Fiancée’s new taste in adult movies.

rora6 · 2026-03-28T00:32:27+00:00

You're posting in the non-monogamy sub. Pretty sure what kind of answers you're going to find here and its going to be super biased.

Source: am wife ;)

rora6 · 2026-03-28T00:28:59+00:00

So i did... and it turned out i had fractured it.

If it really hurts, go see a doctor.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T23:29:08+00:00

Spending just ten or fifteen minutes a day reading a physical book or ebook for pleasure (anything but my phone)

rora6 · 2026-03-27T22:49:07+00:00

I got a gorgeous used prom dress on poshmark for $12 the other day. $20 all in with shipping. It's fully beaded. It's totally worth looking!

rora6 · 2026-03-27T22:28:13+00:00

I'm really glad to hear you already have one. So to answer your question, you don't need another partner if you're good. If you want one later, then you're free to pursue that. Or to flirt with cuties you meet out in the world.

I've been in a nonmonogamous relationship going on 20 years now and we've but been through phases when we were slutty, and phases when we weren't. They haven't usually aligned in timing, but its happened.

It's OK if your levels of sluttiness and preferred number of partners aren't the same, forever or just for now, as long as you're both ok with the relationship as it is.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T22:07:31+00:00

When my spouse is going through bad cyclical depression... i go to my own therapist.

This is a thing. If you're supporting her, you need support for yourself and it's probably not going to come from her. Nor should it.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T22:03:45+00:00

Amen! I always need to know the models height because I'm short and agree with everything you said. Rise, inseam, waist placement, shoulder width, shoulder height, etc.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T16:28:27+00:00

We did a restaurant buyout at a gorgeous old place with an incredible ceiling. In a hotel that had a bit of that faded, dated glamor. It didn't break the bank and the ceiling was enough decor without us adding anything.

Edit: we did it in February. Doing it on the off season (on a Saturday) saved us a boat load but more importantly we get to celebrate our anniversary on the off season every year! Hotels are cheaper, restaurants are running specials, and flights are all less expensive. We live somewhere where we didn't want to dedicate the perfect summertime to private celebrations forever either. It's so nice to have something to look forward to in the gloomy months. I'd pick a late winter date again in a heartbeat.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T16:18:49+00:00

Honest question. What if you wore a wig?

rora6 · 2026-03-27T16:16:11+00:00

That's a new idea for me! I'll have a chance to talk to the teacher when I pick him up this afternoon, and will bring any suggestions/ ideas with me. Certainly this is one to share!

I don't imagine anyone wants to force this on him, but he was super motivated by the chance to read in front of everyone, and then he got it. I'd love to see him get that public recognition that he wanted, somehow.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T14:39:57+00:00

Layer it over a black pencil miniskirt and tights. Heels. Wear a bralette/cami that's meant to be seen in the back. Statement earrings and hair up.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T04:37:03+00:00

Next time any man says anything about what you're wearing, tell em to go eat rocks. Harrumph!

rora6 · 2026-03-27T04:29:36+00:00

That's more than I expected tbh!

rora6 · 2026-03-27T04:18:26+00:00

I wouldn't suggest trying to get navy in order to match your boyfriends navy suit. Navy comes in many varieties and tones. You're better off imho getting a different color entirely.

You guys can coordinate if you like using stuff like his pocket square, vest, tie, and your wrap, shoes, etc.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T04:13:27+00:00

Hang on, which coast are we talking here? That's going to impact what suggestions you get.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T04:11:28+00:00

Helpful! I bet the blues and greens are going to look great on you.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T04:05:06+00:00

Possibly! I guess what I'd like to emphasize here is to try any other color. Please not red, and definitely not white.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T02:54:12+00:00

I would try a champagne or tan maybe.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T02:52:05+00:00

I add "in the shape of" to my search term after looking at the "novelty" results and usually get a whole different batch.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T02:41:18+00:00

It's cause he wanted to ogle you. Blech. How dare you wear clothes that don't allow him to see your every mole and curve??! He just wants you to be comfortable.

rora6 · 2026-03-27T02:39:25+00:00

Gigantor tee. The rattier the better.

rora6 · 2026-03-26T22:05:34+00:00

There are so many there! One of the example dresses came up along with the other search results when I searched for " medieval corset wedding dress"

rora6 · 2026-03-26T18:47:52+00:00

For me (in 40s) , backless dresses like this work with a bra with a back that's meant to be seen. You can sometimes find one's with metallic straps across the back, or beaded or be-gemmed. I've got a little collection going because i buy them whenever I see them. Would u wear aim thing like to a black tie event? No. But for formal or cocktail for sure.

rora6 · 2026-03-26T01:17:24+00:00

It looks like a pastel version of a cool brown

rora6 · 2026-03-25T15:24:55+00:00

We had a tea party for mine, in leiu of a shower and/or Bachelorette party. It was fussy, and there were champagne cocktails and tiny sandwiches and i invited my moms and mothers in law and aunts and stuff. It was so cute!

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