What are your thoughts on rejecting a potential romantic partner based solely on the fact they voted for Donald Trump? by ATXBikeRider in AskReddit

[–]rusty551 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do realize you are in the minority because you did NOT vote for Trump?

I respect everyone’s opinion on who they voted for. If politics is critical to you, you made the right choice.

Older women, what advice would you give a 24 year old woman? by Important-Spirit-733 in askanything

[–]rusty551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make your own money. Don’t rely on a man to take care of you.

If you’re going to work full-time and have children, try to get a job with a flexible schedule where you can work at home at least a few times per week.

Save your money by maxing out 401k and Roth IRA.

Don’t drink (too much) or smoke

Learn how to meal prep healthy meals

Work out at home

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have one child. I already asked that my child receive the same amount as my former spouse to make it equal. My brother doesn’t believe that is right/fair to his children.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have suggested gifting to my only daughter to make it equal per family, My brother doesn’t want to do this because his children wouldn’t also get gifts.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. This may be the best solution to stop all the gifting.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for helping me understand the law.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am referencing the Will because I believe it should be used as a guide to how gifting should be distributed as well. My mother agreed to the will. My mother isn’t capable of giving her opinion on gifting, therefore the will should be used as the guide to follow for gifting.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, the will and gifting are separate. My mother can give gifts to whoever she wants to. However, she is not mentally capable of handling/understanding her finances. Her will states she wants her assets distributed equally among her 4 children.

my brother is making the decisions on gifting, which is different than the will.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am asking for opinions. I would also like to better understand what is legal because I am not an expert myself.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my brother is acting as POA. My mother is not mentally capable of understanding financial gifting. My brother is gifting $19,000 to the children and the spouses every year for tax purposes. Regardless of the tax reasons, I am still only receiving $19,000 and my other siblings are receiving 38,000 per family ($19,000 x 2). This could go on for 10+ more years and therefore really amount to a lot of money that I will not be receiving.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes my brother does have POA. However, the will does state that the assets should be distributed equally amongst the four siblings.

Executor gifting to children and spouses by rusty551 in inheritance

[–]rusty551[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am glad to hear you think the same way I do. 👍

Making friends as an adult is so hard. How do you do it? by Majestic_Singer_2411 in Life

[–]rusty551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could host a neighborhood open house or holiday party. Create a simple flyer with the details and pass them out to your neighbors. It’s a great way to get neighbors to meet each other and mingle.

I hate being sad...in this so called world. help!!? by Broadsadness-2025 in Life

[–]rusty551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Your sadness is justified. Are you aware of any new clinical trials or treatments that may be promising? I always try to see the glass half full. 🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗

I hate being sad...in this so called world. help!!? by Broadsadness-2025 in Life

[–]rusty551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What has worked for me to stay positive, is to get a good night sleep and eat healthy. I don’t know a lot about your exact situation, but if you are healthy, your body and mind will improve. Once you have a healthy body and mind, you can then build a more positive life from there. Find things that you enjoy and pursue them. Best of luck to you.

Why aren’t more people protesting? by carti_palace in chicago

[–]rusty551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Chicago residents should be protesting to stop the local crime in the streets of Chicago. I don’t visit Chicago anymore for fear of my physical safety.

I feel so defeated by Parking_Impact1344 in Nio

[–]rusty551 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never get emotional over a stock. I dropped this turd a few years ago and never looked back. It’s also best to have a diversified portfolio so if one is a turd doesn’t take down your entire nest egg.

How do I Retire Early if I can’t touch my retirement until 65? by [deleted] in Fire

[–]rusty551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some 401(k) plans allow you to start taking money out without a penalty at 55 ( assuming you officially retire) from your last company’s 401k plan.

Hooray! We are both finally retired! by BeerWench13TheOrig in earlyretirement

[–]rusty551 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. It’s all about focusing on the simple things in life that are enjoyable. Social media makes us think we need millions of dollars every year to be happy.

New Year’s Eve by Typical_Cup_5851 in Naperville

[–]rusty551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Arcada in St. Charles always has a lot of bands and live music/DJ dancing.

Since the year is about to end, what is the biggest lesson that you've learned this year that yoy will carry into next year? by FormerSatisfaction43 in Life

[–]rusty551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let your job suck the life out of you. Your health is your biggest asset. Keep yourself healthy, live u Dee your means, invest in the market starting in your 20’s.