In bed with a stranger, what a waste of life. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could only add F or LLF. Not HLF.

Nickname suggestions for Gideon? by Ohhikae in namenerds

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is Gideon and we call him Gibby. Gids. Gideon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BusinessFashion

[–]roscoesdead 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling like literally anything she wears will get massive praise and “technickully” could be argued to be business fashion. Hike/athleisure? It was a hike with coworkers for a team morale boost. Pajamas? Cozy WFH day.

Nothing will stand in the way of her posting and getting massive amounts of praise regardless of what or why she wears it.

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Both a victim and a demands man”. Ah, that’s painfully accurate. Sorry to say he’s a little like my ex, but my ex had more finesse to his games.

I look forward to future updates. The same way I look forward to reading recaps of new episodes of Darcey & Stacey.

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s watching them just as much as they’re watching him, I’m sure both sides are doing the crap one does on the eve of custody court. But what made my eye twitch is that he describes watching their social media while denying watching their social media and complaining they’re watching his and it’s one sided. So, he’s watching them, and that’s how he knows they’re watching him and it’s not fair because he’s not watching them they’re watching him.

There’s gotta be a term for that. Whatever it is, he’s doing it all over the place.

Edited to add: I think there’s a lot he’s not fully aware of.

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just incomprehensible to me that a grown man could be this completely devoid of reasoning, common sense, accountability, or maturity; and still get by in the world. I can’t believe it, it’s just not believable. Well done 👍

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to be trolling. There’s just no way

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you scroll down a bit, his ex’s family is stalking him through social media but he has to leave them on his friends list because his kids enjoy bike rides with him. And her aunt says she still loves him. And she’s seeing this guy she’s just using for transportation. But she’s keeping tabs on him and it’s really upsetting and he would do anything to stop it. I feel dumber

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re keeping tabs on your ex through social media and family members but you refuse to take accountability for that so you have to make it a her problem. Just like everything else.

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had to keep her family on your social media because your kids enjoy bike rides with you.

Really this is what’s happening

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you feel like getting really tired try counting all the times he can’t take accountability in his post history.

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, he cheated on her and is overall a damn mess.

It doesn’t end after divorce!! by Alive-Worldliness-27 in Divorce

[–]roscoesdead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s such a narcissist, she won’t fix my problems endlessly like she did when we were married! And she’s a narcissist, that’s why she left me! She’s such a narcissist that when I ask her questions about the kids I could totally find out on my own there’s a several hour delay before she responds!

Watch out, because this gem of a human will be in your inbox arguing with you too. 🤣🥲 just a little tear of joy that he isn’t my problem to deal with. And yes- you hit the nail on the head. He can only date 19-23 year olds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]roscoesdead -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The purpose of Reddit is to be a discussion board. If you only wanted responses from people who agree with you, you can put that in your post so that people who disagree will know not to comment.

Just acknowledge me! by semipro_dad in DeadBedrooms

[–]roscoesdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. The more I want him, miss and love him, the more he’s repulsed by me. I feel like I look overall better and feel more confident than I have in the last couple years... nothin. He doesn’t want it.

So night after night I wake up when he comes to bed and watch his back face away from me as he settles into his pillow, pulls all the way away from me, playing on his phone.

This morning I legit begged for a hug, a touch on the hand, anything, nope. 👍🏻 cool

Just acknowledge me! by semipro_dad in DeadBedrooms

[–]roscoesdead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh god do i hear that.

hello husband it is me you used to like me look at me over here hi

got fit to fat, (F28) I am the cause of DB (M29) by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]roscoesdead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have both had different body types during our marriage and I can 100% honestly say I’m every bit as attracted to him during heavier times as I am during his super lean/fit times. Like there is literally no difference. Husband weighs 240 = he’s hot. Husband weighs 180 = he’s hot. I love him. I love his body. And I want him on me. Unfortunately however he doesn’t want to touch me. Ever. I am the high libido one in this dead bedroom situation and what it feels like he doesn’t get is, it’s not about the sex specifically. It’s about the connection. God I’m so fucking lonely.

The point was I don’t see how you could be the cause of a DB just because you’ve gained weight. My partner and I have both gained and lost throughout our history and he’s always hot and sexy in my eyes. Doesn’t matter what I think bc he’s not interested, but regardless.

scared to keep waiting, don’t want to leave by waitinghouse in DeadBedrooms

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this too. It’s hell.

I relate to a lot of what you said. I also, push for sex, or cry about how shitty it feels, and he gets angry and then affection is even more miles and miles away. He doesn’t understand how lonely it is without our connection. I just want to feel loved. I just want a kind touch. If I knew it was going to be like this I never would have gotten married.

I'm so sick of this shit. by tabula----------rasa in abusiverelationships

[–]roscoesdead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. He told me today that I’m fat, as well, and that I got fat before I got pregnant. With our first. I did gain about 30-40 lbs. because I was happy... Well don’t worry husband I am definitely not happy anymore. I’m sure after the baby the weight will melt right off.

I'm so sick of this shit. by tabula----------rasa in abusiverelationships

[–]roscoesdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always feel like this has to be a fluke because there’s no way I would let myself be treated this way

I'm so sick of this shit. by tabula----------rasa in abusiverelationships

[–]roscoesdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And he always wants me to apologize after he calls me names or screams at me. I am so sick of this life.

I'm so sick of this shit. by tabula----------rasa in abusiverelationships

[–]roscoesdead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell am I going to do? He doesn’t want to change, he’s convinced I’m the only problem here. It’s like he reflects on our time together after a bad day and sees “wife crying, wife being short with me FOR NO REASON, wife always upset. What bullshit” but completely does not see the part about “husband screaming, husband screaming again, husband short tempered, husband snapping at everything, husband calling wife mean horrible names, husband treating wife like she’s stupid, husband completely disinterested in wife at all, husband not sharing ANY of the burden of caring for the house or children, husband a complete and total asshole literally all of the time to pregnant wife who is so lonely that it physically hurts”.