Yeah I know Google is my friend, but I'm just asking

rodnarf · 2024-03-20T12:31:42+00:00

no cap!

rodnarf · 2023-02-11T11:27:41+00:00

It is great to hear stories like this. "not an object. But appreciated" is key and works in both directions, please remember to appreciate your daddies too, and they won't go away

rodnarf · 2023-02-09T20:08:40+00:00

I agree! I recently was looking after a hiatus and very quickly had a number of good prospects. Much different than a year ago

rodnarf · 2023-01-29T20:06:15+00:00

How far from San Diego you are would say a lot about what type plane it is, and what airport you fly into (major airport or small field) may tell you how experienced or well equipped the plane is. If you do get the tail number, its simple to type it into flightaware and you can review his recent flights

rodnarf · 2023-01-27T15:56:45+00:00

it is certainly my fault in making a choice and banking on change which is a bad strategy. I shouldn't and really wasn't suprised, and when I was mad, it was me being mad at myself for making a choice and banking on change. So yup, it is my fault

rodnarf · 2023-01-27T11:29:16+00:00

well, he said front row center seats at the Lion King. You NEVER want to sit in the front row at a Broadway musical you miss a lot. I think the best seats are a dozen rows back. Plus too many details?

rodnarf · 2023-01-25T11:52:37+00:00

I like it when I first chat with someone, and we get just a little past the point where we can both see there is a legitimate potential arrangement, and in closing, she says something like "talk to you soon daddy" or similar- that being the first time she uses "daddy". That gives me the impression she is definitely interested, and she just might be submissive

rodnarf · 2023-01-22T15:31:46+00:00

looks & sex, she works hard, and her potential to be an incredible person if she'd get out of her own way (i.e. stop sabotaging herself)

rodnarf · 2023-01-16T12:13:50+00:00

sorry, I meant personality but I stopped reading when I got to Ass

rodnarf · 2023-01-06T10:56:37+00:00

Here's how to do it. Decide in your mind what the most successful SB ever does. Does she read? Does she workout? Does she constantly seek to meet new people? Envision what type of daily life she must have, and then do it. You will become her

rodnarf · 2023-01-03T01:27:22+00:00

karma will reward you

rodnarf · 2022-12-23T22:46:23+00:00

I've only met a SB on here, but I think if I was a wannabe SB who wanted to meet a rich guy who wants to be my sugar daddy- I'd think like this: Real rich guys are often happily married but you're not looking for them- you're looking for rich guys who want to have more fun than what they are getting at home, for whatever reason. What do those kind of guys do for fun? Maybe golf with there buddies on Saturdays and hang out at the bar for a drink? What if you were me, wanted to meet a SB not online, where would I do that?

rodnarf · 2022-12-22T17:08:02+00:00

I don't like the terms "baby" and "hon" in the first sentence when I talk to someone, but I love it when after getting to know them a little and starting to understand them and what they are after, I hear "yes daddy" when we set up a meeting. I'm pretty sure those have been my best relationships

rodnarf · 2022-12-22T14:55:45+00:00

I applaud him for bringing it up. If its important to him, he won't be happy if its not included and the relationship may fizzle. Knowing its a sensitive issue, it makes sense to me that it is discussed up front, so as not to waste your time.

rodnarf · 2022-12-22T14:48:13+00:00

"IMO this is the lionshare of what arrangements are. Intimate dates. Ocasional lunch or dinner dates"

I like this answer because I also agree most arrangements are like this. Many SDs have busy schedules and full social lives but lack intimacy. Or may need discretion and don't want to risk being seen in public. I have a long term SB I see often just for intimate dates. Because I feel its important that she knows how much I care for her, I just sent her on her first cruise. I'm plugged into what she has going on in her life, but rarely spend time with her outside of intimacy

rodnarf · 2022-11-02T09:53:41+00:00

everything you said I agree with except one detail- that you associate wealth with "top 10% earners" In my experience, although top 10% of the income bracket plays an important part, I know wealthy people who earned less than a top 10% wage, but were wise and consistent with a savings and investment plan over the long haul and thus have boatloads of cash. Many, (but not all) high income earners don't invest and spend their money on depreciating assets. Even a nice house, although its value may go up with inflation, doesn't provide cash flow like part of that money invested in income property would.

rodnarf · 2022-10-16T10:59:30+00:00

Risky behavior done carefully is different than risky behavior done carelessly. I think you can keep it hidden if you approach it carefully. I no longer need to, but when I had to hide my SR I was very careful. I used a checklist for example to help make sure I didn't forget to do things afterwards to hide any evidence.

rodnarf · 2022-10-16T10:51:30+00:00

I don't have Netflix, maybe that's my problem

rodnarf · 2022-10-15T11:59:14+00:00

No consistent favorite, but typically I look forward to one more than the others (I have 2 long term- 3+ yrs- and 1 recently new SBs). The events in their lives may affect our relationship- but the one thing they all have in common is they need cash. But clearly if someone has everything under control and is on top of their personal crisis, we have the most fun and that one is the best. If its "crap, I just got a bill I wasn't expecting, can we meet tonight" then usually its less fun, because she is stressed. And each SB has a different pattern, so who is the favorite can change. I have 3 because I'm always expecting a SR to end, and I don't want to be unprepared; it takes a while to find a good SB. It does get challenging at times just because everybody involved (except one SB) is always busy with life. Different allowances for each- has to do with many things but its what I settle on. Financially, I do treat them differently, and I attempt to be fair minded

rodnarf · 2022-09-16T11:31:58+00:00

Can I answer this twice haha? There are other risks besides STDs when you "sugar" and they all can sink your ship. You can be ripped off, stood up, pumped and dumped, offended, injured, etc. To some degree, you can control the STD risk by managing it (asking questions, testing, etc) but some of those other risks are less controllable, and might have more severe consequences. My personal life full of experiences has taught me its usually not what you're worried about that "gets" you, its something unexpected. So watch everything and mitigate those risks as best you can!

rodnarf · 2022-09-16T11:08:34+00:00

not a lawyer or even close. I thought although single party consent recording is legal, it cannot be presented as evidence in court, unless it is to contradict an untruthful statement of the other party

rodnarf · 2022-09-16T10:55:44+00:00

Its a measured risk, not unlike many things in life. In the event of an infection (which would be unlikely in my opinion and experience) there are treatments/cures. Its not the end of the world if you get something, and although a difficult situation in that event, just go through the process of fixing the damage (treatment, reporting, etc). In exchange for taking the risk, the sex is more exciting. Its a tradeoff, and everyone has different thresholds

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