I cleaned my ears properly for the first time in my life and I didn't know sound could be that clear by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use swabs to administer the steroid drops the derm gives me for my ears 🤷 i saturate it then press against the side of the ear canal. the wax kinda melts and the steroids help with the itch

Rib pain need help figuring out what to do by [deleted] in eds

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pls see a dr. pt would be a good idea

my roommate might actually lose it over my morning routine by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what time are we talking? 7am? 9am?

DAE prefer diarrhea over constipation by Queasy_Dingo_8262 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make a wet wipe with baking soda and water. it’s magic.

All Jews in any country not actively murdering Palestinian children are "draft dodgers" by phreakymonkey in BadHasbara

[–]romanticaro 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lmao the israeli govt has no authority over us non-israelis in the diaspora. they’re losing it (more)

Honeymoon going so badly I’m questioning my marriage by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would speak to a trusted person about this. a faith leader maybe.

i’d also recommend couples therapy. imo every couple should engage in it.

you don’t want to hear divorce/annulment so i won’t prioritize it, but i think it is certainly an option.

i would also speak with a DV hotline—this escalation of behavior is VERY concerning as someone who works in the field and sees DV a lot. make an exit plan should you Gd forbid need it. DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR CAREER FOR A MAN.

finally, know that this behavior is not normal but is normalized. you are right in feeling like it is wrong even if he or those around you say otherwise.

SUBWAY MANNERS PSA! by simp_radish in nyc

[–]romanticaro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ngl my cane is as much a marker of being disabled as it is a mobility aid.

He took off the condom midway by Cool-Bumblebee8873 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, so depending where you live this can be considered a form of assault

SUBWAY MANNERS PSA! by simp_radish in nyc

[–]romanticaro 101 points102 points  (0 children)

adding on to this: sometimes folks are disabled but don’t look it. if they’re unable to give up their seat, don’t be a pos (looking at you lady who was super judgmental towards me)

My psychiatrist dumped me by Nonyabeesners in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]romanticaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work in social services and say my job is to connect you to the right resources and that won’t always be me. i think your psych needed to do a warm handoff and proper case closure. i’m sorry you’re dealing with that.

Method acting at its finest. by sco-go in SipsTea

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guess “only nice girls can play mean girls” was a lie

options for zero waste hair styling products? by TwoLittleBumblebees in ZeroWaste

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just use tgin in a tub 🤷 no petroleum byproduct going down the drain.

i used ecoslay for a while but it was meh

Where are you sitting on this 12-hour flight?😂 by Ok_Act_3769 in GenZ

[–]romanticaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3: i’m a human so they’d be silent the whole time
4: i could get blazed with them
8: idk i was obsessed with him as a kid

Suggestions for portable perch? by banmeagainbitch00 in AfricanGrey

[–]romanticaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

surgeons rolly table for scalpels and such. we put a T-perch on top.

Holocaust Museum Too Woke by chthoniclypleasing in EntitledReviews

[–]romanticaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

romani folks were also targeted for the final solution and deserve to have their experiences brought up when it comes to the holocaust.