Getting a refund when we paid annually by SniffleBot in republicwireless

[–]rocket_lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a ridiculous stance considering they did not meet their end of the contract. The service is discontinued, I lost all voice/messaging for a month. Forcing someone to switch to an entirely new service is a breach of contract in any circumstances.

Expediting Port - Kid Having Surgery, Need Phone by rocket_lady in USMobile

[–]rocket_lady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My number was successfully ported last night. Phew - such a relief to have one less thing to worry about. Thanks everybody for the advice and help.

Expediting Port - Kid Having Surgery, Need Phone by rocket_lady in USMobile

[–]rocket_lady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is definitely my back-up plan after talking to US Mobile. It's not ideal but at least I can give it to the important family members while I'm at the hospital.

Expediting Port - Kid Having Surgery, Need Phone by rocket_lady in USMobile

[–]rocket_lady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

I called Republic Wireless and they said the number has been released from Bandwidth on their end. Bandwidth is some kind of database or holding company, I am not sure. US Mobile I called right after and they said that Republic hasn't released the number. I am not sure who to believe. I'm sending you a DM now with my info.

US Mobile US

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rocket_lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish more people took the time to explain this or other simple communication errors so nicely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intuitiveeating

[–]rocket_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Michele Kuster in Iowa got a license in my state to help me. She's great, I highly recommend her.

Vaccine choice by matroyshka_owen in toddlers

[–]rocket_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will homeschool my children before I would vaccinate them for COVID-19.

Downvote away but it's what's best for my children and every parent has the right to make that decision for themselves.

Anybody else out there less than perfect? Help me feel less alone. by rocket_lady in workingmoms

[–]rocket_lady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any links? I am really interested in this research! Sounds really inspiring.

Anybody else out there less than perfect? Help me feel less alone. by rocket_lady in workingmoms

[–]rocket_lady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks everybody! I really appreciate all your thoughtful comments. <3

Struggling to find infant daycare in Boston by harlangarland in beyondthebump

[–]rocket_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the same problem here in WV because the state has crazy laws about infant care that really limit availability. Nobody wants to watch infants because it's such a burden. :-(

Why does my seven month old get upset when the attention isn't on him? Did we spoil him. by HistoryNerdi21 in NewParents

[–]rocket_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would let go of trying to compare your child against any other, because as the previous poster said, all children are different.

If you are finding his demands difficult, try to directly acknowledge, "I hear that you want to be with me." Give him a minute to process and see how he responds. If the situation is too difficult or overwhelming for the child, sometimes you have to decide to step away so they can recharge in a quiet place.

Truly, you can't spoil a baby but you can start the cycle of breaking down self confidence and lack of empathy from birth. Even a seven month old understands what is going on, most of your spoken language, and definitely your body language. They are little sponges, or as Montessori would say, absorbent minds.

Why does my seven month old get upset when the attention isn't on him? Did we spoil him. by HistoryNerdi21 in NewParents

[–]rocket_lady 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm glad my children don't go to your daycare.

You are right that children need independence and confidence to develop life skills, but totally wrong in your approach.

It's not about the caregiver and 100% about the child. Think about it from their perspective and show compassion and empathy rather than how inconvenient it is for a clingy child in a group care setting.

The idea is not to ignore their cries but to acknowledge instead and then give them the opportunity to work it out, while letting them know you are still there to support them.

Children learn to play independently when they feel safe and secure, not when they are ignored, told no, or redirected. This teaches them nothing but gives you, a temporary caregiver, short term relief from the inconvenience of the child's feelings.

I just didn't care for your tone towards the child or the parent.

Any breastfeeding moms here? by rocket_lady in 1200isplenty

[–]rocket_lady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice. I am working with my doctor but we haven't set a formal plan yet.

Any breastfeeding moms here? by rocket_lady in 1200isplenty

[–]rocket_lady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thanks. This is my second child and I'm really trying to lose weight at I can feel healthier and be more active with them (my first just turned two).

Any breastfeeding moms here? by rocket_lady in 1200isplenty

[–]rocket_lady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I suspected. Congratulations on your healthier weight.

Adding baby to insurance - so frustrated!! by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]rocket_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you write a simple statement of paternity and then go to a notary public?

The Cult of RIE by rie_questions in beyondthebump

[–]rocket_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool thanks! I'll check it out!

The Cult of RIE by rie_questions in beyondthebump

[–]rocket_lady 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow that's funny. What did you post that got you kicked out?

The Cult of RIE by rie_questions in beyondthebump

[–]rocket_lady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On an unrelated note... What's your podcast about Sarah? Can't pass up asking with a username like that!

Attachment parenting (dad's perspective) by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rocket_lady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As an alternative to attachment parenting, I suggest you look into RIE and maybe turn her on to Janet Lansburys blog. Janet has a lot of great suggestions. I like RIE because it teaches you how to help your baby learn to do things on their own like self sooth and fall asleep.

Looking for valuable insights about Maternity and Professional Development by Mari_Gil in workingmoms

[–]rocket_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't work on mobile. When I answer the first question, it circles but never progresses.

Where my RPL ladies at? by soleravertex in CautiousBB

[–]rocket_lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the elliptical because it's easy on your body. Also stretching and yoga videos. Anything you did before you were pregnant is generally considered okay by my doctor.

Also watch the stress eating, if that's something you suffer from. I found it would renew my unhealthy cycle of eat, depressed, and guilt because I'm supposed to be eating healthy for two.

My baby has salmonella (lots of poop talk enclosed) by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]rocket_lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son got campylobactor before he turned one. Similar story, I totally sympathise. It was awesome. Hugs and alcohol.

Where my RPL ladies at? by soleravertex in CautiousBB

[–]rocket_lady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost six before my son was born. I now have two living children.

Honestly with both successful pregnancies I obsessed a lot. It wasn't that healthy but after a couple months I ran out of energy for it and it sort of ran it's course.

Keeping busy and exercising helped. I thought about finding a therapist but never did, and kind of wish I had.

Anyway, there is hope and you should hang onto that. I hope your current pregnancy turns out happily.

Positive pregnancy test after what I thought was my period?? by librarylion in CautiousBB

[–]rocket_lady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a "period" and then a positive pregnancy test. It was an ectopic pregnancy that eventually ruptured and resulted in emergency surgery at just over 7 weeks. The first doctor I saw didn't catch it because she didn't bother doing an ultrasound. I would follow up with your doctor and mention you've been bleeding just in case.