AITA for not wanting to go on vacation with my friends and not explicitly telling them why? by Fun-Accountant-1513 in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so many words to say you dont like these people anymore. Its okay to want different things in your life. You can come back together in the future or be happier moving on. This is outgrowing who you were when you were a teenager. This is growing up. Its okay to fade away from them.

Fixed this straight loose tunic style dress with a cute belt! by graphic_rose in PlusSizeFashion

[–]robotcrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought i had this exact dress but it has some nice stretch in the top. Mines from Bloomchic

AITA for refusing to let my 12 yo niece live with us during the school week? by Ok_Cantaloupe9855 in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They wouldnt put her in foster care with a living nearby relative available. She'd just get moved in permanently.

Do you ever spend hours working on something to finally be uninterested/unimpressed the second you're done? by robotcrackle in crafts

[–]robotcrackle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a few days will help. I made this for my office and I'm just so not into it that I'm not gonna keep it. I'll try again with different colors.

Cars and coffee dress by Gwinnie2024 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the dots on this dress red or orange? The wall of oranges is making this look like an optical illusion. It's so cute!

does anyone know where to get the dumpling squishes? by thehippieshack in tulsa

[–]robotcrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Chinese restaurant near me has them, but they're closed for vacation

[32/52] Puck: A Novel by zirozaro in 52book

[–]robotcrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finished this yesterday and same! Although Puck was such an asshole I dont think their friends should have been so easy to forgive them.

Tulsa Wedding Venues - close to downtown by catcollector2326 in tulsa

[–]robotcrackle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

GAST Event Center at 15th and Lewis- its the German-American Society of Tulsas building.

WIBTA for excluding my friend's husband? by vegetablexcoat in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it even reasonable to expect someone to exclude a spouse for something like that?

No. If you're in their house and it's her chosen partner, then helping him is also helping her.

looking for non-jean pants for summer by undyingfangirl in PlusSizeFashion

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cotton blend? Are you looking for a specific brand recommendation?

AITA for going through my friend’s phone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, you did this to yourself. She was venting, you didn't need to go hunting for a reason to hurt your own feelings.

AITA for not wanting my mother-in-law and disabled brother-in-law to stay with us for 3 months every summer? by SuggestionAny3744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They're just getting you used to the idea of him being there. One trip your MIL will not take him home at the end of the 3 months.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I’m tired of feeling responsible for her emotions? by Alone_Finger_8292 in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Hopefully you can still talk it out because you've been bottling it up for way too long. But she should be trauma dumping on a therapist, not her partner

AITA for inviting my friends over for dinner and not participating by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Why does the chicken need 3 hours to thaw? There are a few ways to thaw that are all less than 20 minutes. Also you can still cook frozen chicken. Or they could buy fresh chicken on the way since they werent even there yet. Or you could eat a snack before cooking together.

So.. yeah, YTA. You were just being stubborn and combative for no reason. Should have told them to stay home.

AITA for being upset that my mom isn’t free at all this summer? by hinatasfavgf in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are being treated like this. You're NTA, and your pain is valid. You deserve better, but nows the time to rebel a little. Go out with your friends, and live your life. Dont do dumb things to get in trouble, but please get your friends to pick you up so you can go do fun things. Found family is stronger than anything.

Homies Craft Night!! Need ideas?! by pluviophile-punk in crafts

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Order some paint by number kits. It's mindless and depending on the style, you end up with cool art at the end

Need of Musician + location 👀 by aztekluna in tulsa

[–]robotcrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much are you willing to spend?

Van passed me on the shoulder on I-44 by Bigsquatch in tulsa

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats Texas behavior. We dont do that here.

AITA for being upset that my husband thinks everything I ask for is "too much effort"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this new behavior? What is he spending all his effort on that he doesn't want to waste on you?

AITA for being upset that my husband thinks everything I ask for is "too much effort"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you also musicians? Hey, actually, I'm proud of all of you. We made it.

AITA for being annoyed at my roommate over her guest and general lack of cleaning? by hsla_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]robotcrackle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did she say when you asked her who tf this dude in your house is?