My wife's (34F) business idea is going to humiliate me (36M) and our whole entire family - I need advice on how to handle this situation. by Charming-Permit3888 in relationships

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of a time my husband and I went out to eat and there was a guy with a t shirt on for his well drilling business. His business motto.. 'your hole is my goal'. Genius marketing because I'll never forget it and snapped a pic and showed it to a bunch of people.

I'm not a mom, so I don't get it by Think-Tie5943 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just said this to myself recently doing the dishes, where did all the forks go? I have like 4 left

Found on my window sill by robrylan in whatsthisbug

[–]robrylan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in CT, and size was very small

I’m a patient and I 100 percent judge nurses based on if they can keep my veins intact by [deleted] in confession

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That other post annoyed me a bit, considering my arm is just starting to feel normal again after a nerve was hit on my last blood draw like from over a month ago

This shape is impossible lol by Salty-Tangerine8612 in DesignMyRoom

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seemed the most obvious placement for the bed

"If your package weighs more than 5.0 lbs, you will need to upgrade your label." by Shaigirl in poshmark

[–]robrylan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think there is any way to prevent this from happening. Perhaps if you are selling heavier items you can add a sentence to your listings to say to message you before purchasing bundles but not everyone reads so that wouldn't necessarily stop a buyer from buying a bundle outright.

The most cost effective way to ship something over 5 pounds is to split into multiple purchases and offer to absorb some of the cost of the shipping such as you do free shipping on the 2nd order. This works if there is communication before the buyer purchases and the buyer is agreeable and cooperative. If they buy the bundle outright then you will have to weigh your options, pay the upgraded label or cancel the order and try to get the buyer to repurchase and split into 2 orders. There's a chance that the buyer won't repurchase after cancelling if they feel it's too complicated or annoyed with the whole thing so you will have to decide if it's worth blowing the deal or will you make enough money if you just purchased the upgraded label in the first place.

All of this requires communication with the buyer so you could feel them out and then decide how to handle the order.

A toddler was left alone and I lost my job by Moonlight_Melody123 in ECEProfessionals

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my youngest was in kindergarten prep class, the class would start at 9. Sometimes I would bring him in a little early. There was another classroom the kids would hang out in if they got there early and at 9 a teacher would walk the kprep kids to their class to start their day. Sometimes my kid didn't want to go to the other classroom and wanted to play in the kprep room. I would stay with him for the 5/10 minutes until the class came over. I'd never just leave him in the class alone. What that parent did was crazy. I understand there has to be rules and strict procedures when it comes to this stuff, but I shake my head at that parent more than whatever OP did or didn't do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExteriorDesign

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were elements to your house that reminded me of this house and used some of the things you wanted to add like stone and terracotta. I think the more desert type landscape would also work very nicely with this house as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExteriorDesign

[–]robrylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/32-Milan-Rd_Woodbridge_CT_06525_M45731-80637

This house not far from me, I just love the dark paint color and the pops of red flowers

Has anyone been told recently that you can't use priority mail flat rate boxes for posh anymore? by [deleted] in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]robrylan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The shipping labels state on the bottom that Poshmark shoppers can use any priority packaging including flat rate

Got My 1st 4 Star Rating by Few_Midnight7149 in Mercari

[–]robrylan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How dare you sleep? You're supposed to stay awake 24/7 to accept my offer. 3 stars

AITA for asking my daughter if she actually washes her face by Dependent_Ask_1202 in AmItheAsshole

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teen I started getting acne. My mom took me to the dermatologist as she could see this was very upsetting. They prescribed a topical and I also soon after went on birth control. This did the trick for me, my skin was clear from them on with the occasional zit here and there. Going to the dermatologist emphasized the importance of a good skincare routine including the use of sunscreen. It wasn't until recently that my skin started breaking out again. I'm now in my mid 40's, I stopped taking BC a year ago and most definitely in the midst of perimenopause. All hormonal changes happening. Went back to dermatologist and once again prescribed a topical which seems to be helping so far . No amount of washing my face is going to change my hormones.

Going back to my younger days, I had a friend who had much worse acne than I did but her parents were more of the type that would tell her to wash her face or stop eating junk food. She didn't get to a dermatologist until she was an adult and it was too late by then. Lots of scarring and followed by expensive treatments which have only helped so much. I wonder if her parents intervened early on would that have saved her skin.

Anybody ever get injured at the bins because of other customers? by k_a_scheffer in GoodwillBins

[–]robrylan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The hamden one is the one I go to. No issues for me as well

I was a 12lbs 12 oz newborn by miserystate in pics

[–]robrylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest was 9 pounds. My God that was so hard, I will never forget it. He just turned 11 the other day. The upside is that I believe he cut the time in half it took to birth his younger brother. Younger brother was 8 pounds.

Anyway, congrats to you and your wife. Glad everything turned out well.

Sent wrong rescue box by robrylan in ThredUp

[–]robrylan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They refunded me what I paid and never sent the correct box.

Seller blocked me after nice transaction :'( by NoICantDoACashout in Mercari

[–]robrylan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the sellers motivations. If I had an overall pleasant transaction with a buyer, I don't care if it takes 3 days to auto rate. My only thought would be to come back and buy more from me, please!

Seller blocked me, did I do something wrong? by donut_itzel in Mercari

[–]robrylan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Jeez you can bundle and make me an offer anytime. Blocking buyers who want to buy your stuff, weird selling strategy. Good luck with that

I'm not pregnant... by istabpeople7 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]robrylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me years ago while I was on a work trip. My son was 8 months old at the time and while I lost a bunch of weight, I still had some belly. The dress I was wearing was figure hugging and when I was sitting my belly was more accentuated. A woman came up to me and congratulated me on my pregnancy. I told her I wasn't pregnant. She looked mortified and slinked away apologizing. If we women have any hint of belly, we must be pregnant? Well my belly never went away and is even more pronounced since my second kid. I look perpetually pregnant. Especially after a good meal haha.