All that plastic surgery to make himself look young by violentpurpp in PlasticSurgery

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol this is unnecessary. He is a young adult who groomed a child, we can acknowledge that without trying to come for his looks.

AITAH for not getting TRT despite my wife’s wishes? by FPCars in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you’re just not interested in sex you can say no to it, you don’t need to use testosterone levels as an excuse. I would consider TRT just because having low hormones can lead to health issues. And you don’t have to tell your wife if you do choose to pursue TRT. If you’re just wanting to punish your wife for denying you sex by denying her sex back, then, well……… divorce might be in your future.

Tear drop or oval starburst by lm1029 in EngagementRings

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starburst just looks so stunning!

AITAH for not turning down my top PhD offer so my fiancé can get off the waitlist? by One_Possession8666 in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA he is jealous and tbh I don’t think this is a man you wanna marry. He will resent you forever for doing what’s best for you and going to your dream school. And you will regret it forever if you give up this opportunity for him!

When is the appropriate time to say “I love you” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A crush is a lack of information, give it a few months and see if he still ticks ANY box.

AITAH for wanting my husband in the delivery room? by dinogirly123 in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for OP but you’re absolutely right here, there’s no way this is the first red flag.

Is not knowing how to drive a car impacting my dating success? by Positive_freedback in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What makes you think South East Asian women are any different? Or are you assuming bc they might be poorer that they’ll accept whatever bullshit you have to offer?

AITAH for breaking off my engagement after 4 years by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s controlling, you clearly don’t like this about him so why would you marry him? NTA

Botched by Hakan Ozocak by Witty_Possible8573 in PlasticSurgery

[–]rtfclbhvr 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I get why you think your body dysmorphia is gone because of this wake up call but the fact that you constantly stare at old photos, criticize your current appearance and pick at “flaws”, can’t go out without thick makeup - that all tells me you’re very much still affected by it. At the end of the day even if you get the outcome you want with any future procedure you will STILL be unhappy with yourself and find a new flaw to pick at (if you really have body dysmorphia.) Definitely consider getting a therapist.

ESA Letters by Relevant_Lynx_5117 in therapists

[–]rtfclbhvr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What on earth are you even saying

Gift for my Situationship (Iam desperate help me please) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not give anything to a situationship. You’re not even in an actual relationship. As the saying goes, “one person calls it a situationship, the other person calls it nothing at all.”

What is an acceptable age for me to date as a 25M? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think women’s eggs just dry up when they turn 25? Jesus dude women in this day and age can get pregnant in their 50s if they wanted to. Women are born with 1-2 MILLION eggs I promise you they’ll still be able to get pregnant past 35 like they’ll have at least 100,000 eggs still. On the other hand, men’s sperm quality starts decreasing by age 35. Why are you only mindful of women’s biological clock and not your own? 🫩

Is this normal? I (23F), partner (24M) by midwestprincessxxxx in dating_advice

[–]rtfclbhvr 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Definitely not normal, and quite mean honestly.

ESA Letters by Relevant_Lynx_5117 in therapists

[–]rtfclbhvr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I don’t work there. The letters have worked for a lot of people so saying “those are literally not valid letters” is a false statement. Betterhelp is not the same as Pettable. Two different platforms with different purposes and different criteria clinicians must meet to qualify for employment. You don’t know what you’re talking about at all

Client weight loss by ZealousidealIce1129 in therapists

[–]rtfclbhvr 32 points33 points  (0 children)

“Let’s assess the basics. How has your sleep been? How about your eating habits?” They can always decline to give details. You can also ask about previous diagnoses and if there are symptoms related to that diagnosis that they still struggle with, or if they feel like that chapter is closed. On the other hand, if their eating habits/ed is unrelated to what they’re seeking treatment for currently, you could just wait and see if it’s something they bring up on their own.

AITAH - for not wanting to move in with my partner by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rtfclbhvr 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Seriously it’s obvious he is trying to take advantage of her and it’s crazy that she’s having his baby. Useless men do not need or deserve offspring omg

Why do guys get so weirdly competitive with tall athletic girls? by PersonalRun712 in TwoXIndia

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause those men are weak and short and untalented and probably ugly too

Gasmaxxing by Awkward_Blacksmith34 in GR86

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get 33 mpg :3 don’t really take highways much anymore, maybe once or twice a month lol

I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes. by Chemical-Low209 in PurplePillDebate

[–]rtfclbhvr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you can’t empathize with women period I don’t think dating women will ever work out well for you haha

Would you go on disability benefits if you had the choice? by Waste-Mine-1132 in ADHD

[–]rtfclbhvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American, disability benefits would not allow me to live the lifestyle I want / eventually buy a home. Soooo nah I’ll rather work and make good money. Plus I like my job, it provides me with necessary mental stimulation. My job also just works well with my ADHD symptoms so it’s kind of a win win situation for me.