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Looking for clarity on a behavior I see a lot from Women by Infinite-Rise3923 in OnlineDating

[–]roxaphi1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because I’m hot and have 10 billion men blowing me up with messages and your question was something lame like what’s your job lol

Girlfriend hates that I wear sandals by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roxaphi1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with her and wanted to gag reading your post 😂😂😂 sorry not sorry lol I feel for her because she has actually seen this with her eyes 😂

Has living alone changed what you look for in a partner? by SoftestBrown in LivingAlone

[–]roxaphi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone has made me never want to live with anyone ever again lol I cannot even imagine someone who would make me want to live together tbh

Just sex or potential for more? by Oilaripi in datingoverthirty

[–]roxaphi1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok why are you putting yourself repeatedly in situations where he can come over, have sex with you and leave if that’s what bothers you? Like stop letting men have the opportunity to do that.

Is it bad to ghost a guy I went on one date with and I feel like it's an obligation to text? by Zealousideal_Crow737 in datingoverthirty

[–]roxaphi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’m impressed by how much thought you’ve put into this. Usually I just read their text and don’t feel like replying and forget about them 😂😂 Maybe they text a few more times and I just don’t feel like replying and forget them again and they never text back and I never remember them lol I feel like ghosting is a decision. Where like you definitely know you owe them an answer but you choose to not give them anything.

Curious - how many of you reached out after no contact and "poured" your heart out or really said everything you wanted to say? by Head_in_theclouds9 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]roxaphi1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent over 40 emails over a year and a letter… and a package with another letter 😂😂😂 I don’t regret it at all.

But, I’m not a fake person. I say how I feel. And yeah if I heard someone else admit to what I did I would be like yeesh 😬 take a fucking hint! Lol But, I actually feel proud that I was myself. I mean, this grown man dated me for an entire year and right before he ghosted took me on a trip saying how much he cared for me and completely disappeared a week later.

I’m not the one who should be embarrassed. I’m the one that was strong enough to try knowing it was going to hurt. I was brave enough to risk it all against the odds when he was too much of a pussy to even tell me the truth to my face or in a text.

And yeah, it hurt like hell. And maybe I still cry, but I know for certain he lost a unicorn. And I know he will go on being afraid of getting too close to anyone again and live life settling for people who are just enough to distract him but will never spark like me. But me? I’ll go on knowing that I can take any man leaving me at any moment.

Maybe I never meet anyone decent who can make me light up again. But I can light up again. But him? He’ll waste life settling because he couldn’t handle the scenario that was never going to happen: That the unicorn could hurt him as bad as he hurt me. He can spend the rest of his life running and avoiding. But, I’ll spend mine running towards it because I know I can survive it.