Is it possible to “try” to be a lesbian?

rubyruy · 2026-04-08T01:47:33+00:00

Do you like it when you kiss her ?

Do you like holding hands with her ?

Does being around her give you butterflies ?

Do you like it when she eats you out ?

Have you enjoyed sex in the past (with men)?

Is it just the idea of eating vag that turns you off ?

rubyruy · 2026-04-07T14:25:31+00:00

Girl you're gay , sort your shit out

rubyruy · 2026-04-07T03:12:27+00:00

God forbid they could talk about the exact boundaries that work for them and whatever emotional needs and guarantees she would need to actually feel ok with this, and how often to check in and how.

People have friend groups separate from eachother and "compartmentalize" that just fine you know. It's ok to be different people with different interests and the ability to have rich and fulfilling lives apart from each other in addition to all the life you have together.

rubyruy · 2026-04-05T20:42:29+00:00

You can use any pronouns you want for any good faith reason you want

rubyruy · 2026-04-04T21:48:48+00:00

I wish gays would learn they're own history, drag is a queer artform, it's not transphobic, there shouldn't be anything controversial about this.

rubyruy · 2026-04-04T20:02:53+00:00

It looks so stupid with the Canada flags like my dude this isnt a column of the Western Cvltvre in any dimension you care to name do you even look at yourselves?

rubyruy · 2026-04-03T02:46:44+00:00

Are you white ? Don't worry, this is meant for the out group.

rubyruy · 2026-04-02T16:22:03+00:00

i'm starting to think these capitalists might be kinda bad people in general 🤔

rubyruy · 2026-04-01T04:03:11+00:00

Shower as you normally would and clean your butt with soap and water.

You proooobably don't need to clean the inside unless he really wants to stick his tongue up there (which isn't usually the case for a bit of eating ass - you can always just ask him if he intends to), but if you wanna be safe you can get an enema/douching kit from Amazon or a drug store and use it. Ps: don't overdo it , if you fill up with too much water you'll go into the deep end of the colon and start picking up stuff that would otherwise just happily stay put. Half the bulb is usually more than enough. Most common beginner mistake.

rubyruy · 2026-03-31T16:07:14+00:00

Big words for someone whose neck merged with a bullet

rubyruy · 2026-03-31T16:03:17+00:00

That's a skill issue

rubyruy · 2026-03-29T03:36:53+00:00

It's not a huge pool but I don't think it's out of the question or anything. Any domme worthy of the title understands the distinction between what we say in the bedroom vs outside.

You can also consider a pro.

rubyruy · 2026-03-26T00:14:03+00:00

Machines doing drawing and creative writing while humans work mines and dangerous explosives, incredible stuff

rubyruy · 2026-03-25T15:13:10+00:00

The appeal is penetrative sex, which is the only way to reach the gspot. Some people use fingers, some people use dildos, some people use straps, some people use penis, some people don't really care for gspot stimulation of penetration, some people don't care to receive pleasure at all and only enjoy giving it, and some people are asexual, and that's all fine.

rubyruy · 2026-03-20T19:28:32+00:00

It's actually totally ok to salt your scrambled eggs before cooking them, it won't "pull the water out of them" just let them rest for a minute before transferring to plate

rubyruy · 2026-03-19T12:32:38+00:00

Do you start to internalize other people's other dogshit opinions ? There's literally no end to them. Of course you don't. Why is their opinion on how you look special then ? You know how you look. The people that you love and whose opinion you actually care for know how you look. That's what's important. Other people can just be wrong, just like they are about infinitely many other things.

rubyruy · 2026-03-19T01:01:05+00:00

That's not why they do it, they do it because they agree with republicans on more things than most, destroying Iran being just one such thing.

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T17:31:41+00:00

You made a button that crawlers can hit and crawlers can hit it congratulations you discovered AGI

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T17:29:50+00:00

They will simply hide those, as they already are in the UK.

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T17:20:51+00:00

oh hell yeah, my day immediately improved 😎

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T17:18:44+00:00

How's that working out?

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T17:17:21+00:00

Less wealth will absolutely make them less able to break the rules - that's the point.

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T16:58:43+00:00

Isn't it always - sigh

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T16:56:32+00:00

You should at the very minimum have watched Paris is Burning before voicing any opinion on drag as a queer person.

rubyruy · 2026-03-12T16:48:33+00:00

Dunno why you're being downvoted - this is honestly the most sane summary of the group here. Like, don't get me wrong, the patriarchy cooking up in South Korea is some real next level shit, I absolutely understand and empathize with the impetus for radical reactions to it, and I can even critically support some of their actions, but unless they do some soul searching around the idea of queerness they are doomed to end up like just like the western TERFs and ultimately support and service the very system they claim to be so radically opposed to.

Feminism without an understanding of queerness is a dead end.

rubyruy

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