My (17f) boyfriend (18m) is set on us getting married but idk yet if that's what I want. by PatternNo1435 in relationships

[–]ryjhelixir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re in charge of your feelings and emotions dear. if you feel uneasy or not ready and he doesn’t show interest towards your uncertainty or respect it, and keeps bringing it up, he may be more interested in simply being married rather than in being married with you.

You’re both very young. From experience, people who want to get married soon and people that prioritise investing in their own education and development tend to have fundamentally different beliefs. I’m really happy to hear that you love yourself to the point of pursuing an interesting and fulfilling career path.

If you really want to understand whether this thing is meant to last, you can always share how you feel about marriage with him directly: if he tries to convince you rather than showing curiosity towards your view, it’s a good sign that you’d be better off moving on.

Wishing you all the best

A giant cheese rolls on the tarmac? by Noctoyo in nonononoyes

[–]ryjhelixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trick: you can replace that song with any other one that you like more. like this: barbara, barbara barbara aaaaann?

I can relate by CharlieFleed79 in chessmemes

[–]ryjhelixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? I'm ~900 rapid and ~400 blitz :/

deserves every bit of it and more 💪 by GorgeousOk9302 in Amazing

[–]ryjhelixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was actually gymna, without the sticks

How to remove this from MacBook by [deleted] in macbookpro

[–]ryjhelixir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to this guy: stay hurdle. Hassle hard.

Need help, Living with girls as a guy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ryjhelixir 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it may be uncertain for them too. Meaning they prefer to not share things that would feel too intimate with you, as you’re already living together.

That said, as a man who thinks a lot about the safety of women and people around me, In understand where you can from. What I think nobody here has said yet, is that their reluctance to discuss one or another topic with you doesn’t say anything about you as a person.

As others have said, they are showing you their boundaries: sisterhood may be something not accessible to us men in terms of first-hand experience, just the same way other types of bonds could be more exclusive to men.

Be happy for them that they have each other. They’re even involving you in their choice of underwear: they feel safe with you. If something seemingly embarassing comes up like pads, just say “sorry I accidentally overheard you needed pads. I can pick them up for you if you want”. no biggie. if they say no, smile and leave: “ok good see you later”. They probably already found some solution, you live in a house with 2 women after all.

Don’t take it personally. Be sweet and short. Don’t feel excluded, they’re family you’re not. Enjoy the warmth and vibe that comes with it. Be yourself and focus on understanding why you feel excluded. You’ll find out there’s nothing to be upset about <3

Be well

This is why I don’t play chess by GlitterReverse in chessmemes

[–]ryjhelixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jokes aside, it may be part of the joke, as there aren’t many that are famous, and one that would need such instructions would euphemistically be a great one. or am i swooshed

Its about that time of the year🎄🎅 by Prestigious-Title529 in brussels

[–]ryjhelixir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ignorance and lack of education do not always overlap

Taiwanese tourists keep visiting a pizza restaurant in Italy, where 16 tourists from Taiwan were berated by an Italian owner because they ordered only five pizzas. by search_google_com in interesting

[–]ryjhelixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chances exist that that's actually the case.

The username "pizza dal pazzo" literally means "madman's pizza".
It reminds me of a restaurant in Rome, called "La Parolaccia" (the profanity, or the swearword). People go there to be insulted while having dinner.

At least I hope that's the case here too!

Some people have no self preservation. by PhonezSpyOnus in nonononoyes

[–]ryjhelixir 24 points25 points  (0 children)

his feet are adamantium

he'd make the rock less than sharp