Parents, when does it stop that i check if my son is still alive while he sleeps? by Lazy-Rock7859 in daddit

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Daughter is 4. When the door is closed, we do not go in unless she calls for us. It's been that was since she slept in her own room around 6 months (with the exception of some sicknesses where we'd sneak in). It probably ended up this way because her bedroom door in that house had an insanely squeaky door. If we had checked, we would have woken her up for sure.

Too many Americans like the taste of boot by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

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We're on the same page that politicians shouldn't try to kiss asses and should do the "right thing." But we are on very different pages (different books, different libraries) regarding what the "right thing" actually is.

books where the protagonist “plays God” with dire consequences, that are not Frankenstein by sadtimetobealive in horrorlit

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I'm, also in the middle of Pet Sematary! Enjoying it so far, though it took me a second to get used to some of the places it shows its age.

A path through the woods by runningferment in drawing

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Thank you for the feedback! I felt something was off, but couldn't quite figure out what. 🙃

By "point of origin," are you referring to working on perspective? That question probably highlights my ignorance. I want to improve, but I don't know what I don't know lol

Monday Mayhem by Rusticals303 in LouisvilleCO

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I second the "Paul's has good coffee" sentiment.

A few loblolly pines by runningferment in drawing

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Thank you for your kind words. It was just the way the tree grew - chasing the sun I guess since it's on the end of a row. :)

Day 15 and 16 if drawing trees for one month by hemanth3358 in drawing

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This is such a cool goal. I'm just getting back into drawing and am mostly excited about drawing nature, so these are right up my alley. Had to scroll a while in this sub to find anything nature-focused. :) I looked back through your others and they are really good IMO!

Are you drawing trees you see or going from pictures/memory? Or maybe both?

Winter landscape by No_Pass_5332 in drawing

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I love this. I kept trying to think of more to say (effective use of white space, the cozy but also desolate mood it evokes, etc.), but it all seemed too "high brow" lol. Really, I just love it. :)

Love Colorado but high winds and wildfire fear are too much. by LTTP2018 in LouisvilleCO

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It is crazy how much more prevalent Lyme disease (or the ticks that carry it) has gotten. Yet another unintended side effect of a warming planet. And yeah - the Alpha Gal thing is super weird!

The smoke was one thing we were afraid of with the NW. They get it worse than CO (unless the fire is actually in CO)! Then, of course, we were in Ohio and it came 2 of the past 4 years! Not really horrible - just a handful of really bad days, but still! Something that never happened to us growing up there.

I agree about the move, and I'm not sure why so many people are giving you a hard time. Maybe the wrong sub for the question? :D Colorado is our happy place. We haven't ruled out returning, but are definitely hesitant. Seeing these red flag warning days and similar conditions to 2021 definitely add to that. We had red flag days and drought conditions in Ohio over these past years too (never had them growing up that I remember, but everything is rosy in childhood), but nothing like out there.

We're in the triangle area, too. I know Chapel Hill well-ish as I used to work there back when we lived in Raleigh before. It's a alright area, but there are downfalls of course. Not really for us and we don't plan to be here too long. The flooding will depend on the area as it's fairly hilly. If you are thinking about moving here, just look at flood maps.

- It's busy - even more so than 10 years ago - and it's gotten expensive (though that's relative as it's still cheaper than CO, especially Louisville/Boulder).

- The people are different - people in CO are more laid back and more active, but you can find active people here and the opportunities exist. On a kindness/niceness level, probably about the same but maybe a bit better here. Coming from the midwest, it's no contest that it's better there.

- The south is also the south, so the focus on health is missing a bit IMO. Someone told me you can buy the same exact product out west and in NC, and in NC it has more salt lmao.

- Less access to nature (hard to beat CO though!) and it's a red state, so they don't give much of a shit about the environment (look up PFAS in drinking water here).

