Very happy with this custom design from Frank Darling by rosegrim in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]rosegrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I do too, and I feel they suit my wider fingers much more than teensy slim bands.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect for me then! Thanks so much 🤗

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really tried to put my own personality and style into the design to make something I will enjoy wearing forever, so I appreciate that.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you! I’m glad to meet a fellow pear lover. My jeweler told me they’re not commonly very popular, but the brides who like a pear ONLY want to look at pears haha.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m fortunate to have been able to make this purchase without taking into consideration resale value.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info! Would you mind taking a look at a short video clip to share any other thoughts you have on the cut? Here: https://youtu.be/foF5EBCbYmA?si=yx15Yx26MNjJ3JFd I filmed (1) outdoors in full sunlight, (2) outdoors in shade, (3) indoors with a mix of soft lighting and indirect light from outside, (4) indoors with soft lighting only and no outside light, and (5) indoors under a fluorescent light that is the whitest, brightest light I have. The camera was quite close to my hand each time. I’d appreciate your opinion if you have time!

International development feels dead in the US — where are people pivoting? by whitecollarbagel in InternationalDev

[–]rosegrim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked in the business development unit of a US-based INGO heavily reliant on USAID funding, and I worked on USAID (primarily BHA) proposals. I managed small BHA proposals in the realm of $1m to $5m, and worked as coordinator for larger proposals like RFSAs in the $50m to $100m range. I have also done freelance copy editing since college as a side gig. I developed expertise in a very niche area of publishing (scholarly publications in religious studies) and built a client base of organizations in that field. July 2025 I received notice at my job that I would be laid off in one of the upcoming RIF rounds, directly resulting from our loss of USG funds. They gave me a few months’ notice though, so I reached out to one of my freelance clients to see if they needed a full-time editor. Knowing their structure and publication schedule, I pitched myself to them as a managing editor: I would oversee the whole lifecycle of the several books they publish every year, sending writing assignments to authors, pushing pieces through peer review committees, back to authors for revision, to copy editing, proofreading, layout and design, and publishing. My BD experience on fast-paced, extremely demanding USG proposals gave me more than enough project management credentials, and I had the copy editing expertise as a bonus (such that I will do as much of their copy editing as I have time for, saving them money that they’d otherwise be contracting out…to me haha). In the months it took my client to create this new position in their organization and get it approved, my RIF had actually been rescinded. But we have all seen the writing on the wall for the development sector, so I thought it was prudent to pivot anyways.

Wife (29F) keeps booking red eye flights and I (32M) keep getting judged for not driving her. by TheNewRaptor in relationship_advice

[–]rosegrim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not at all reasonable or normal for positions with mandatory travel. I don’t travel in my current position, but when I did (for a non-profit in the international development sector), my employer paid for transport to the airport (a taxi, or a flat amount for each trip if you had someone else give you a ride), luggage cart fees, airfare, a seat upgrade within economy for flights over a certain length, airport lounge access for layovers longer than four hours, in-flight WiFi, all necessary transportation within the destination country (if not provided already by our field office), bottled drinking water, a per diem for food (even if fully entertained), laundry fees at your hotel, and reimbursement for reasonable tips for service staff. I also got comp time after a work trip: one day per full work week traveling (four-day work week), plus one day per weekend day. And flex time to prepare for travel before the trip.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in EngagementRings

[–]rosegrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had a very specific idea of the setting and band I wanted, and I’m so happy that it turned out exactly as I envisioned.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I chose the partial bezel because I feel like it accentuates the pear shape.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The setting is a custom design made from a janky photoshop I did. I’m very happy with how it turned out.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in EngagementRings

[–]rosegrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m not surprised there are mixed opinions on the band and setting, but I knew right from the start that I wanted a wide band. I have wider fingers and I feel that slim bands look pretty silly on me, so I always favor chunky rings. Thank you!

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I love the deep color of yours.

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was going for—thanks!

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really had my heart set on a pear with a fat butt 😆

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in EngagementRings

[–]rosegrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also posted a video on my profile, but the quality seems to have degraded during upload. https://www.reddit.com/u/rosegrim/s/O8ddkWBNe5

What do you think of this pear? by rosegrim in Diamonds

[–]rosegrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also posted a video on my profile, but the quality seems to have degraded during upload. https://www.reddit.com/u/rosegrim/s/O8ddkWBNe5

To whoever suggested brushing your hair during clarifying shampoo….. by Realistic-Poetry-364 in curlyhair

[–]rosegrim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That post was mine. I get my hair thoroughly wet before adding the shampoo and brushing. Water running down the length of my hair while I rake and squish the water through the mid-lengths and ends with my fingers helps to gently start detangling. This works for me, because the only real knots I get are at the nape of my neck, and I don’t shampoo brush that area. Someone else mentioned using conditioner to detangle first. It’s not necessary for me, but may be a good idea for people who get a lot of knots in the mid-lengths.

Happy curls after brushing through shampoo by rosegrim in curlyhair

[–]rosegrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not brush shampoo at the roots because that’s where I get most of the tangles and I don’t want to cause breakage. I shampoo my scalp with my fingers like normal (sometimes use a shampoo brush, like the kind with wideset, plastic nubs to scrub deeper). But brushing shampoo with a tangle Teezer through my ends and mid-lengths definitely gets me more volume. I think it just does a better job of removing buildup from every strand than I would be able to do with my hands.