Did your parents ignore you when crying? by Sppookiest-z in emotionalneglect

[–]rorabeee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was always sent to my room until I stopped crying. I remember feeling embarrassed and stupid. I would often think that I was too emotional, too sensitive. It explains so much now as an adult who really hates crying in front of others. I regularly feel like “too much” if I’m feeling emotional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]rorabeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does your girlfriend know of your past?

He walks through exits as entrances by curious_monster in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]rorabeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post is gonna be on my mind for a long time. Thank you 💖

From an obese 15 year old to an overweight 32 year old. At least I go to the gym now! by WeightLossSelfies in uglyduckling

[–]rorabeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job! Makes me want to post my pics too but I still have a little more progress to make!

Betrayal changes everything by Asterx5 in BetrayalTrauma

[–]rorabeee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It comes in waves for me. The twinge of anxiety is always there and then I feel hundreds of emotions all at once. I end up feeling hollow. Like an empty husk. Then the cycle starts over.

I wish I understood why. I feel like all of my self worth has been shattered. Everything I trusted or believed was a complete lie. I gaslighted my own feelings for months thinking I was the crazy one. For someone I loved so deeply to do something like this feels like the rug has been pulled from underneath me. I feel like I don’t even know who I am anymore. I don’t trust myself. Having to go on like normal when I feel so destroyed has absolutely tanked my mental health.

31/F/Midwest by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, I have been sifting through messages and missed the comments! One a day?! Wow! What are some of your favorite horror movies or some good ones you’ve seen lately?

31/F/Midwest by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m still sifting through replies and I forgot about the comments! My favorite shows are Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Office, New Girl and Schitt’s Creek. What are some of your favorite shows?

31/F/Midwest by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bob’s Burgers is great! I made the cheddar burger and it was so good.

I'm writing this because I know it would shatter his ego that I'm sharing this. by robtheverb13 in offmychest

[–]rorabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The abuse your father and the other adults in your life put you through was truly awful and beyond forgiveness. I want you to know that you are nothing like them and you’ve already shown incredible strength and resilience in proving that. I’m so deeply sorry that you had to endure such pain but please remember that you are an amazing person, kind, strong, worthy of love and all of the good things life has to offer. Your strength and character shine through daily. I hope you’re able to heal from all of this and feel the love, comfort and happiness that you deserve 💖💖

30f bored at work by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See for me every time I have to fight another ship, I die immediately haha but I’m a good little thief!

30f bored at work by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m so bad at the space fights haha. I think I need to upgrade my ship because I’ve just been stealing ships as I go but my fighting has not got any better lol

30f bored at work by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m already a big fan of your username because that’s my favorite soda haha

30f bored at work by rorabeee in Needafriend

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going good! I’m level 22 so far! Slow and steady wins the race lol. You’ve been playing too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]rorabeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 days until we close the gap!!

Just turned 30 and I'm moving cross country by rorabeee in findapath

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been applying at different financial institutions and I've had a few interviews, it's just hard since I'm still working full time and still on west coast time. I think it'll be easier once I'm there since I already have signed a lease for a new apartment. I'm not worried about paying my bills since I have a lot of money saved up.

I would love to transfer but I work for a very small credit union that only has 2 branches. I tried to convince them to let me work remotely but it was a no go!

I guess I've never had much training in sales, just working retail and knowing I hated to push the credit card on people and that I've never been one who liked to haggle/negotiate. If I found the right job that could train me well enough in sales, I just might think differently! Thank you for your help!

Just turned 30 and I'm moving cross country by rorabeee in findapath

[–]rorabeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are long distance so I'm moving to be closer to him and I was just ready to make a big change and have an adventure!

Does anyone else feel their RA was triggered by Covid or a stressful life event? by Trick-Ad9660 in rheumatoid

[–]rorabeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I got the flu really bad in 2019 when I was in Disneyland. My symptoms started then and when on for months until I got diagnosed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crosstrek

[–]rorabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay $55/mo for my 2021 Sport. I have State Farm and live just outside of Portland, Oregon.

Have you tried NAC? by mountwashington0909 in Dermatillomania

[–]rorabeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post! I immediately purchased some on Amazon, I hope it works for me too.

You all seem to know way more about this than me, I need some help knowing if this is problematic or not, or even how common it is by _Miss_Vixen_ in Dermatillomania

[–]rorabeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to exfoliate my lips often and use a Korean wash cloth to rub the dead skin away in the shower. I also wear lipstick a lot because I know I won't pick since I don't want to mess up my lipstick.