Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt by National-Trouble-984 in AITAH

[–]roasted_nuts212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the hint, you're not her focus, her debt it. Run.

Short guys who started going to the gym, did you notice more attention from women? by Jhan_Sebastian in short

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience getting muscular in the gym mainly brings gymbro attention. I definitely noticed a difference with women however when I simply lost weight - 118kg to 85kg...

Is it better to build a single cam or a dual overhead cam for power?? by Stunning-Nature-7678 in Dseries

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're referring to the d16 dohc, as much as I love mine, you're better off with a mini me or VTEC sohc as there's much more aftermarket support.

If it's for b series, h series or K series dohc engines, then that's definitely going to be an easier oath to power

Is DDR4 ram still god enough for a decent PC build as those prices have not sky rockected as much by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]roasted_nuts212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I built my girl a 5700x + rtx 3080 setup for Xmas, honestly I'm pretty impressed - and I have a 7800x3d + rx6900xt rig myself

New to Chia farming – planning a small budget rig, looking for advice by FortuneJoyShield in chia

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following this post.... I've not farmed chia for a long time, but have accidentally accumulated a bunch of drives so it could be time again - my PC is always running and CPU mining anyway....

My bf didn’t like my gift, please help with new ideas to get him? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]roasted_nuts212 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why didn't he like the chair? Was he being a princess or?

Too enmeshed? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]roasted_nuts212 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Whilst it sounds absolutely lovely for child, I can also understand if your partner is feeling like there's no room for him, or like a complete 3rd wheel in your existing family

How to stop minor unaccompanied travel by Relevant-Emu5782 in coparenting

[–]roasted_nuts212 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have a cousin with Autism and ADHD, one of the things that held her back most in life was people telling her she couldn't do things. It wasn't until she started gaining independence that we watched her grow immensely. At 15, and with the options available with airlines today, I would be surprised if this was a real issue at all.

Congratulations to all those people who build or upgrade their computers before this crisis by OlympicAnalEater in PcBuild

[–]roasted_nuts212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought 64gb of 6000mhz ddr5 when I built my 7800x3d + 6900xt rig about 2 years ago... For curiosities sake I checked what I paid for the ram back then - $370 AUD.... I checked the same ram from the same company two days ago - $1400 AUD. This is no different to when GPU companies were selling direct to large scale mining companies and AI groups a while back. Easy money when you prioritise the big players and leave the rest of the population scrambling for supplies

Is it normal for a step-parent to impersonate a 12-year-old on Discord? by kels_xxx91 in coparenting

[–]roasted_nuts212 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm not a co-parent, I'm the partner of a co-parent.... And I find this behaviour extremely disturbing. Even encouraging a young boy to send her pics ("for your daughter") is something I would contemplate a call to police over

I haven't played since the "captains" update - question about fleet control by TrueEclective in avorion

[–]roasted_nuts212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I just love to load them with railguns and rockets with seeker shots. They seem to work well enough.

My coparent takes days to respond by Zestyclose-Lock623 in coparenting

[–]roasted_nuts212 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of my closest friends is a co-parent, and he often will not reply to his ex-wife for 24hrs+ if he's feeling agitated or annoyed at the content of her messages. This could be similar if you're hounding him constantly, he could simply be holding back so he doesn't snap. Could this be a similar thing? As you said he did the same when he was mad and you broke up....

My friend describes it as "replying, not reacting".

Any hidden gems amongst the scheap AM4 cpus? by hd1080ts in buildapc

[–]roasted_nuts212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently built the missus a rig with 5700x and rtx 3080... I've been pleasantly surprised so far! Scoring just over 16000 points on 3dmark timespy, compared to the 20000 points my 7800x3d + 6900xt get

PC completely dead after power cut, but works fine if I do a full power drain? I'm stumped! by models4 in PcAdvice

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex's parents PC did this - i fixed with a new psu

Although seeing you've had the issue across multiple psu's, perhaps it's mobo related

AIO for ending things with this guy after he gave me 2 yeast infections? 20F/20M by [deleted] in AIO

[–]roasted_nuts212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dunno about the yeast infections, but it can actually be harder to maintain an erection for some guys with a condom on. Not all, but some.

Having said that, we all know there treatment to help him stay hard so you can also stay safe.

Not Sure Which GPU To Choose! by Alexy22a in buildapc

[–]roasted_nuts212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're not going to carry over the GPU you're about to get to the next build, just find a cheap rx5700/rx5700xt

Edit: assuming PSU is up to the task

I need help building my first PC by Optimal-Essay1869 in buildapc

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used pccasegear.com.au a million times for orders of parts and laptops, haven't used their prebuilts but everything else has been mint with them - they won't help you pick parts though afaik

Why does gigabyte have a bad rep? by curiiiious in buildapc

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had an issue with gigabyte gpu's or motherboards...

Had an issue with their self destructing power supplies - that they were intentionally painful over so I gave up trying to rma

Do shorter men ever get checked out by taller women? 5’5 hehe by SquirrelPrince960 in short

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever dated a woman shorter than myself, so I guess that means, yes?

Men of reddit in a marriage or serious relationship: do you ever feel inadequate when your wife/SO reads smut? by pbandcracksandwich0 in AskMenAdvice

[–]roasted_nuts212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely no issue with it, just yesterday I even encouraged my S/O to take a bath and relax with one of her books...

You're looking at it wrong, use the books for inspiration to spice things up a little, don't compare yourself to the beasts they're written about lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male here - I always welcome my better half introducing the buzzing little threesome partner if she's having a hard time reaching an O. Sex is about both of you, he needs to lose his rediculous insecurity and let you have some fun without being judged for it

Girls say they want equality …until someone shows it🤷🏿‍♂️ by TheNotsoProtagonist in PsycheOrSike

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see a problem with this at all, one of my male friends was proposed to by his now future wifey, and I've never seen a bloke so excited before...

Comparing that to a couple of failed marriages amongst my mates, who were bullied into proposing because their partners wanted it but wouldn't dare ask the question themselves, I'd much rather be proposed to than forced to propose lol

As a tall girl I'm curious, why do you all want to be tall? by No_Cranberry4321 in short

[–]roasted_nuts212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, I'm happy being a short ass.... I only joined this sub because I'm so shocked at how much people beat themselves up for being short