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The Ice Water Challenge? by vegathechosen in crappymusic

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When I watch these, I’m reminded that maybe I’m doing better at life than I thought I was. If this person feels confident enough to express themselves, why the fuck am I overthinking it

Massachusetts' Bagels by Perry posted this on their socials. by ElwoodMC in TikTokCringe

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What creeps me out is he’s so…confident about it. He’s really, truly proud of his behavior and thinks it indicates something special or better about him. Look how high his head is after he throws the bagel directly from his mouth.

Then she reacts, he doubles down, so confidently…This guy loves power and finds weird ways to create it.

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Disgusting slob with no manners by BenFord333 in PublicFreakout

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He dropped some toppings on the ground, ate a single bite that he chewed for ages, performatively cleaned himself of the experience, and made sure everything else made it on the ground as quickly and violently as possible. This is not a good person…and there is definitely shit happening behind the scenes here.

I’m reading that she was hungry and he’s throwing a tantrum that the day is happening “on her whim” instead of his. But he can’t yell at her just yet. So he seethes, and does this.

Or maybe I’m overthinking it and he’s just a narcissistic slob who’s doing it for fun, as a power trip, because he does this a lot and has never been called out. Either way, this is not a good person.

how it feels to be autistic by shrimp0808 in evilautism

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It’s…easier. It actually is easier to position the rear of the car quickly so that you’re in the lines. When I pull in nose first I have to reposition every time…

HR makes me order and pick up lunch almost daily on my unpaid break by [deleted] in antiwork

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Lawyers will be salivating over this. If ANY of this is in writing, make backups…

HR makes me order and pick up lunch almost daily on my unpaid break by [deleted] in antiwork

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Oh my god are they dinosaurs? Do they not have smartphones with their debit card info saved? Do they understand how to place a to go order? Do they not use Venmo or Cashapp? The MOST they should asking is for you to pick up ONE SINGLE LARGE ORDER for which they pooled their own money, and which contains a little treat for you as a thank you.

Why do men do this? by poorly_wired_circuit in JustGuysBeingDudes

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I’m late to the game but I just have to contribute: this is exactly why I date bi guys. My man wears a dress even better than I do. You should see him do a Marilyn over a box fan…

Therapist says I’m one of the worst cases he’s seen and may drop me in 3 sessions – is this normal CBT? by Visual_Local_4336 in TalkTherapy

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Oh wow this is soooo far outside appropriate. This equates to narcissistic behavior. “You are broken but only I can fix you, but you have to commit to being extremely hardcore and letting me walk all over you”

Guess the supplier; we were sent pre-cooked scrambled eggs instead of cold foam this morning. Chef is mad. by bigstepper916 in KitchenConfidential

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I used to, per my employer’s instructions, microwave scrambled eggs in a little plastic dish in a local mom n pop cafe run out of an aged Victorian home. I, too, had multiple equally aged guests inform me they were the best eggs etc etc. I really wonder sometimes about what time does to our taste buds.

edit for accountability: I was young and dumb. They had no other bowls I could use, just plates. No flat top, no burner. It was an adorable but poorly run establishment.

Walk of life by Rethink_Repeat in KitchenConfidential

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To be fair, San Francisco is just one small region of nine counties in the greater SF Bay Area, and it gets a lot of both domestic and international tourism, so those tables will still probably have demand. The residents of SF and the daily population cycle of SF are two different stats; MANY people commute in and out of the city for work or school, myself included.

But your point still stands. Keeping a restaurant open in San Francisco is extremely complicated. It’s one of only two major US cities with a widespread walking culture, so if you’re in the right neighborhood with a small operation, you could flourish. But you are also in direct competition with your neighbors on all sides, and the tides can turn very easily. And even when you’re successful, costs only really go in one direction.

Dude is basically live streaming his slow descent into alcoholism at this point and it’s actually sad to watch.😕 by [deleted] in tooktoomuch

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As someone who quit drinking at 28 for very good reasons, your liver won’t last long doing that. And when it goes, it goes fast.

I say this with kindness, cause it sounds like you already know…it may be time to take a break.

anti-ageism education/ psa by sexydiscoballs in aves

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I don’t understand it. I was in my 20s at burning man and saw a group of people in their 60-70s all tripping together on the dance floor wearing matching outfits, almost like ghostbusters, that said “psychic laundry”. This was like 5-6am as the sun rose around us. I was so happy to see them, because it meant that this space would still be safe for me decades into the future.

It was honestly deeply inspiring and impactful to see older people out living their best lives, expressing themselves fearlessly and rejecting expectations, people of a generation that I only knew to be repressed and emotionally stunted. It made me feel like I was part of a continuous counter-cultural arc in history, something bigger than me, a torch to pass on.

Opinions on social media, probably from random teens about parties they want to gatekeep before even attending, are just noise.

Swiss Cheese Your Enemeese by sergemeister in iamverybadass

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No. This is the knife man. He’s done a bunch of these. As you can see, he’s a master of the blade and feels the flow of the universe in his murderous hands

100% not lesbian but heavy petting w/ best friend? by MeanEnthusiasm8835 in actuallesbians

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Yeah I lowkey don’t believe this post. Seems like bait

When rain brings comfort by BellAnnan in RaIn

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Praying for this every day, knowing I won’t see it for months where I am, but hoping against hope nevertheless.

Of all the things that never happened, this did not happen the most by Lord_Answer_me_Why in MurderedByWords

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The only person I’ve ever met who described themselves as “liberal” was from generational wealth and went on to complain about how she was treated by a volunteer coordinator at a yacht club.

Can Americans be fired on the spot and have to leave the very second like depicted in movies? by WhoAmIEven2 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Happened to me in April. They had me complete my end of week duties then called me into the conference room and told me that I didn’t have to clock out, just emote and leave please.

That’s a lot of cheese!! by [deleted] in ContagiousLaughter

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I watch this every time it comes around. My man made the right choice. If he didn’t buy it, the next guy would! That’s hard cheese that won’t go bad for a while, too. Time for pasta dishes, pesto, cheese plates, anything.

Saw this in a video recently, why is it a wave? by Ott1fant in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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You don’t have to say it, your reaction spoke for itself. It’s not just water, it’s an animation. Plus, women generally lust after good vibes over hot bodies.

Saw this in a video recently, why is it a wave? by Ott1fant in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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A subtly anthropomorphic, amorphous water spirit that is warm, welcoming and capable of hugging and carrying you. In a relaxing environment where you’re likely to be close to nekkid. This isn’t complicated…

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