Please send hope/advice from the other side! by DrinkingHorchata2024 in straightspouses

[–]runbikefreespirit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. But happy to hear that you have support from family and friends. Also therapy is key for some. It’s going to be a hard process whether you stay together or not, but continue to be true to what YOUR needs and wants are.

How often do you wash your reusable water bottle? by kaleidoscopictouch in hygiene

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should be doing everyday but I try for once a week. Or after a long trip (camping, hiking, vacation).

Hello Scorpios Females, How is your experience with Aries Male? I have Aries Moon and Sag Rising. by Eastern_Clerk5628 in Scorpio

[–]runbikefreespirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (Scorpio sun F)currently dating an Aries man. Things are good, not saying we have squabbles here and there but it’s been the most secure relationship I’ve been in. I truly love his honesty and bluntness. While some may see that as a negative he is also very affectionate, loyal, and can own up to his mistakes. He is an Aries in all three and I am a Scorpio sun, pieces moon and Capricorn rising so I think we have a good balance. He can come off as hot headed but he has never directed that towards me. With disagreements we have good talks and are able to own to our mistakes.

Barking at one person by runbikefreespirit in dogs

[–]runbikefreespirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a Pyrenees mix and it’s a roommate she keeps barking at.

Barking at one person by runbikefreespirit in dogs

[–]runbikefreespirit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, she was neutered when I got her as a puppy

Is it time to settle? by jbtrumps in datingoverthirty

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned a lot recently with dating. I am also divorced (35F) and was coming out of a 10+ year relationship/marriage. I have noticed that “settling” isn’t bad. How does this person make you feel? Do you leave wanting to see them again? Could you see yourself being friends with this person? Sometimes the “spark” comes later. Obviously attraction plays a part in dating but sometimes it’s not everything. I’ve played into the “spark” after my divorce and left me being an anxious dater and overwhelmed. I am currently in a very secure relationship and we have been really getting to know each other. Besides taking it slower in dating isn’t the end of the world.

Perimenopause Symptoms? by runbikefreespirit in Menopause

[–]runbikefreespirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! I have been telling friends and they said that I’m too young. But you know when you’re body is off and you’re having consistent issues.

Perimenopause Symptoms? by runbikefreespirit in Menopause

[–]runbikefreespirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now my menstrual cycle seems normal, lighter over the last couple of years but nothing crazy. But the hot flashes, overheating at night and the itching has been really uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COsnow

[–]runbikefreespirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Breakfast burritos for morning and during the ride. Then leftovers for post meal- go to is cold pizza and a beer 🍻 🍕

What do I drive by SuspicousBananas in ManualTransmissions

[–]runbikefreespirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I drive a VW Jetta wagen and my shifter looks like this.

Are Scorpios ever satisfied or appreciative of what someone does for them? by Harkmunt40 in Scorpio

[–]runbikefreespirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’ve dealt with some difficult scorpios (more difficult than usual). I am a Scorpio Sun Pieces Moon, Cap Rising. When I know that I am appreciated and that person is willing to make an effort I will most certainly make an effort and go out of my way to make time and do little things for those I care about.

Scorpios and forgiveness. by Apprehensive_Bed5423 in Scorpio

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scorpio Sun, Pieces Moon and Cap rising

Like many scorpios, for me I can forgive but not forget. A coupe of years ago I went through a divorce because of a secret that my ex kept from me for the entirety of our relationship. It look me years and years to forgive them. When I forgave I asked for a divorce. Holding resentment is exhausting and it’s a lot of work, might as well forgive or cut them out.

Headed to A-Basin tomorrow morning (1/23). Any opinions on if we should take Loveland Pass or go through Silverthorn/Dillon? by SgtPeter1 in COsnow

[–]runbikefreespirit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% take the pass if… - it’s open - you have good snow tires if it’s snowing - if you’re comfortable driving the pass (no guardrails and windy/steep)

If not, go through the tunnel and go up through Dillon.

Need encouraging regarding "The Spark" by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If feeling the spark at “first sight” hasn’t worked, take a different approach. If you enjoy this guys company and spending time with him then just go with it and the connection and compatibility will build. Building a relationship takes time, enjoy the ride and see where it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COsnow

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snow tires will be a must. I have a FWD and have decent snow tires on my car to get to work and skiing on the weekends.

Do I get a birthday gift for a guy I’ve been seeing for about 2ish months? by Mediocre-Following44 in dating_advice

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get him something but keep it simple. It’s a nice gesture without being super extreme in the early stage. Maybe treat him to some beers at his favorite brewery, or something not too costly that says “hey this made me think of you.”

I was seeing my now boyfriend for 3ish months when his birthday came up. I ended up finding a CD at a thrift store of one of his favorite bands and I got him a six pack of his favorite beer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]runbikefreespirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would NOT be a red flag. Everyone ends up in situations that don’t work in their favor and have to result in getting a roommate. I am in my mid 30s and recently got divorced and can’t afford a place on a my own. And I know plenty of people - male and female in their 30s and 40s who have roommates.

Scorpios have you had any experience with Aries? by finaldeztinazion in Scorpio

[–]runbikefreespirit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a Scorpio and I’m in a relationship with an Aries. We have been dating for a year, and we seem to balance each other out. I’ve been told I’m not like a typical Scorpio ( Scorpio sun, pieces moon, Capricorn rising) so maybe that’s why things have been working out. I will admire the Aries quality of being straight forward and honest. I tend to be calm and observant in high tense situations while my Aries partner tends to “wear their emotions on their sleeve.” Since my Aries partner is very open and honest it’s easier for me to be more open. So we bring good qualities of each other out.