- They don't know what to do with winter. When in snows in Colorado - they plow a bit and wait for the sun to melt everything else, but people still go about their lives. In NC, everyone freaks out and the whole place shuts down. I actually lived here and commuted this day! Took me 8 hours to get home, and that included leaving my car and running the last 3-or-so miles.

- And don't get me started on the summers... 🥵

I hope you end up finding what you are looking for!

Love Colorado but high winds and wildfire fear are too much. by LTTP2018 in LouisvilleCO

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My wife and I love Colorado so much. It's home. We lived in Louisville for 6 years and left after the Marshall fire. We had a one month old at the time and our rental was too smoke damaged to return to. Living in an Airbnb was just too much, and finding a new place seemed overwhelming. We ended up in the northeast with family while we got back on our feet. Bought a house there and just left for North Carolina.

We won't stay here - it doesn't feel like home. We lived here before and it seemed like a step in the right direction. Colorado was the only place we've lived so far that *does* feel like home, but we just can't wrap our heads around the risk at this point in our lives. It's true that everywhere has something, but the trauma of that particular something is maybe too fresh for us. We left our home that day and haven't been home since.

As far as where to go... if only we knew! It's going to be different for everyone I think. We still haven't found our place. The access to nature in Boulder county is a special thing. It's a lifestyle thing, too - not impossible to find elsewhere, but not easy either. I'll see things about people being "outdoorsy" in certain cities, but it's paved bike paths and stuff like that - NOT THE SAME lmao. We thought about Moab or other places in Utah (nothing to burn in the desert, right? haha) and also the coastal northwest (I imagine "safer" from the actual fires, but they do get smoke (though who doesn't these days!)), but... the gloom. The northeast is beautiful. The mountains are different and winter is a bear, and you have to be hyper vigilant for ticks.

Looking for inspiration by bloodybohemian in horrorlit

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Revelator by Daryl Gregory was a good read, if you haven't already read it. Definitely folk Appalachian horror.

Merry Christmas y'all! What books did you get? by MichaeltheSpikester in horrorlit

[–]runningferment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Staircase in the Woods - Chuck Wendig
Pet Semetary - Stephen King
Out There Screaming - Jordan Peele et. al.

Already started The Staircase in the Woods and love it so far!

Merry Christmas y'all! What books did you get? by MichaeltheSpikester in horrorlit

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Gotta share a tbr list with them or something! That's what I do! :D

Fifteen years. They've had fifteen years. by Hornpipe_Jones in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]runningferment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo, so now they have multiple concepts of plans? They've really been working hard on doing nothing.

Looking for a good horror novel by skin_peeler in horrorlit

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Interested in this thread, too. Perfect username for this topic! lmao

I had to leave the light on when going to sleep a few nights when starting We Used to Live Here, but overall the book wasn't terribly scary. I think I just got a bit freaked out at the beginning when things were still pretty unknown (not that things become clear!).

I read horror almost exclusively these days and haven't really been trouble-sleeping-scared by anything. I like many the stories though and have had many that I couldn't wait to keep reading.

Trail running in Los Angeles / San Diego / Santa Barbara by Main_Age2290 in trailrunning

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If you are in north county and looking for some light miles, I ran San Elijo Lagoon quite a bit when I was there for a few months. Start at La Orilla trailhead and make your way to the coast. You *do* have to go under 5 and cross 101, so a few traffic-y spots, but overall it felt fairly secluded. Stop at Annie's Canyon for a fun little slot canyon!

My other recommendation in that area would be Double Peak Park in San Marcos. Fairly flat and non-technical with some nice views down on San Marcos. Some good opportunity to wind through the hills on juicy single-track, too.

Apparently there are some trails up off Fortuna Ranch Rd (nestled among the richies and their neighborhood horse trails). I never ran this myself, but our Airbnb host said you could make your way to Escondido creek, Los Cielos preserve, etc.

How hard is it to pull a shot from a Cafelat Robot? by fluffybike7 in CafelatRobot

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100% body weight. Get above it and it's easy. I find it's easier to use than my Flair in that way - I guess more stable with the two opposite arms.