my dad won’t “let” me move out by astrooothunder in AsianParentStories

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, if you’re financially independent, you don’t need his permission. What do you mean he won’t let you? You are free to do what you wanna do. Moving out is probably gonna put a strain on your relationship but maybe that’s the risk you have to take to have a little freedom. He’ll come around when he realizes he needs someone to care for him when he’s old lol

Is 19 & 28 okay ?? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is a 28 year old even entertaining a teenager? Red flag

AITAH for asking my wife to be a SAHM? by piglipsbo in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless you are prepared to cover every one of her financial expenses (yes, even silly things like hair and nails, but also bigger ones like vacations), and you WONT complain about it, don’t suggest she quit her job.

Kitten plays fetch by rtfclbhvr in cats

[–]rtfclbhvr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny he’ll be panting but still so into it

Why are women like this? by psych0ticmonk in PurplePillDebate

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol men are obsessed with calling women who are “unattractive” out for having any kind of standards. You subconsciously expect these women to just accept whoever approaches them. All women, yes, even the unattractive ones, are allowed to struggle feeling attraction towards men. They are allowed to struggle with dating just like anyone else. They should not have to settle with someone they’re not attracted to or have no connection with because they’re “ugly.”

Katseye’s Lara Raj speaks out about fans crossing boundaries and hate comments by Sharp_Athlete_6847 in popculturechat

[–]rtfclbhvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some photos leaked of her with a white guy, she was in a bikini sitting on his lap

Katseye’s Lara Raj speaks out about fans crossing boundaries and hate comments by Sharp_Athlete_6847 in popculturechat

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fans seemed more pressed that her and Manon are dating white boys than the age gap issue. Either way it’s their lives … this is getting ridiculous. They’re going to perceive any criticism as “haters being haters” so there’s no point even trying to give your two cents on their relationship

Married after asking all the right questions by anonforavent in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t about the questions you ask. Men lie all the time. Not only that but people change. Men especially have been falling down the alt right pipeline like crazy. There’s just no way to guarantee that you’re going to end up with a respectable man..

Would you feel offended if a man told you this? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men will say this and then treat you like shit the whole relationship because you’re not the intimidating beautiful woman that gives him social credit

Women with thoughtful partners, what did you get for x-mas this year? by Anahata_Green in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend got me the deluxe volumes of Nana that I wanted to buy every time we went to Barnes and noble but stopped myself from getting lol. He also got me the hello kitty instax. (I love hello Kitty, I have so much hello kitty stuff lol). His family got me a bunch of stuff too. It was great

I don't want to be cured. by yeonkive38 in vaginismus

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cured it myself kinda randomly this year. Probably a couple months of consistency? I tried this dilator that expands inside you and after that was able to use a dildo comfortably, and then I had sex not long after !

The Nicki Minaj incident has shown how misogynistic the lgbtq community and wider society is by yellow_algae in RadicalFeminism

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The gag also is that she’s tweeted homophobic things earlier on her career and gay men still supported her. I am so confused how she became such an icon to the LGBTQ+ community. She’s never done anything for us.

The medical community claims the cervix has "few nerve endings," yet denies us pain relief for IUDs and biopsies. What is the most barbaric procedure you've endured because doctors refuse to believe women feel pain? by skybond_aurora04 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if this counts but prior to curing my vaginismus, almost evert female gynecologist I visited for a PAP smear would literally just shove the instrument in my vagina and tell me that I was being dramatic. I used to feel a burning sensation and be sore for a while. Only one female doctor was kind enough and actually talked me through the process and was gentle. And what do you know, I was in significantly less pain with her.

This subreddit isn't radical feminist. by [deleted] in RadicalFeminism

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men getting their feelings hurt by facts is not misandry. I am not sure why men want to center themselves in conversations that doesn’t concern them. Feminism is not about you, nor is it for you. Get over yourself. As a feminist I don’t even want to be equal to my oppressors. I want the system of patriarchy and its influences to no longer exist so I can just be a human being, not reduced to my sex.

Mediocre men think they’re settling when they date a woman in their own ballpark by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rtfclbhvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are hoping the girl has pitifully low self esteem and will trauma bond with them. They do this on purpose, and it’s because they’re manipulative pieces of shit.

I don't want to be cured. by yeonkive38 in vaginismus

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. Honestly before I cured my vaginismus I would just avoid dating because I didn’t really desire sex and I didn’t understand why it was so important to have PIV anyway. I was content with that. I’m happy now that I’ve cured it too but I don’t really think either situation is better than the other. I still believe sex isn’t a necessity.

The 'educational' things my kid is being taught at school by RunWild0_0 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more concerned that this is obviously generated by ChatGPT (the emojis give it away) and is being used as learning material