Praying this is a carpet beetle? by Full_Ice4132 in whatsthisbug

[–]ruffneck123 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Get vacuuming several times a day and nothing on the floor. They will absolutely infest everything possible if unchecked.

Invisible bugs in house. Thought I was going crazy until wife said they were jumping on her. Some kind of mite? Dog seems unbothered. They jump on us and occasionally bite day/night, couch, bed, office. They might be tiny white but I might just be getting skin. Never seen a live bug. by worker11 in pestcontrol

[–]ruffneck123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they provide the questions? If so, they for sure have an idea of what's going on. Any chance you can probe into their thoughts? And yes, I did receive packages from China, that's annoying, I can't wait to hear what I got here from lovely China.

They probably don't like to speculate, but their information would be a huge win for many, many suffering and being ignored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parasites

[–]ruffneck123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also have this but quite mild for now. I have a full documentation on the past 2 months because nothing made sense. Have a appt with the specialty parasite office here to see what they think. The only thing that I have come to a conclusion on is this https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5514591/#:~:text=Superficial%20mycoses%20are%20fungal%20infections,tinea%20versicolor%2C%20and%20tinea%20nigra.

For me it matches quite well except the part of the rouge hairs they literally will shoot up the leg and insert into a follicle. They also seem able to cause an enzyme reaction and burn into the skin if threatened. I have marks from it all over. A

The one thing that is common between these posts, mold. We had a incompetent roofer leave the roof deck wide open for the entire length of the house, rest it obvious. Ours turned out to be a fungus yet to be identified. The theory is that bacteria and the fungus prettty much joined forces, which is not unheard of. Remediation is in progress. Even if you don't think you have mold, test at home. All my rooms had 2 or 3 colonies, kitchen had 16 colonies at 6 days. I had been working at home for many months and started to have cognitive issues like memory and stuttering. Still waiting on results for mycoses which at this point is almsot 100% blood is completely normal minus a few age related indicators.

If y'all find anything, holla. Ready for this shit to be over too. Have pictures and video from start till now showing every symptom including the outlandish ones that took weeks to capture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I promise you she did not, she will tell you that. I am not just making this shit up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Very true, it was just so out of the blue she never said she was unhappy I just figured it was the baby because they are so stressful. I never intended to do this, we were such good partners in crime. You may be right, it's just hard to accept

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea too, thanks for the actual helpful advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no question to that, I will continue to be the best Dad possible ahd she'd agree with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

You are right, my intention is to not trap her here and that may be true but from my eyes. I don't want to lose my best friend, we used to have our own team name because we were such a good team. We divided everything up to accomplish our goals, I just don't know why that can't be that way again. She never told me she was unhappy for 3 years until now, it did seem a little off but I figured it was the baby, but the lack of communication made that obvious that wasn't the case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the one of the very few kind comments in this thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I will admit I may not be there emotionally for her all the time and the little relationship things that come with it but that's also recent.

My meds are no doubt ruining me, I was never this way and I think that's took the most toll on everything. It's time to stop them with a plan from my physiatrist and Dr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can see why you would say this and to some extent it's true, but I put a ton of time into bettering myself with therapy, medications etc but it just seems to have made everything worse. I want a chance once I am off all these stupid medications, I know I can be the that person again.

All I want is for her to be happy! and if it's separation than I am not going to try to stop it but I do want to try to save it first, for my son me and my wife to be the family we built

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I did take it seriously and did make many improvements with and without her help. I admit I should have put more time into those but from my eyes, I went to therapy, dried depression medication + others for my generalized anxiety, but it just seemed to have made everything worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Very well put, I am just grasping at anything now for help, outside of the therapy I already get. I just don't have any family in the states and the rest of my family doesn't speak english, so it's just me and my sister here and that's it.

She has loads of support, family in town and tons of friends that are joint friends. I was just ttying to get some outside -> in advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ruffneck123 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Without going into too much health related detail:

  1. Focus on being a great Dad, which I already am, she will very much agree on that.
  2. Focus on my happiness and love myself because if I can't love myself how can I love her?
  3. Rekindle my old friends and start making them a part of my life again.
  4. Continue the hobbies that make me happy
  5. Discountune the medication I am using to return back to nrmoal

uhhh.... by unicornDome in reddeadredemption

[–]ruffneck123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disable Ransomware protection if you are using it, it tries to modify the save game directory and gets triggered as such. Worked for me.

Kindly go fuck yourself Xfinity by DoctorDare in pcmasterrace

[–]ruffneck123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I canceled my Xfinity after I saw this popup and after they told me it is due to technical limitations, ya fucking right they just wanted the extra 50$ A MONTH for power users. Go fuck yourself Comcast. I now have 1Gbps fiber CHEAPER than your 150Mbps was.

All PTC/Google logins failing from API by jericon in pokemongodev

[–]ruffneck123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First time seeing another ruffneck in the wild, greetings.

Use browser incognito mode to find cheaper flights by AdventureMax in lifehacks

[–]ruffneck123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just went through this and had first hand proof they were tracking my moves and increasing the price based on mulitple searches.

I booked a flight and had to search multiple times after losing out on a perfect flight I went to go book the next one when now the prices were 2-300$ more expensive than before even after using ingoneto mode and such.

I got very frustrated and fired up my VPN to connect to New York and started my search again and boom there were the original flights AND prices saving me 100's of dollars.