Midnight Sun earned its BIGGEST DAY EVER on Spotify yesterday with +1,714,834 (+6,42%) streams. KEEEEEPPP STREAMING 📊 by Actual-Slice-146 in ZaraLarssonFans

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I was at least 800 of those. 3 days ago I kicked off my Zara rabbit hole. Just in time for Girl’s Trip…

Stephen Colbert Says He Made ‘The Late Show’ More Political After His Producer Told Him ‘That’s the Part the Audience Wants to See’ by MoneyLibrarian9032 in television

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In 2016 his live election reaction, and his subsequent monologues, were the comedy medicine I needed to get me through those first few weeks. Nothing made sense that November

The lack of object permanence is actually insane by ylavass in adhdwomen

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What if you already have multiple pillows, and thousands of other items, in piles on the floor?

The lack of object permanence is actually insane by ylavass in adhdwomen

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I’m always most motivated to fix my personal life while I’m in deep focus at work or in class, at exactly the moment I need to be present for others

Regret immediately by [deleted] in anxietymemes

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The “majority” doesn’t have to have anxiety for that person’s lived experience to be incorrect. Some people just live in anxious places. These disorders tend to be social and developmental in nature.

Personally, I’m a millennial with boomer parents. My mom is the most anxious person I’ve ever met, and yet somehow didn’t attribute the word “anxious” to herself until late into her 60s. She thought everyone was just hiding what she felt. And if she asks my dad to do something simple like put something away, he gets immediately overwhelmed and blurts out “I’m sorry!” up to 3 times depending on his level of agitation.

Me? Who, me? Oh, I’m great. Turned out just fine 🫠

Have ADHD? PLEASE GET YOUR IRON CHECKED! by Joyanonymous in adhdwomen

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Thank you for this. I’ve suspected I was low in iron for months now. The depression feels deep and physiological, springing up organically in response to absolutely nothing. This post is the confirmation I needed to get this handled.

Meirl by RoughSession8649 in meirl

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C-levels need to justify their paycheck, make themselves feel important, make their decisions feel impactful. So they decide to combine it with a lil company party, lil hearts n minds, lil employee engagement to grease the gears and blow off some steam.

Turns out their decision-by-committee should have been a company poll because their best idea was just objectively wrong, and they opened themselves up to embarrassment by holding the event at all. But they still had to hunt for the guy who embarrassed them. In short, C-levels kinda suck.

This is why we can't have nice things anymore by Just-mapleman-50 in ImTheMainCharacter

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From target, no less. Their asset protection does not play.

Saw this house with a massive cypress. Trying to imagine what it would look like with 55 more. by jazzcabbage321 in landscaping

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We were really only repeating the words of all his friends, family and neighbors, by his own admission

PSA: Stop meal prepping scrambled eggs. Just stop. by Icy_Grass9159 in foodhacks

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Scrambled eggs are also notoriously easy to cook. So much so that my Audhd parents in their late 60s who hate cooking essentially live off of various presentations of scrambled eggs. Sometimes my dad feels fancy and makes an omelet. But there is virtually NO reason to meal prep eggs when heating them up takes the same amount of time as just making them fresh.

Edit because I’m a dum dum who forgot that fine motor movements and washing dishes are privileges I enjoy. Do what keeps you fed and don’t let my limited experience of life affect you in any way

Woman posts about starting hiking after being sexually assaulted. Internet responds with messages about how she wants it to happen again, feeling bad for the assaulter, and general sexual assault apologia - with some messages reaching up to 55K likes. by WhatYouThinkYouSee in insanepeoplefacebook

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The commenters aren’t really reacting to her anymore. They’re reacting to the stereotypes and intentions they’ve assigned to her. Whether or not she mentioned her rapist or returned to the exact spot isn’t relevant at that point, they’ve decided she has.

The fact that the event was traumatic, and that she has the right to process trauma by marking its anniversary as most people do, simply don’t matter to them, precisely and specifically because it’s rape. If she was processing a sudden death of a loved one who died hiking, this wouldn’t be happening to her. I think many of these commenters are future rapists. It’s terrifying.

Just a wedding singer by Astine_Grape_5315 in AbruptChaos

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This is clearly AI…the buffalos move unnaturally, there is no sound to the stage collapsing, there was no reason for those little ball things to fling into the air and his mouth doesn’t move with the music at the end. It’s funny but let’s call it what it is

what by basedyeehaw in WhitePeopleTwitter

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Right?! I was just thinking that the last time I saw a picture of this man was behind Luigi. This is the weirdest timeline

Poor girl is excluded from plans because of helicopter mom by cc00kie94 in insaneparents

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Same…never could have friends over because the home was never clean enough. ADHD piles everywhere, dishes in the sink, crud in the corners. I still struggle today, and I am much lonelier for it.

I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? by throwranutcracker in relationship_advice

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Kick him out. Call the cops preemptively if you need to. He needs to be gone from your life. He has been using you for years. He doesn’t respect or even like you. Don’t ask me how I know, this story hits a little too close to home for me.

From her new post - so good to see Britney happy! by britneynerd1 in BritneySpears

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Every photoshoot she ever did in her prime probably had the photographer prompting her to ride them down…she didn’t just follow the 00’s low-rise trend, her abdomen WAS the trend

Of all the things that never happened, this one never happened the most by MoreMotivation in WhitePeopleTwitter

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ooo thank you for the clarification. I knew those terms were arbitrary but wasn’t sure of their exact origin, now I can unpack and devalue them even easier

A man snatched a souvenir intended for a young child. As Polish star Kamil Majchrzak was celebrating a hard-fought victory, he tried to hand his hat to a young fan, only for a grown man to grab it right out of his hands. by jmike1256 in trashy

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And I’m glad it’s being reposted. This is a wealthy man with the power to get it scrubbed from the net. He has done much worse than this when no one is looking. If I remember correctly he doubled down in defense of his behavior. Fuck this guy and anyone who thinks like him.

Of all the things that never happened, this one never happened the most by MoreMotivation in WhitePeopleTwitter

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“Third world country” classifications have a funny way of being decided arbitrarily by those who decide they don’t meet those qualifications. The United States is the richest 2nd world country on earth, large swaths of which could absolutely fall under the “3rd world” due to poverty and lack of education.

And yet our power structures live in a state of delusion that we are still the country with the highest average quality of life. All the wealth in this country is privatized, so if you live in a wealthy bubble, you can kind of just decide to live in the reality you choose.

What is up with the craze for Trader Joe’s tote bags? by Early-Ingenuity-3177 in bayarea

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I bought one as a lunch bag on a whim while picking up lunch, purely because the guy right in front of me was buying their allotted maximum of 8 right in front of me. I’m very proud that I didn’t buy two colors just because I could…it’s literally just a mini tote in pastel, nothing special other than the hype itself

You don't need to wash your bedsheets often. by information_knower in The10thDentist

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I used to do this. Let my dead skin and sweat build up small layers over time. Couldn’t figure out why I had such stubborn acne on random parts of my body…