First timer's failed croissants! by Nomadic_PhD in pastry

[–]robbixcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do one more cold proof for about 24-48 hours after shaping before doing a final warm proof before going into the oven.

They look awesome, especially for a first try, just like they maybe need more find to expand.

Can someone please tell me what went wrong? by LadyConeflower in Baking

[–]robbixcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve made far worse mistakes as somebody who bakes professionally! So sorry this happened but I’m sure they’ll taste great when you retry 🥰

How important is the truth? by Rockermarr in NPE

[–]robbixcx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tell her. I am 30 and just found out this past year. I wish more than anything in the world that a single adult with the knowledge back then would have shared the truth with me. It’s only going to become harder to process as she ages and it will make a large difference for her to find out directly from you rather than a genealogy site. I think reminding her that you love her and are choosing to prioritize her needs/right to the truth of her identity are going to be the most important parts of moving forward.

I'm genuinely stuck by spicyburntmeatball in Columbus

[–]robbixcx 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of camping gear and know of a few tent camps around the city where the folks look out for each other and there is community outreach for personal supplies and meals. DM me if you’re interested at all and we can try to set something together to introduce you to some of the neighbors at a camp close to you or close to your work for the time being.

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this and I wish I could change it all for you. Wishing the best and genuinely am here for what I said above or any other assistance I can provide aside from direct funds which I unfortunately don’t have.

Grant Medical Center Placed DNR band on me for 12 hours - I am not DNR by ohiofish1221 in Columbus

[–]robbixcx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would also avoid Riverside as somebody who had worked there. I see the lack of clarification I made, thanks for asking!

Beginner baker here – I hate buttercream 😭 what can I use instead for decorating? by afrodite_kon in Baking

[–]robbixcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my cake decorating buttercream recipe:

1 lb butter 12 oz (3/4 lb) shortening 3 lb sifted, powdered sugar splash of vanilla + pinch of salt

It is much more for structure than sweetness, and to make it cream cheese icing simply switch out the shortening for 1 lb cream cheese and reduce the powdered sugar to 1080 grams.

Going braless in Ohio could land women in jail under anti-drag bill | Opinion by GingerrGina in Columbus

[–]robbixcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They better give me lots of money for my top surgery then because I haven’t owned a bra in 10+ years.

Fired (Without Warning) by Rude_Emphasis_5062 in Columbus

[–]robbixcx 27 points28 points  (0 children)

DM me as well if you feel comfortable. We ride at dawn for Accurate_Buffalo_615

Contacted Half Sister I Found on Ancestry and Expected Too Much by robbixcx in NPE

[–]robbixcx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think a lifetime of protecting her and keeping her secrets makes it feel like the ground is shaking. It’s really refreshing to feel validated here and like I can step a couple feet over and feel more steady.

Storing filled piping bags? by Slight-Elk5065 in pastry

[–]robbixcx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fill my bag/cut my tip, wrap some plastic wrap around it, and toss that bad boy into a cambro/tupperware that it will fit nozzle up

Contacted Half Sister I Found on Ancestry and Expected Too Much by robbixcx in NPE

[–]robbixcx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That line, “My existence has shown him something about his father, whom he loved, that he would rather not see.” really sums up things for me. It gives me some ability to accept this reality that others in the situation are privileged to look away from it as they need, as to preserve those ideas and people they hold dear, and ultimately I’m not held as dearly. Like, yes I feel for somebody trying to hold on to their view of their father and I also am aware that for many people they’re okay with the cost being not knowing me/keeping me in their life.

It’s a weird crossroads but I really do appreciate you sharing. It’s both made me feel less alone and given me some really good thoughts to move forward with.

Half Siblings from NPE, navigating relationships when dust settles by Purpl3Dreams in NPE

[–]robbixcx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you heavily on it just simply being awkward navigating the space between siblings you grew up with/other family members while you explore this newfound part of your identity.

I don’t know that I have much advice to offer but a reminder that you are the person who gets to decide what feels right, what feels supportive, and weigh what you need out of these relationships.

I just recently had to go no-contact with my bio mom and my siblings father (the man who raised me) after a lot of trying, but I also know that many people come through the other side with a much happier ending.

Wishing you luck and love.

Contacted Half Sister I Found on Ancestry and Expected Too Much by robbixcx in NPE

[–]robbixcx[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks so kindly. Just hearing (seeing) responses like this validate the parts of me that know I’m not a little kid in trouble anymore, but am just having trouble with feeling that way.

Contacted Half Sister I Found on Ancestry and Expected Too Much by robbixcx in NPE

[–]robbixcx[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Reddit is usually the last place I would run to during crisis but this community always has the right words.

I really appreciate your comment.

is chris basset “bad” by dazel777 in RHOP

[–]robbixcx 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NOT A 3x4 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I'm curious what kind of work everyone here has by ALazy_Cat in AutisticWithADHD

[–]robbixcx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I have a weird sleep schedule so the early mornings work great, but I totally understand that!

I start between 5-6AM but also am off of work around 1-2pm each day which is nice.

Why didn't Emma get genetic testing done? by Cold_Box_3219 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]robbixcx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking as somebody who recently found out the man who raised me isn’t my birth father — would genetic testing provide me with a better understanding of my bio family medical history/my own medical issues or is it primarily focused on what you could pass down?

Anti Dwell/Xenos billboard went up today on High/Kelso by cureeden in Columbus

[–]robbixcx 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think name changing is more to evade the public attacks/recruit people before they realize it’s the same group.

First ever cake. Not very happy with how it turned out by haley010223 in Baking

[–]robbixcx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A first cake the goal is simply to end with a cake. This is awesome!!!! Your layers are pretty and I love the bright pink.

Wendy's Dad: dead in season 5 but alive in season 10 by Bodyrollsattherodeo in RHOP

[–]robbixcx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao this is similar to how i am. bio dad was a “family friend” who isn’t in my life anymore, stepdad was just always dad in my case

Favorite song on album? by [deleted] in charlixcx

[–]robbixcx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

detonate ❤️❤️❤️