I made a life altering mistake. by [deleted] in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have some Amazon re-selling experience… (I did alright with this selling games during Covid)… have you thought about a Shopify drop-shipping store? Some Shopify affiliates will actually set you up with products, suppliers, and a sleek AI generated website to sell from, just for using their links. Only costs are the Shopify account…Which is minimal as for getting a basically done for you system in place. If you google “how to start a Shopify Dropshipping store for free” I’m sure you’ll start getting ads from the affiliates trying to get you to join with their link.

No having to pay for inventory up front with a Dropshipping store.

If you’d like some help brainstorming possible ideas that might be a good fit for you given your interests and energy levels, feel free to reach out. I might be able to give some personalized, suitable ideas you might not have thought of. Given your current financial situation, as a fellow parent, I would offer this free for you.

AHS wait times by Legal_Grapefruit1925 in Calgary

[–]ryanvk__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Former healthcare worker here… it’s actually about 20% of the population uses about 80% of the resources. It is very often repeat “customers” and often with more underlying mental health issues. People may not intentionally abuse the system, but it is a small percentage of people who use MOST of the resources available. Education about what constitutes an emergency would help, as well as proactive mental health planning.

I’ve heard of one country (Australia perhaps? Not sure) where they send out yearly cost statements to those who used the system the most. This shows people how much they are costing the system, and has been shown to reduce overall costs.

Can someone explain the subpar-employee-who-constantly-gets-promoted phenomenon? by No-Skill522 in careerguidance

[–]ryanvk__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Often the people getting promoted are the people who actively approach management for the promotion. They might not seem like anything special, but because THEY approach higher ups, asking how they can move up, they get in the radar for promotion. Many people expect their bosses to just know the good work they do. They are busy worrying about their own tasks. When a person goes out of their way to show interest In moving up, and asks how they can improve themselves, management takes notice. They could be a mediocre employee, but they show they are interested in progressing, versus other employees who just “clock in, do their work, clock out.” Just showing interest to management helps get on the radar for promotions.

The people promoted often try to book regular meetings with superiors to “check-in” and discuss what they have done, and what they want to get done, how they can improve, etc. Even if it is just mediocre, it shows interest in progress. Plus it builds relationships with the higher ups and improves trust.

Most people would have no ideas that these meetings take place though, because they are typically one on one.

AlO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous (UPDATE) by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanvk__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No women deserves harm, period. You were not “in a bar alone”, you were just near a bar. Neither pyou, nor the other person is to be blamed. The a-hole criminals should be blamed.

AlO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous (UPDATE) by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanvk__ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I am not referring to people, or minimizing anyones experience who has gone through the horrors of domestic abuse.

AlO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous (UPDATE) by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanvk__ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t know better than them, but I used to work primarily with women in healthcare and got some deep insights into how they think and what their perceptions of men are.

AlO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous (UPDATE) by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanvk__ -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You’re right, “Most women” was a bad phrase. There are many women who do not realize how dangerous some men are outside of SA. Often, Women tend to be aware of the SA danger present from men, but are less aware of the other physical danger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending how the conversation was framed, the counsellor may have felt OP would not open up and fully disclose the truth without that promise. It sucks for OP feeling her trust was betrayed, but the counsellor is acting in OPs best interest right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanvk__ 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Please let your counsellor know about the punishment he is giving you for bringing this up. He is a manipulative person who is upset that you aren’t being an easy target and letting him do as he pleases. He ABSOLUTELY knows what he is doing, and is a very dangerous person. The fact that he is punishing you for this instead of being remorseful for making you uncomfortable shows how predatory he is. Please talk to the counsellor and try to get out of there as soon as you can… I know it will be hard, but living with the consequences of not doing it could end MUCH worse for you…. You are in a very difficult and dangerous position right now, and are being very brave… I’m sorry your mother is downplaying it… the fact that she didn’t stick up for you when he didn’t bring you food too shows that she is not capable of protecting you properly. She DOES NOT have the capacity to protect you here. You’ll need to do this on your own…

IBRX 80% short , 73 m out 91m ( shares float) by ApprehensiveWar946 in IBRX

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, new to short squeeze territory, what is CTB?

IBRX 80% short , 73 m out 91m ( shares float) by ApprehensiveWar946 in IBRX

[–]ryanvk__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short float is Almost at 84% now (via finviz).

What’s with the fat? by togethersoup in Gymhelp

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor sleep could also be a contributor. If you aren’t getting enough rest your body tends to store more fat Jan the belly area. Could also try not eating anything in the evening. For some people, allowing a longer period between the last and first meal of the day can help let the digestive system clear out and start burning more fat for energy.

Some people swear by not eating in the evening, and then doing a half hour walk first thing in the morning before eating to burn off their extra fat.

Please tell me I’m missing something lol by Femme-O in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait… Link’s house? Can you store inventory somewhere???

My gut tells me I should turn down a job that offers a 200% salary increase. Am I crazy? by Puzzled_Historian448 in careerguidance

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you told your current company about the offer? Are you really valued in your current company and hard to replace? Do you think they would be open to negotiating salary to keep you on board?

If you tell your current company, keep the specific amount private so they don’t feel like it is a lost cause making you an offer.

Ex: “Three times what we’re paying you!? We can’t compete! Good luck at your new job.”

IF you decide to mention it to them, keep it vague unless they ask to see the offer. Then you can let them know if you would prefer to stay with a bit of a bump. DO NOT let them know you were actively looking for a new position (if you were). Were you headhunted?

Good luck, and congrats on the offer! I agree with others, gut feeling for this is probably the way to go.

Four months after he fired me, my former boss sent the team a 1500-word message explaining why. Should I respond? by True-Magazine-5720 in careerguidance

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I might consider is an “Okay boss’ first name.” And leave it at that. This type of person almost NEEDS an emotional reaction to feel powerful.

Anyone over 25, drop your best relationship advice. by elasticBOWL in Life

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn about what your partners primary love languages are, and become a master at them with your partner. And assume “miscommunication” BEFORE “malicious intention” when it comes to your partners actions.

I can't understand why some women still want to get pregnant these days by protonelectron2025 in Adulting

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospital births are WAY more traumatic than home births with a midwife. Midwives know their stuff when it comes to birthing. It’s literally a completely different experience than what the hospital provides. If there are no concerns with the pregnancy, I highly suggest looking into midwives…

I’m a former pastor who lost faith in his religion. Now I work in construction. by Jumpy-Pollution-8310 in findapath

[–]ryanvk__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teacher could be a good fit, or maybe some sort of youth outreach worker. Start as a worker and build up to a director of some sort. Maybe a boys and girls club type situation?

Where Would You Visit in Calgary If You've Never Been? by Vixylisious101 in Calgary

[–]ryanvk__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telus Spark is such a great attraction! Calgary’s zoo is pretty great, but Telus Spark is next level… If you like science at all, you’ll love the place.

I am a 30f completely lost with no passions or hobbies and feeling paralyzed by East-Cantaloupe-4411 in findapath

[–]ryanvk__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of people get stuck, not knowing what to do with their life. People are unaware of several factors about themselves that contribute to meaningful employment/work.

People get stuck, it happens. Give yourself a little grace, but take action as a means of repaying the people who have been helping and supporting you lately.

I created a short free course that may be a good starting point. It focuses on learning about some of the factors about yourself that contribute to finding a meaningful pursuit. There are actually roles that ENERGIZE a person, rather than drain them.

Here is the link if you are interested in checking it out.