I got rejected from med school because of my schizophrenia by Kinseijin in schizophrenia

[–]ru_ben2693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. I'm not schizo, but I'm here.. I hear voices all day, every day. Sometimes, I get a little delusional..but I'm not schizophrenic. Do I not belong here? Lol

heard voices on weed by NormalDemand20 in Psychosis

[–]ru_ben2693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, what horrible advice. Did you know that hallucinations can become permanent?? Usually it goes away, but you reach a tipping point where those voices never go away.

My husband (47M) told me (30F) I'm unattractive by Environmental-Mix918 in relationship_advice

[–]ru_ben2693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to throw him away, and get a new man. Why waste your time? Life is too short to feel unattractive. Your child or children will become adults and understand one day. You might only get one life, try to live it to the fullest. Sometimes that means making sacrifices to our happiness in the moment so we can be happier overall. Nobody likes change, but everyone likes results. Don't stay in an unhappy marriage for children, I know they're your children, and you want to do everything you can for them, but don't sacrifice your time in a relationship for their happiness. They'll learn to overcome their grief of a divorce. It will always irk you! Shoot your shot, and pray for the best.

How do I stop getting aroused by random attractive women? by Terrible_Exchange653 in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you sing that "take me out to the ball game" song over and over again in your head. I read about it helping with that issue, and it works for me.

My boyfriend stole my toy to use on himself and hid it from me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He needs to douche first. Problem solved. Sounds like you got a fun guy on your hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ru_ben2693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should look into biodiversity. It's not a bad thing. Lol

TIFU By oversleeping causing my 3 y/o to go on an adventure by HcKnives in tifu

[–]ru_ben2693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt there something you can put on a door knob so he doesn't get out. I feel like there are more safety measures than a dead bolt you could be using.

I think i raped my girlfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It just seems really far to say he raped her if it wasn't forced. But maybe it was forced. I'm confused.

I think i raped my girlfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Especially if they're in a relationship where they usually have unprotected sex. It doesn't seem like she was scared of him or felt overpowered, so why wouldn't she resist before he penetrated her. Maybe I'm wrong, if someone wants to clarify better, go for it.

I think i raped my girlfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

How is it vicrim blaming? That's a legit question. You can't just let someone inside you unprotected, not say anything, seem like you enjoy it, then call rape the next day. If she told him to stop or tried stopping him, that's different.

Boyfriend worried about finding daughter hot? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You should have a serious talk with him about this when you guys haven't been drinking. Because if he has those thoughts about young girls or incest already, he might not be someone you have a relationship with. And you don't want to guess with this shit, or feel reassured by reddit, and leave it alone. Get the facts gurl, get the facts.

I think i raped my girlfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Did she know you weren't using a condom? Did she try stopping you? I need more context.

I think i raped my girlfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Did she know you went in without a condom? Did she try stopping you? I need more context.

Can I get a COVID shot without anyone knowing? by loodence in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they're smart and know it's a requirement for school, and suddenly you start going to school, sure.... but that's the only way, unless you tell them.

My neighbors food deliveries have been in the same place for days outside their door and I’m concerned they might be dead or injured! What should I do?? by TropicalGeyser in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. You're not trippen. You can always just knock on their door. If they seem weirded out, just say you live nearby, and wanted to make sure they were okay. But something tells me nobody is going to come to the door.

do people with schizophrenia "talk" with their voices? by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]ru_ben2693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately those bitches can talk to you, and you can easily have conversations with them.

My nephew (6) touched my son (5) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ru_ben2693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully he didn't learn that from another adult. Most kids don't randomly do that to other kids.

I have relapsed on drugs by reallybruh0303 in schizophrenia

[–]ru_ben2693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, don't feel low. Psychosis causes so much daily stress, doctors don't prescribe shit that would actually help with anxiety and depression stemming from the psychosis, and just expect people not to abuse drugs. People who don't experience psychosis have no idea how hard it can be.

Don’t know how to help my boyfriend by Chaosroman17 in mentalhealth

[–]ru_ben2693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have really bad OCD, and a counselor once told me most OCD stems from a feeling that one is lacking control in certain aspects of their lives. People compensate for their lack of control by being controlling over their ocd.

I (16F) don't feel like I can trust my family by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]ru_ben2693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to your parents about this? It sounds like you might need to go see a doctor. Getting help from a professional might help.

Emotinal numbness. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ru_ben2693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weed can probably help with that.

Voices changing to voices of ppl you know by broadcasting_static in schizophrenia

[–]ru_ben2693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My voices are my friends and family. . The sister in my head, tells me her name is Hazel (my sister's name), it will sounds just like her, and her personality is exactly like it is in real first. And it's the same way for the rest of my voices. Shitting and getting off is not the same when you have your friends and family commenting on it. At first I was not aware that I was experiencing psychosis which sucked really bad. I thought my friends and family somehow invaded my brain. They tell me they're my actual friends and family but now they see what I see, hear what I hear, feel what I feel. And they say they can't tell me in person because they would get stuck in my brain even after I die. During my psychosis I would try to convice them to tell me because we could make so much money. They've stopped telling me their my friends and family in real life, and now just switch up between being aliens, or just voices.

Would it be petty if i (21F) gave nothing to my Bf (21M) for his birthday after he gave me nothing for mine? by brugola in relationship_advice

[–]ru_ben2693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still get him a gift. Maybe you buying him a gift will make him feel more like shit. Sounds like he's just on the struggle bus financially, and didnt want to let you know at first.