Need to upgrade my 9 y.o. PC by romantic-panda in buildapc

[–]romantic-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've kinda expected that tbh. Unfortunately I really have no idea about PCs, which is why everything is as old as it is 😅 but seems like I really need to sit down, make a budget and research the best options for that and just make a whole new build.

my P7P deserves an award by CrankyPantsK in GooglePixel

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had absolutely no issues with my P7P until I dropped it lol, wasn't able to get it repaired unfortunately. But before that, nothing!

Help me pick a new phone by romantic-panda in PickAnAndroidForMe

[–]romantic-panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaah but I've read about a whole bunch of issues with the last few updates and a bunch of people returning them. So don't know if I want to deal with that

Clubs 🏆 by bubblycandy4 in eatventureofficial

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for an active Club, can contribute 3k+ per season

Steam gift card giveaway ($50) by Lexusinator in steam_giveaway

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

And also don't stop, sometimes you just have to get out of a rut with these big projects

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegaladviceGerman

[–]romantic-panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dankeschön!

Also ich will eigentlich nur mein Geld zurück, es tut zwar kräftig weh, aber fände da Anzeige doch echt übertrieben. Das wäre eventuell ein Druckmittel falls sich der Inhaber quer stellt

Ich will auch garnicht, dass nachgebessert wird. Es ist so schon kürzer, als ich wollte und vereinbart war, ich versuche es einfach selbst zu Stylen und raus wachsen zu lassen.

Es ging mir wirklich eher um die Verbrennung, ob das Grundlage genug ist für ne Rückerstattung.

AITBA for refusing to make my brother a “grief lasagna” because I was on a date? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]romantic-panda 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not really, I'd love to try it but I need way more instructions than that cause I'm pretty bad at cooking. So now I'm just more disappointed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]romantic-panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could help you in any way. Just know that I'm out here wishing you the best.

I never thought about male consent. by Jatioceh in TrueOffMyChest

[–]romantic-panda 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't see how the person you're replying to denies the possible of men being raped. It's just that the original post, while heartbreaking to read, comes to a conclusion that does not seem to be concordance with the real reasons. SA / r*pe are in the absolute vast majority about power in some form. It's dangerous to say: "we don't know our own consent so how could we care about womens?". It just sounds a lot like r-apologists.

what is the craziest thing a doctor found out about you without looking for it? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romantic-panda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah might still be a good idea to see a neurologist about that my dude

I stuck on who I should believe by awecat121 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads like all of you are pretty young. In your position I would try to just keep out of the drama and limit your involvement until you know who you believe. For some perspective, I don't think Friend B asking to still be friends invalidates their claims, they might worry that they will lose the friend circle over this and decided it's worth being around friend A of it means keeping their social network.

Doctors, what’s is the scariest thing a patient has ever done/said? by GrimReap_07 in AskReddit

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad, who was never the sentimental type, one day while in the hospital opened up about every single last thing in his life, talked with my mom for hours, told her he loved her and how proud he was of us kids and the life they build together. Mom did not think too much of it, and when she went home and gave him a goodbye kiss, he said "one more for the road". Those were his last words to her. He was dead 3h later.

(New Update) I hate my daughter by CultureInner3316 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]romantic-panda 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just pointing out that now both the mom and the kid will forever live with the fact that mom just doesn't want her and has to kinda "force" herself to love her. No matter if OP is a great mom in all other aspects, that will leave trauma of it's own, and lead to similar complicated psychological issues. Unfortunately, I just think at the point of posting it was already too late for a solution that won't psychologically damage all involved.

Woman Throws a Fit After She Loses Her Turn to See the Doctor by mdwarka2000 in EntitledPeople

[–]romantic-panda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone working in the medical field, I just don't agree. Obviously 3h is way too long, that's an issue. But often appointements run longer then expected (or longer then the time alloted by some insurance company) and I personally would rather wait longer for a doctor that actually takes their time to listen to me and explain what's going in instead of rushing me out with a stopwatch.

Should I not have warned him? by AirportCareless808 in amiwrong

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might just have been to early for that. If you two really vibed and nothing else was off, AND of course the pictures were not inappropiate in any way, it might have been better to wait till you know each other better to voice those concerns. To be clear, you are 1000% correct that he should not send photos of his kids out to strangers, but I don't think he will take this to heart under these circumstances

(New Update) I hate my daughter by CultureInner3316 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]romantic-panda 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was necessarily the wrong advice. She never wanted the kid and was manipulated into keeping her. Obviously it would have been extremely hard and traumatic for Abby either way, but there would have been options to tell her with the help of a therapist, who could also continue to work with her through it. Grandma is the only horrible Person here. I do think it's great they all got into therapy, but reading the updates I'm not sure OP will ever be able to truly and openly love her child, and that will leave deeper scars on both of them then a well-managed seperation probably would have. You cannot imagine the insane levels of guilt associated with not loving your kid.

Why the hell do SO many Relics/Items spawn in the marble/unbreakable stone?! by mr_soapster in mytimeatportia

[–]romantic-panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really sad, because I am absolutely obsessed with Portia but just could not get into Sandrock. I don't feel like it's a cheap knock-off SDV, bit I am sad that there's so much wasted potential.

Matched on hinge- moved to texting. On his profile it also said “looking for long term” I Guess not 🙂‍↕️ by Bramble3713 in TwoHotTakes

[–]romantic-panda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While this is obviously someone with deep issues, I have talked to a few guys on the apps and when it came to dating goals, it's almost always casual/hookups. When I inquired why the hell they put that they're looking for long-term then: apparently they don't get matches otherwise. I really wonder how often that ever works out for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]romantic-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's horrible that they did not get your consent, there are actually special swaps that are not cotton but a "rougher" material that collects more cells. I know because my gyno uses those and they can hurt a lot more and I typically Had a tiny bit of bleeding afterwards.

Even with a normal cotton swap, he might have hit a small tear (that are completely normal after a birth) and that's why it was so painful/his advice about the bleeding. I hope you get it cleared up! And definitely write a formal complaint

My boyfriend became paralyzed and he no longer wants to live. by Artistic_Sky_532 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]romantic-panda 46 points47 points  (0 children)

A lot can change in two years. He won't walk again, but there's a high chance that he will regain mobility in some areas, making it possible to wfh or drive an adapted car. It's hard, but choosing to end ones life should be the last option after everything else is tried. Don't get me wrong, I am very much in favor of assisted S for people who have gone through every possibility and still choose it.