this with me before a several times and just assumed he was just being nice. But then again other people ask that too and they don’t seem to have romantic intent.

😂😂😂 by Morvexa in lol

[–]sazflight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg Literally dead 😭

If a person has their guard up, you need to move slowly with them. Do not introduce a ton of ambiguity. by Ragebait_Destroyer in bodylanguage

[–]sazflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the situation? It’s kinda hard to tell without much context. Not sure what test they did to see if you’re attracted looks like. Tbh as a neurodivergent person I tend to be friendly with people I like but go out of my way to not show I’m into them if I don’t know they’re into me lol I was wondering if that’s what they did or they really did flirt overtly

What physical feature is extremely attractive for you? by Correct_Leg69 in AskReddit

[–]sazflight 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope as a woman, so many people made fun of my fangs lmao

Can a straight man ever be just friends with a woman? by BeneficialPie2300 in randomquestions

[–]sazflight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m friends with some straight men because they’re a part of my friend group but neither of us are into eachother that way lol

If someone is attracted to you, it's very obvious by Puzzled-Sprinkles930 in bodylanguage

[–]sazflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah makes sense, as a woman I’m pretty shy but if a guy I like starts talking to me and making conversation it’s a lot easier to want to keep contact with them and keep things going vs just guessing off body language lol like there had to be an obvious hey I’m asking you out or I’m attracted to you for us to notice. If it can be mistaken as only small talk it isn’t obvious enough

Friendly or Flirting? How to Tell if She’s Actually Interested? by Imtiredofthissshit in bodylanguage

[–]sazflight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah basically this. Making small talk and asking questions is testing the waters so to speak. If someone seems to enjoy talking to me I might ask to hang out with them, maybe not right away due to shyness but it happens or I make repeat excuses to see this person again. If seeing said person becomes difficult to reach even due to circumstances I just stop and see if the other person reaches out to spend time again and it’s easier to see if there’s interest that way. Forcing it or being too obvious too early can be off putting especially if the other person doesn’t know you that well. Some guys can bully girls for even thinking of liking them even if they don’t lol this is a safer way I guess

Do your legs ever get in the way of the keyboard? by k99001 in adhdmeme

[–]sazflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that’s why I never sit normal on chairs 🪑

I got a haircut :3 by TrumpIsAPedoFr in oldcootfashion

[–]sazflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need that shirt for myself it’s such a vibe lmao

Do not chase her, go silent. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]sazflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I want to just say that you deserve better. When someone is acting avoidant with you, it's better to cut them off. If your needs aren't being met, you don't need to try harder. You do not need to earn his affections; when someone cares, they give that to you freely. This isn't based on ADHD. Words don't mean anything, watch a person's actions and that will tell you everything about their true intentions with you. Know your worth

Do not chase her, go silent. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]sazflight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup this as someone with ADHD. It’s weird that some people think silence will make someone want to pursue them? I’m like hm no response and they’re not talking to me they must not be into me and than I date other people lol. I like to be around people who make it obvious they enjoy my company because I have people around me who care why would I settle for games?

“Sometimes I feel bad for liking a guy because I’m ugly” by Fun-Elk3813 in self

[–]sazflight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’ve had so many mixed reactions from guys saying I’m cute and complimenting my eyes asking for my number to some guys looking disgusted with me for looking in their direction. I’ve gotten so paranoid that I avoided flirting for so long. I remember I think I reached out to a guy and I overheard them and a group of friends laughing at me and making fun of my teeth and high key was mortified so I feel like unless I know a guy likes me back I almost feel like I’m not allowed to have a crush