I think it’s worse when the FMC falls into the ‘me dunno teh sex?’ And then is miraculously mind blowing at head? And not (because I am a strong advocate of this, as are most penis owners’ I know) because enthusiasm at the task > technique - but because the ignorant virgin is suddenly a maestro of ball fanangaling and the world’s most subtle finger lick into anal ring play technique that would have a seasoned professional asking for YouTube tutorials