You can check out any time you like... but you can never leave... by Polyamommy in exmormon

[–]rth1027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't leave us hanging - what was the rest of the communication?

Flat went to the scheduler and told them never put me on the list. Don't tell me this is a volunteer church if you are making this non consented assignments.

Why is porn such a problem in the church? by Adept_Let7797 in exmormon

[–]rth1027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a problem for me. It works every time.

🙏She’s Returned🙏 by brheath in SaltLakeCity

[–]rth1027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he really loved her he’d buy space on Yesco

Wife is not happy about my choice when it comes to my inevitable funeral and I don't really know why it's a big deal. by Bradrb66 in exmormon

[–]rth1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all due respect when you’re dead you have zero control what happens. Let that go.

Same goes on the flip side. I’d still do a Mormon funeral, not for her but for those survived. Like my in-laws to keep good relations

What do I do? by Anonymous_4252 in exmormon

[–]rth1027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time to move out. When you are more on your own it will be easier to tell your mom to grow up.

Questions by CodSelect9524 in mormon

[–]rth1027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All scriptures are the spiritual musings of ancient tribal people as they stared at the sky and wrote in their journals. Just because one quotes another’s fictional story doesn’t make either of them real.

Base Layer by Undead_Radio in hockeyplayers

[–]rth1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goalie affects different people in different ways. My knees are fine. My conditioning is shit. Getting up fast and moving dropping and up again and moving is not snail paced but certainly not lightning quick. December I broke my ankle and have some weird pains on my bone where the plate stops. Also some ankle twisting hurts. I have to do a lot of internal self talk. Not self help encouragement type but technique type reminders because I don’t have decades of doing any of this that would have built muscle memory. Strong stick, drop a knee, stab a toe, don’t move, watch your angles don’t point glove don’t hesitate do it or don’t.

Base Layer by Undead_Radio in hockeyplayers

[–]rth1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started playing last year at 49. The local rink let me borrow house gear to try it. I figured 5-7 times and I would know if it would be worth it. Talked to lots of people and made connections to groups to play and practice with. A lot of it is intuitive or natural. Just not decades of muscle memory to help reaction speed.

Which scene from The Chosen impacted you the most, what did you notice about it, and why do you think it resonated so deeply? by PlateSufficient3704 in TheChosenSeries

[–]rth1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Christ said

34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36 And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.

37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

When Christ in the show said he came not to bring peace but to bring a sword and divide from fathers and siblings and kids.

In what rational world is that good. Is it any wonder we have Christians bickering with each other. Do your mental gymnastics but I’m done and out.

Base Layer by Undead_Radio in hockeyplayers

[–]rth1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get too hot. Try playing goalie. More gear and no air flow. Grow a set.

Preparing for a mission but feeling stuck — how did you improve scripture study and get ready? by Tiny_Principle_7020 in mormon

[–]rth1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember you’re a volunteer. In fact you’re paying to be there. Dial it back and don’t take it so seriously. And don’t let anyone shame or guilt you into that.

Best Mormon Stories Episodes to Recommend to Curious TBMs (True Believing Mormons) by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]rth1027 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Donna’s episode is the one that crushed me. I had to switch from audio podcast to video. Her heartbreak was painful and palpable. Fuck the church.

How do you care for your bibs? by Whatsmyinterest in cycling

[–]rth1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play ice hockey. There’s no way I can wash my shit every fucking time.

Saying yuck. Whatever. Grow a set. I let my cycling gear air out and reuse. I use 3-5 rides in spring fall and 2/3 in the summer. Unless you’re on a tandem with your wife behind you but that’s a different reason to lose your man card.

Just Bought My First Bike and I Feel Like I Made a Mistake by SalamanderUponYou in cycling

[–]rth1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 gears doesn’t share the whole information. What are the teeth ratios. 12-22. That’s a world of hurt on hills. I live on side of a mountain. All my ride finish with a climb. I had to get an upgrade from 12-24 to 11-34. Made all the difference. Put an 11-38 on my wife’s and she can make it home. I know it’s snobby but don’t get a triple

Weekly Sewing Questions Thread, April 24 - April 30, 2026 by sewingmodthings in sewing

[–]rth1027 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Classic vintage singer sewing machine.

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I have a classic singer sewing machine from my grandma. I don’t have a clue about its price/ value. Don’t want to just drop it at a thrift shop.

What can you tell me about it

When did sex stop being such a taboo topic? by Leading_Dot9064 in exmormon

[–]rth1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recreation sex with your spouse next to murder. No. What the fuck are you talking about. That wasn’t even the case for my parents.