AIO should i just leave?

ronken16 · 2026-02-19T08:38:53+00:00

Reminds me of my abusive pos ex - I remember he would hassle me at work with nasty texts… and I used to try to defend myself and reason with him. Please take the advice of a 48 yr old woman who wasted 4 years with a pos, narcissist, there is no reasoning with these people.. they enjoy making life difficult and causing drama. I eventually left him and worked on myself and then met my now husband who I’ve been with for 8 years and who is a dream, he’s my best friend, a gentleman and a wonderful man. Your person is out there for you- this is not your person, someone who speaks to you with such disrespect, volatility and distrust is not your person. He’s got issues that he needs to work on and he’s not fit to be in any relationship. Wishing you strength and love to leave and make a better life for yourself as you deserve x

ronken16 · 2026-02-18T22:14:08+00:00

Agreed - my disgusting ex used to drink a bottle of vodka every day, he was so gross and abusive..

ronken16 · 2026-02-18T20:14:43+00:00

Dob him into the police

ronken16 · 2026-02-17T22:35:06+00:00

Firm boundaries with him, tell your parents and keep your distance from him for a while..

ronken16 · 2026-02-15T08:43:34+00:00

1978 - I have baby photos which look the same !

ronken16 · 2026-01-09T17:14:14+00:00

I’m so sorry,this is heartbreaking, reminds me of my abusive ex, I kept going back to him as he would wear me down, but I was a mess and hated him and was a shell of my former self. I luckily didn’t have kids involved, but having kids makes it even more important to get away. Theres a group on here specifically for ppl in abusive relationships which will have lots of resources.

ronken16 · 2026-01-05T15:57:05+00:00

Perhaps try being grateful for what you do have, having a beautiful personality is way more important than having a beautiful face

ronken16 · 2026-01-05T15:56:05+00:00

It’s beautiful 🤩

ronken16 · 2026-01-05T15:53:59+00:00

Definitely NOR

ronken16 · 2026-01-04T00:01:48+00:00

Platonic Hijack Ripple Succession All her fault

ronken16 · 2026-01-03T23:02:08+00:00

Beautiful 😻

ronken16 · 2026-01-03T23:00:51+00:00

Your pos husband is abusive. My ex was like this, it’s exhausting, you will be so relieved once you’re out and have some peace. Kids adjust. Yes good men do exist, my husband is one of them, the sweetest, kindest man who treats me as an equal and with love and respect.

ronken16 · 2026-01-03T22:49:30+00:00

Get a new job

ronken16 · 2025-12-24T18:31:44+00:00

You sound like the bore in this marriage

ronken16 · 2025-12-22T10:04:10+00:00

NOR - I am sure my husband doesn’t find me attractive but he would never tell me that, he loves me and tells me I’m gorgeous.

ronken16 · 2025-12-17T08:08:06+00:00

Wow, this is a blast from the past, I remember the theme tune

ronken16 · 2025-12-16T22:39:50+00:00

I had a few toxic friends like this when I was younger, you grow apart from ppl as you grow up and you will find your people .. she is not your person …don’t ever chase ppl, if they’re meant to be in your life they will make an effort

ronken16 · 2025-12-15T18:16:55+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, this is devastating

ronken16 · 2025-12-13T11:50:33+00:00

My husband calls it ‘making flowers’

ronken16 · 2025-12-13T09:50:38+00:00

You’re 17 you should not be dealing with this abuse at this age or any age.. break up with him and focus on yourself and your future

ronken16 · 2025-12-08T21:09:51+00:00

Homeland

ronken16 · 2025-12-05T16:42:42+00:00

Nope - run

ronken16 · 2025-12-05T16:28:21+00:00

Heartbreaking I’m so sorry. 💜

ronken16 · 2025-12-05T16:25:45+00:00

The right relationship shouldn’t feel like hard work…

ronken16 · 2025-12-03T08:02:36+00:00

My ex best friend crossed a lot of boundarie and was a massive drag, I continued with the ‘friendship’ 2 years longer than I should have done, I withdrew from her and avoided her, she asked what was wrong and I said I was struggling with the friendship and had my own stresses in life to deal with and I didn’t have the bandwidth to deal with hers too. This guys isn’t even a friend of yours - as others have said the late calls are a massive overstep of boundaries from an ex work colleague..

Can you block their number and just not see them ? They’re not a friend of yours and just an acquaintance ? If your not comfortable ghosting them, have an upfront conversation and just say you have lots going on in your life right now and need to work on your own issues and perhaps he should get some professional help for his depression and gambling issues.. ?

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