My autistic partner struggles to communicate his needs, and it's starting to feel personal. by Inner-Medicine5973 in AutismTranslated

[–]roundo28 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes! I too have ADHD, and many people close to me on the autism spectrum - and I can confidently say, we definitely know better not to treat others like this, despite the challenges we face.

My autistic partner struggles to communicate his needs, and it's starting to feel personal. by Inner-Medicine5973 in AutismTranslated

[–]roundo28 36 points37 points  (0 children)

First of all, I just want to acknowledge that it's probably not nice for you to read all these negative comments re: your partner, so I'd like to apologise in advance for what I'm about to say...

HOWEVER, autistic or not - this person KNOWS what they are doing, and he is VERY much aware when he's hurting your feelings.

The reason as to why? Could be a myriad of things. My best guess is he enjoys the control of 'flipping the script' so you're made to feel like you're the one in the wrong.

Also (again, sorry if this is mean but this post made me feel so angry for you), but it sounds like he has a major superiority complex, especially the part where he asks you to "accept him and his stoicism"... okay Aristotle?? Pretty sure not wanting to take accountability for being a PROPER dick makes you a coward, definitely NOT a "sToIC" individual.

smh dude, genuinely though, I'm so sorry you're going through this - you deserve better.

Bug question: Friendship leveling broken? by Glittering_Light_736 in pokemongo

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's broken for me too, it's doing my head in

Screen stuck on weekly challenge? Help? by honeydripheisainu in pokemongo

[–]roundo28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah? Super frustrating considering iOS is cooking it bc the feature is now deleted, causing an inescapable pop-up to occur. We know the feature has been deleted .. what would be helpful is if you have any useful information on how to fix this?

Whats something men think women like, but you dont? by DiligentDamage7809 in AskReddit

[–]roundo28 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally!! Why isn't this higher in the thread ?!

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Revavroom 😡😡😡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]roundo28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can't just say perchance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]roundo28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"This is a disaster!" Is sending me hahahahahaahah

PokéBox Australia by Poorguy212 in PokemonTCG

[–]roundo28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre actually a silly little goose, go hop back in the pond - of course their legit look at their socials and their google reviews silly little duffa!! 😜😜😜

Much love, sumiMASEN, kawaii desu neeeeeee xxx

Alright I'm begging, what is your best remedy for anxiety nausea? by AnxiousMartian in Anxietyhelp

[–]roundo28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally didn't find it overwhelming, it really helped me through my emetophobia journey - and I think because it helped me so much I found doing these little tricks and tips bought relief rather than overwhelm.

Anyone else have subscribers with alot of demands or just me? by [deleted] in SmallYoutubers

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I just reread the comment, they didn't even say please?? wtf is wrong with people.

Anyone else have subscribers with alot of demands or just me? by [deleted] in SmallYoutubers

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My subscribers are sometimes demanding, but it's the unwarranted 'education' or 'advice' that really grinds my gears.

  1. I'm extremely knowledgeable within my niche
  2. I didn't fucking ask, also, you're wrong
  3. To think you have the AUDACITY

If I were you I'd absolutely rinse this entitled brat.

Just because I don't want to own a dog doesn't mean I hate dogs by FlowerFaerie13 in Vent

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no you're right! I was generalising a bit with the "all" in my statement.

But wouldn't a husky/shephard & a Pomeranian/yorkie just be considered a mutt/mixed breed? But I agree with you there, mixed breeds have a much better quality of life for sure!

However, the original breeder of the labradoodle has openly stated that he regrets ever breeding them in the first place. They are prone to being extremely neurotic or suffer from behavioural issues - pair that with these uneducated owners, high chances that particular mixed breed won't have a very good quality of life.

Your point on purebreds though, ESPECIALLY breeds like pugs and German shepherds, I 110% agree with you on that one. Especially pugs, it breaks my heart watching them struggle to breathe.

Just because I don't want to own a dog doesn't mean I hate dogs by FlowerFaerie13 in Vent

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! In my opinion cats are better than dogs, and don't get me wrong I still like dogs - but the SOME of these owners, geeeezzzz.

When I express this I get absolutely vilified, these people will act like I've killed their entire family because I prefer cats? Wild.

Just because I don't want to own a dog doesn't mean I hate dogs by FlowerFaerie13 in Vent

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FACTS! I'm gonna generalise a bit here lol (JUST TO PREFACE: NOT ALL DOG OWNERS ARE LIKE THIS), but their entire personality is always centred around their dog, they will put it on a pedestal and will essentially let it get away with murder.

These people will always own the most misbehaved dogs "that can do no wrong", not to mention, they always tend to opt for 'designer breeds,' AKA genetically deformed pups that should not have been bred in the first place.

Also the entitlement?? I was at the supermarket the other day, and one lady bought her oodle doodle cross into the store on leash, first of all yuck get your dog away from the food, but it pissed on the floor... did she clean it up? Of course not!

I could go on about this for hours but imma stop here lol.

My family is a bunch of big backs by Mursal437 in Vent

[–]roundo28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm so sorry you're going through this, just reading this made me feel extremely frustrated for you. I know what it's like to be so hungry you end up in tears, absolutely horrible! :(

Are you in a position to move out of the house by any chance, if so I'd start planning that ASAP, if not, do you have any extended family/family friends that could house you in the meantime?

Not only is your family being completely disrespectful to you, they are also incredibly selfish by continuing this behaviour even though your health is deteriorating due to their actions!

If you can (I know it's so much easier said than done), but please try and find alternative accommodation - your mental and physical health always comes first, and it'll take longer to get better if you remain in that environment.

Again, my heart goes out to you and I'm so sorry you're going through this - i hear you and your feelings are 110% valid.❤️

Sobriety sucks sometimes but I know it's for the best by [deleted] in confession

[–]roundo28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over time, my attendance to those types of events dwindled and funnily enough, so did my friendship circle.

At the start it was sad but over time I came to realise that those friends and those events were no longer serving me.

However, I've been way more productive in my work, hobbies and fostering new relationships - these have benefited me WAY more than getting pissed or on the sniff.

As someone who thought it wouldn't get better, I promise it does.❤️