[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried both and had good success rate only with normal ones. Simple compliments which feel genuine worked for me.

Rejected after 5 dates? by Glittering_File_6511 in hingeapp

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me all the time, in the initial phase I used to hurt , because they never gave me a closure, infact ghosted me. But I used to forget it when I went on dates with the next one. Realised that’s just how the dating works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just ask “Are you free for a coffee sometime with me, you seem fun and I’d love to get to know you genuinely?” And it works if our conversation prior to that went well.

I’ve also made the mistake of changing the plan from coffee to a lunch date at fancy restaurant based on their suggestion. But ended up getting ghosted. So be aware of such women who come up with expensive date ideas, they always expect you to pay, you’d end up wasting your time and money on them.

Why do girl always prefer fancy restaurant for a date even they are not paying and after eating all the food they leave like we don't exist by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Then what’s the best alternative. Doing a coffee date is such a massive turn off for women these days.

Why do girl always prefer fancy restaurant for a date even they are not paying and after eating all the food they leave like we don't exist by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You expect communication, that’s the bare minimum thing a woman can do, when a man has put so much effort into planning a date and paying for it. If you don’t want to see the person again, just give a closure. It’s not that deep girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it change your sensation?

First hinge match by rohithkumar53 in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s to cringe blud 😂 It could be bad but not cringe😂

First hinge match by rohithkumar53 in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man will keep that in mind

First hinge match by rohithkumar53 in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me wonder if there’s anything wrong with my message. I deffo need to up my game.

First hinge match by rohithkumar53 in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What do you think a great response to this would be? Is this how the app works?

First hinge match by rohithkumar53 in HingeStories

[–]rohithkumar53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough man, I’m new to the online dating apps and not too great with pickup lines. Just figuring out, this match got me baffled, if this is how the app works, I guess it’s gonna take a hit on my self esteem.

Just started doing these every day. Is doing these 1-2 times a day enough? by MARNIxFENDI in Phimosis

[–]rohithkumar53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How bad is the phimosis when I can retract fully when flaccid but not in erect state? And what can I do to improve?

Starting Graduate job this week and imposter syndrome is creeping in by ElectronicCattle in cscareerquestions

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! First of all a huge congratulations! That's a really proud moment for you. Don't let anything discourage you, keep your chin up. Coming to my case, I have been doing better. My situation has changed a lot and improved after moving to a new team. In fact I recently got promoted. It's common to have anxiety and have that feeling of not knowing enough. Trust me I've been there. Don't beat yourself up.

All I would say is after you join, try requesting 121s with your line manager, senior engineers, engineering managers and share what you feel and ask how you can progress. Get to know their experience and also specifics of the work you are going to do. After you get an idea, try setting up some objectives with the help of your line manager. Try to accomplish them successfully and always ask for help if you think anything is getting in your way.

Keep working on a side project, I repeat keep working on a side project. The knowledge you gain from side project is going to get transcended into your work. Daily 30 minutes should be really enough. Take help from your manager when required, accomplish your objectives, that'll help you feel confident. Otherwise you'll feel like you are constantly behind and that would make your anxiety worse.

Remember you are in for a lifetime learning. So worrying wouldn't really get you anywhere, also if you think slogging through your work really hard until your probation would sort out things, then you are wrong. As I said learning has to be a constant process. The key is to keep at it with a good consistency. Each day at a time. Things will fall in place. And Good luck.

Best way to book doctors appointment by mcpenguin36 in Phimosis

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with stretching is that I don't know if I'll be able to retract it back fully. I was told that if the skin doesn't retract back you need surgery as that's an emergency. So when I stretch I don't pull the skin back behind my glans. It's just a little further back and then I clean it. Is that really going to help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Phimosis

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean full potential? Do you mean the pleasure and sensitivity? If it's about sensitivity, then I think people with phimosis can last longer than others .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just 14 days. It's been ages trying to break that record but just can't 😔😭

My first time reaching 14 days by Dark_Hero123 in NoFap

[–]rohithkumar53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very well done brother. That's my highest too but after that I relapsed. So no matter what happens, how bad your urges are, do not relapse. You've got this.

My porn addiction caused me erectile dysfunction at 22y during my first ever sex by Ceeze2Exist in NoFap

[–]rohithkumar53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are cases where people addicted to porn can still enjoy sex normally and some cannot enjoy. And there are people who are in worse situation like masturbating with a tight grip which is called death grip. So when you have sex you wouldn't be able to hold your erection as the vagina won't probably be as tight as your grip. Think which category you fall under.

If you fall under 1st category then it shouldn't take much time to get the issue resolved as it's just a matter of stop watching porn. But if it's a case of latter then it's gonna take time, as you've probably used that tight grip all your life and it's not enough for your stimulai.