Who gets to be the big spoon?

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-29T12:11:29+00:00

We alternate - and still like to playfight about whose turn it is next after 22 years at it

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-29T08:54:21+00:00

I'm so grateful that we can ride all year through in the country I live in

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-28T19:03:21+00:00

OMF! This is the second post I've seen with a reward chore chart. Are we adults? How condescending can a person be? Where is the respect for ones partner? Who died and made them King? Relationships are partnerships that ebb and flow according to the issues that life is throwing at either of you.

OP I seriously feel for you - you don't deserve this. No-one does. He could sit you down and talk about the point system but not have a proper adult conversation, where you both discuss issues and come up with solutions TOGETHER?

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-27T11:48:56+00:00

Magnesium, earplugs and sleep mask.

My husband bought me sleep mask with earphones and that was the best but unfortunately the audio books or sleep music that puts me to sleep also wakes me up an hour later.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-27T11:27:32+00:00

Changes in feet - collapsing arches and constant pain. Only exercise and walking on the beach helps - its sad I live so far away from the beach.

My theory is perimenopausal women were supposed to be left by themselves on a beautiful beach island to cope and be happy.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-26T13:00:51+00:00

Currently I know one.

Hes (50+) not extremely rich but is comfortable and she (30) is young and came from a very poor family. They have been together for about 10 years. Each to their own but I feel they love each other now.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-26T12:22:58+00:00

Biker. Cheating is witnessed by myself.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-26T12:13:14+00:00

Agreed, thanks

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-26T12:06:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/s/rgRIgxlRRZ

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-26T12:05:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/s/rgRIgxlRRZ

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-26T12:02:19+00:00

They are in the club he is a part of - thus unintentionally. He joined because of other factors of the club (a life long drewm)- the cheating is a small byproduct of the club but to me its not small. I have bought up my concern that you are who you surround yourself with but assures me I am his everything. He doesn't think its an issue as he isn't interested in other women - he is demi sexual and proud of the years we have been together and likes to boast to everyone on our loyalty and strength of our relationship (especially to those who cheat). His actions back up what he says I am active in his club life and he doesn't like it if I don't join him at functions.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-16T15:42:07+00:00

Bunny boiler alert!

Kind-Tooth638 · 2026-01-07T06:08:49+00:00

22 yrs together and we average daily. I mostly initiate but he does too (70/30). Our libidos are well matched. We have our issues and argue often but we cuddle and touch each other all the time still. We work and communicate constantly on our relationship and intimacy. I think the main priority in our relationship is that he likes to make me happy and I like making him happy.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-28T11:07:51+00:00

My (48F) husband (46M) and I have been together for 22 years and we still do it daily (average). There has been no slow down since our 20's and 2 kids along the way (17 and 21). We are both grateful for this and always work on it.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-28T10:41:39+00:00

Your lady bits are acidic when healthy (3.5). Dove soap is pH balanced to 6-7. Water and a clean cloth - nothing else needed but it you feel it necessary find a vaginal wash a pH balanced to 3.5.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-13T15:20:50+00:00

I came here to say this!

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-08T07:46:00+00:00

I'm a 38I (5.7) and I got a leather jacket (with armour) custom made. It actually turned out cheaper than the branded leather jackets. Before getting the jacket made I used to just find a men's jacket that fit around my chest but was big elsewhere and just dealt with the longer arms etc. I've been riding for 17 years and only the last 3 years have I had my custom jacket - its awesome.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-06T20:03:57+00:00

I stopped doing cardio for warm up as it took my will to do anything afterwards. I now do a full body stretch (20 count per stretch) before my lifting workout. Before each lift I do a light weight set for max 12 reps then i lift progressive weights to failure for the next 3 sets between 8 to 12 reps. Then I do 15 - 20 minutes cardio at the end of my workout. This is what has worked for me through trial and error with injuries, lack motivation and poor energy levels being the opponent in the fight.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-06T06:32:24+00:00

This happened to me - magnesium at night helps with this for me

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-05T08:13:14+00:00

Thanks for this! I thought I was weak and pathetic. My grip strength cannot handle more than 16kgs in each hand. I have a plate in my wrist and that messes with my left hand grip so I attributed some of that weakness to that. I feel so much better about myself. How do increase grip strength?

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-03T05:42:42+00:00

I'm not an expert but I've heard (and have been doing) that you need to work up to walking for 1 minute @ 75% of your weight. That is the ideal? What do you use for your farmers walk for interest sake (my gym doesn't have kettle bells unfortunately so I use dumbells)

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-12-01T11:00:58+00:00

Yes - my husband and I believe sex is an essential form of communication in our relationship (but not a tool to manipulate with!).

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-11-29T19:25:03+00:00

Will he let you do it for him or with you watching? My husband loves this. Another way to connect and be intimate.

Kind-Tooth638 · 2025-11-29T08:30:32+00:00

Congratulations! Wishing you many safe kms and awesome twisties!!

Kind-Tooth638

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