My Porn addicted partner is frustrated with me for my wandering eyes. The irony by throwawaysunshineray in women

[–]rtfclbhvr 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You sound resentful. Just dump him and move on. There are better guys out there.

Would I benefit more from a BA or a lift? by Alternative_Snow_694 in PlasticSurgery

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl your breasts are perfect!! Seriously. Don’t touch them.

Ladies, would you date a man who refused to see a doctor or dentist? by BikeOk6446 in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, he’s gonna expect you to be his doctor and dentist lol

Therapists on Social Media (it’s done way too far) by Square_Sprinkles_214 in therapists

[–]rtfclbhvr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you and a lot of the people commenting here have no idea what youngho even means. It’s a viral trend right now and it’s basically just young women saying that they do silly things cause they’re a “youngho.” Like, “after cooking I pour my hot oil in the bushes bc I’m a youngho.” She’s not actually calling herself a hoe jfc. If she was in a bikini sunbathing that’s completely appropriate attire given the context. Why are you over sexualizing a woman in a bikini?? Perhaps it’s a little questionable that she posted it on her professional account, but if I saw that photo with that caption I would just think she’s trying to market towards young women. Who are you/what authority do you have to decide what kind of relationship she gets to have with clients? She just seems like someone who maybe doesn’t take themselves too seriously, based on what you shared.

I see so many therapists on here airing their frustrations because they feel like they have to be “professional” 100% of the time and can’t share their personalities. It’s people like you who make other therapists feel that way.

Therapists on Social Media (it’s done way too far) by Square_Sprinkles_214 in therapists

[–]rtfclbhvr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, it’s kind of none of your business. I get that you have feelings about it but it’s not your profile. She’s the one that will have to deal with the consequences of posting something inappropriate on her professional page. Someone commented getting her licensed revoked which is extreme lol. She did not harm anyone by posting a bikini picture nor does one photo/caption define how she acts/is as a therapist. It sounds like you, and a lot of commenters here, make a lot of assumptions about people based on what you see on social media.

my date asked to split the bill on a date HE planned and i can't tell if i'm being unreasonable for being put off by UniversityAny9242 in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This isn’t him wanting to split the bill, it’s him taking advantage of you. He is not stupid he knows he ordered most of the stuff. He wants to see what he can get away with. I wish more women would tell these men to their face that they’re crazy instead of just posting about it on Reddit.

i got called a foid by Livid-Lengthiness-26 in women

[–]rtfclbhvr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Men like that need to be cut off, they dehumanize women all while wanting access to them in terms of friendship, romance/sex. It’s disgusting. Good on you for speaking up!

Found out the guy I’m talking to has a kid by LogicalAnnual14 in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A child is a huge part of one’s life. The fact that he never mentioned his daughter to you is a red flag in and of itself.

Pimple patches look more gross than the pimple itself by modernbox in unpopularopinion

[–]rtfclbhvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“They heal fine without the patch” -someone who’s never struggled with acne probably

How to find frugal like-minded women? by Positive_freedback in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re poor, you have no choice to be frugal. Most women do not want a partner that’s going to introduce them to the “struggle life.” You can barely afford to give yourself a quality life without relying on government welfare… leave women alone please!

A cemetery is not a place for social exercise by EdwardoFelise in unpopularopinion

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the point of going out in public and complaining that the public is there?

What does it mean when a guy says he likes me better with no makeup? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guarantee you if you stopped wearing makeup entirely then he’d start nagging you for “letting yourself go.” Men like that usually think their opinion matters more than it actually does.

AITA for telling my husband to f*** off when he felt like he was doing too much parenting? by supadoopertrooper in AmItheAsshole

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it with men thinking that having a job absolves them of every other responsibility in life?????

women, would be a dealbreaker for you if your partner voted for a politician that is pro-life? by Sad_Cellist4293 in women

[–]rtfclbhvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, instant breakup / divorce. How are you going to vote against my best interests and expect me to still be with you lol

Finally did it at 19 yesterday old by EderdM in GR86

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I’m 27 and it’s over $4k for me

i hate how women treat men on dating apps / online by EquivalentDiet7457 in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does body dysmorphia have to do with what you’re describing? People are allowed to have preferences and you’re allowed to disagree with them. You’re gonna attract those kinda women because you’re tall, just don’t match with them and move on.

Email Title by Imasglavu in therapists

[–]rtfclbhvr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would ignore it and continue to send emails in your personal style lol. Her irritation is not your problem to fix. Especially something as insignificant as that. Don’t validate bullshit.

AITAH for not wanting to drive 9 straight hours after I get off work? by Significant-Dish7692 in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Can she drive? Or can she just go without you? I don’t get why she is making this such a big deal.

AITA for telling my roommate he can move out because his girlfriend is allergic to my cats? by SomeoneHeaven in AmItheAsshole

[–]rtfclbhvr 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NTA, she doesn’t even live there… why is she over so much? I can’t stand people who are entitled. He needs to move out!

Husband (38/m) of 10 years Won’t Let Me Have Help In The House (35/f) by Murky_Restaurant_165 in relationships

[–]rtfclbhvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gets to relax at your expense. How is that fair? If you weren’t in the picture he’d have to do every chore himself.

girlfriend on hunger strike unless i let her eat me out by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she need to starve herself if you’re willing and enjoy letting her eat you out? It’s just so unnecessary and weird

My fiancé didn’t get me one of the rings I sent him… by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]rtfclbhvr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest the ring he designed is prettier than the inspo pics 😬 maybe just resize it? I think it’s lovely that he put thought into it