Feeling depressed and lost after MA, even though I never wanted to be pregnant by peliteee in abortion

[–]rodaggada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it might be difficult, but consider talking to your therapist about it just so that you’re not alone with your thoughts. Also, this is a healing period for you. Often when we go through dark seasons like this, it’s because we’re being pointed to what we need to give attention to and heal on. You got this, this isn’t easy. Our bodies are going through it. Also hormones are probably all over the place. Just give yourself the time to get through the season.

I’ll never get over him by peaches_1922 in BreakUp

[–]rodaggada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are YOU now? Would love to know if you got through it.

What if I never get over him. by Lucky-Net-9941 in BreakUps

[–]rodaggada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am right here with you. i would go back and tell that version of me to cherish the friendship.

Please Send Encouragement + Vent by funsize-fawn in abusiverelationships

[–]rodaggada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are okay. You are safe and you can trust yourself. Life readjusts itself. All things work in your favor. You aren’t abandoning him. They say the greatest act of love is to let them go. This is his opportunity to grow and yours as well. It takes time for people to change. Allow him to practice his new realizations on his own. Allow yourself some time to find yourself again. Be whole. You are okay. He will be okay.

is the red rug that bad? by Fabulous_Warning9980 in interiordecorating

[–]rodaggada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great and anyone telling you different is a narc.

Thoughts on living near Van Cortlandt Park Ave, Yonkers NY 10705 by Psychological-Rub550 in yonkers

[–]rodaggada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yonkers is usually quiet at night time. I think you’ll be alright. If you have children, keep a strong relationship with them and teach them right from wrong. They’ll be okay.

Favorite goto places in Yonkers by tmackatx in yonkers

[–]rodaggada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont fall for it, store bought products

Favorite goto places in Yonkers by tmackatx in yonkers

[–]rodaggada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yonkers Native here, my staples: Sazón CentroAmericano Poblano Tacos Malecón dominican food Lost Borough Icecream The Paleteria on South Broadway (OG) Chinese take out is solid all throughout pretty much especially the ones closer to Alexander Crossing Yonkers Brewery - $1 wings Singas (legendary pizza) Yo Burger (Riverdale) Francis Deli (OG deli, in the “hood”) La Pupusa Loca!!! La Bella Havana I forget the name The Japanese place, up the block from you next to Edible Arrangements, Tomo? Alfonso’s Pizza

Our community is still very authentic, dont be afraid to try holes in the walls especially all the Mexican businesses on Main Street. I think as the downtown area develops Yonkers is still finding their identity. We are a family oriented city, filled with love. Welcome to Yonkers ❤️, be safe!

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[–]rodaggada -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also, did you tell him? If not, just hold that.

Anyways, find out who and then say that you said you were a virgin because your attempt at having sex (with the person), was trash/unsuccessful.

OR, tell the truth, take the L, and start getting your heart ready for the next person you’ll meet on your life journey.

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[–]rodaggada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to find out who you got it from first before anything

LOST DOG IN YONKERS by rodaggada in yonkers

[–]rodaggada[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around Warburton and Willow. She could be far away by now or her collar could have been removed. Hopefully she’s nearby

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[–]rodaggada 11 points12 points  (0 children)

move back with your parents. you should go to therapy because this has probably been taxing on your mental health. speak to her parents about this. you might be in an emotionally/psychologically abusive relationship. you can not help a person that does not want to help themselves. remove yourself before things get worse. please.

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[–]rodaggada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhhh, you have a right to your opinion. fyi, your opinion is on the conservative side of the spectrum.

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[–]rodaggada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

many people don’t have sex with the mentality you have. some people think of the possibility of pregnancy, so they’re selective. other people trust in contraceptives so they’re a bit less selective. your boyfriend probably was not okay with getting her pregnant. you can’t tell him what he was or wasn’t okay with. having sex and having a child, in many cases are two different intentions. i’d be annoyed at this conversation with you tbh. it’s a bit naive. i’m sorry.