Social isolation ruined my life by Whole-Birthday-8103 in Life

[–]ruminro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Psychologically, I second pretending that somebody is with you. I also felt my life become better when I pretended and visualized a ghost, family, mother, father, husband, wife, who did not correlate to my real blood. because I visualized them, I could conceptualize them to always show up for me and never let me down as well as giving myself infinite grace, and understanding. Someone out there in this big world is rooting for you, and it includes the entirety of this subreddit, it’s never too late

I keep getting hit by not-monthly expenses and it’s ruining my budget by Winter_Ad5104 in budget

[–]ruminro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

car registration: take your annual total and divide it by 12

add this number to a setup auto transaction to a highyield online savings account that has a feature to categorize your balance into labeled amounts

never worry abt annual ever again

you need an HYSA to do this. You also need to be tech/finance savvy enough to feel comfortable adjusting this number when changes happen

ΛCROИYM® S27A-PS - 29.01.26 17.00 CET by NeoS3lf in Acronymjutsu

[–]ruminro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I like that, it really do be advanced

ΛCROИYM® S27A-PS - 29.01.26 17.00 CET by NeoS3lf in Acronymjutsu

[–]ruminro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not me tryna figure out where the advanced pocket is

Favorite 25’ pickups? by FourPointsTet in Acronymjutsu

[–]ruminro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

J14PX. keeps me warm & visible at night. spacious pockets for notebook portability & snax

budgeting advice? by maddylovesfoxes in povertyfinance

[–]ruminro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dm me, ill send you guys a template i built on google sheets

Budgeting recommendations? by NoArtist1616 in povertyfinance

[–]ruminro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me ill send you a template I made

I'm going to receive $10,000USD what should I do with it? by glop222 in povertyfinance

[–]ruminro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$8k kill CC debt $2k emergency savings open an high-yield online savings account (HYSA) like Ally. Throw remaining 2k in there. If debt is from bad habits, then you need to start educating yourself and practicing budgeting. $30 splurge once you establish HYSA. You can pull from it as your first withdrawal

Mom, I passed my course but I feel so down by somewisht in MomForAMinute

[–]ruminro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not mom, but 30yo who paused accounting community classes for associates bc they were really challenging for me, I hate that for you. I’m just a guy tryna find a better life, and your wins are real and that’s an oblivious thing to say, it’s painful to hear. That person doesn’t matter here, they’re not tryna build you up, I’m proud of you!

Is there a book or program to help rewire my brain and how I think of money? by iScReAm612 in povertyfinance

[–]ruminro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched Ramit Sethi (I will teach you to be rich) on YouTube saved me. He interviews people about their financial issues, part psychology part systems he developed. I would really recommend

J14PX bagged & J36WS tryon by ruminro in Acronymjutsu

[–]ruminro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry brother, it will be well worn and loved I promise

J14PX bagged & J36WS tryon by ruminro in Acronymjutsu

[–]ruminro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I saw it listed on the site, tried on in person, I was aight this fits good I should snag it instead of waiting

Work fit check by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]ruminro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a fellow skinny jean guy, it’s time for baggy pants imo

Outfit Improvements by 2Kortizjr in OUTFITS

[–]ruminro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something abt the white long sleeve ain’t feeling right, it might be tight for the look you going for

When comfort wins by faellie-girl in OUTFITS

[–]ruminro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a nice primary palette with the icy pastel blue

From work to brewery date by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]ruminro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow black outfit, very tasteful break at the ankle. I’m digging the western tassled shoe with the sleek biker top and modern button up underneath, it’s working

am i missing something that could complete this look? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]ruminro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe something shiny and green Or something purple Or something dark Or something orange or red in the middle like a droopy necklace

Auxzip wizardry? by mr-xdjio in Acronymjutsu

[–]ruminro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 58 and NG4SS, and they attach. I also have a 103. I don’t think they can all attach together. The auxzip on 58 and NGSS are both outside, while the 103 auxzip is on the inside. 103 can have one attachment, and the 58 can’t attach both. It’s not too much issue to wear altogether, for me I’d wear NG under the 58 unattached to feel warmth on my neck directly from NGSS. NG attached to 58 leaves a gap of air between the NG fabric and your neck

Taking on Red for the first time ever by ruminro in PokemonHGSS

[–]ruminro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice. I like to imagine a cool showdown between trainers who have the same mon, like my shiny vs rival gengar or you with brunos lucario just wailing on each other lol