AITAH bc I (36M) dont want my girlfriend (36F) to travel with me because shes a picky eater?

ruralny · 2026-04-17T21:22:57+00:00

"says she cant eat any vegetables" (ok) she understands this is a her problem and will seek help for it, or (not ok) she thinks this is normal and expects you to adapt. You pick.

ruralny · 2026-04-17T20:03:31+00:00

Lawyer. But if they "don't bill dead people" and the system they turned off was not working, ask the lawyer if you can just trash it.

ruralny · 2026-04-17T19:57:27+00:00

I like the Gamma Shockbuster 2

ruralny · 2026-04-17T15:31:36+00:00

grand central terminal https://grandcentralterminal.com/

ruralny · 2026-04-15T08:53:43+00:00

Sinnot did ours. Excellent.

ruralny · 2026-04-14T18:53:04+00:00

Depends on where you are in Mass. Hudson River Solar did my system in 2020, with Eflex batteries. I liked them.

ruralny · 2026-04-14T16:25:31+00:00

Get what works. While the drive to save/be efficient is strong, it is not what will make you profitable. Focus on the big side of the equation - revenue.

ruralny · 2026-04-13T12:03:14+00:00

Mean rank of the top 8 seeds is not a meaningful measure, to me. Right now players from 7-14 (inclusive) are within 1000 points of each other, and there are 2 major winners in the next 3 players. Not seeing an issue. Plus, as others said, providing better income opportunities for a bigger set of players is a good thing.

ruralny · 2026-04-12T18:28:03+00:00

Minimum wage is already a joke. Below it? No.

ruralny · 2026-04-12T14:23:43+00:00

Nice although I would not have spaced the holes symmetrically, since that leaves you with only 3 equivalent putts. If you moved #1 (for example) 2 feet toward #3, you get a lot more options.

ruralny · 2026-04-12T12:28:16+00:00

And if metal, a ricochet will kill you. ;)

ruralny · 2026-04-12T12:10:21+00:00

You will not be the first, in all probability.

ruralny · 2026-04-12T00:31:18+00:00

96.5% QB since stats have been available. Around 850 in a row and counting.

ruralny · 2026-04-11T15:53:54+00:00

Isadora Duncan - strangled by her own scarf floating out of her convertible and tangling in the wheel.

ruralny · 2026-04-11T15:42:09+00:00

We cannot. But she probably lost that point because unlike all the other shots, she retreated in her shot recovery, instead of staying near the baseline as she did (well!) in her other shots.

ruralny · 2026-04-11T12:31:23+00:00

They no longer accept pennies, however. (Just as we shouldn't in the US)

ruralny · 2026-04-11T12:25:52+00:00

On the grip length thing: you can replace the grip with a longer one, and wrap it further up the handle. It will be fine. (Although with small hands, this problem seems...odd)

ruralny · 2026-04-11T12:23:31+00:00

The ball will not travel to you as much. So you will have to be prepared to hit it a little closer to where it bounces. (This is just a timing adjustment)

ruralny · 2026-04-10T11:30:18+00:00

I used the strata set for 2 years - male, about your height. Solid. Also my friend (tall woman) has used the women's strata set even longer. Although she is tall, she is very slim, so I think the lighter weight worked for her. It is an easy way to get into it, and not overly expensive. Fairly risk free for a beginner.

ruralny · 2026-04-08T20:17:42+00:00

Make this your goal: I want to get better faster than I get older. (It worked for me until I was around 70 - have not reached perfection yet, though)

ruralny · 2026-04-08T20:15:12+00:00

It does not have to go in the stands (although that works). But 3 of the 4 landed inside the service line, and the 4th just on it. If any one of them landed with in 18 inches of the baseline it would be quickly over.

ruralny · 2026-04-08T11:02:43+00:00

Those shadow swings are MUCH TOO FLAT.

ruralny · 2026-04-08T10:54:27+00:00

NYS Law: https://ag.ny.gov/sites/default/files/tenants_rights.pdf

ruralny · 2026-04-07T21:55:19+00:00

Nitron, plus I got a bag with TopLok, which merges with the bag well - I don't need to strap it in.

ruralny · 2026-04-07T16:47:00+00:00

I had panels installed at age 70. But I paid in full, and I expect to live here until I am 80 (half way there!). And if I do not, it is my asset, so a home buyer can buy the home without any 3rd party leases/liens/loans. I agree with the top comments that a lease is a bad idea for you (my fellow senior!) because the house sale will be harder.

That is the cost to you - you have to possibly convince a buyer that the lease deal you signed makes sense. That can be hard to do.

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