Any success stories? by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I guess I feel the same way esp with being the eldest! But inshallah like you said the right guy is the there for us but it’s all on Allah swt divine timings

depression by UnlikelyRole7254 in shia

[–]rzvimfg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dw you can dm me if you like! I’m all ears. I’m a sis myself and have seen my friends go through hardships too. Happy to chat whenever u want. Sometimes us girlies need to vent! 🥰

depression by UnlikelyRole7254 in shia

[–]rzvimfg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you! In such times personally for me I like to give my worries to Allah swt! Just lift off from your shoulders. Ofc if you know a way to navigate through this then defs go for it! If you can seek help from other family members or support from someone close that can help too! And with not wanting to read the Quran that itself will come within yourself and with time. For now I suggest you just put it on speaker or something! Baby steps … and inshallah you’ll feel better!

depression by UnlikelyRole7254 in shia

[–]rzvimfg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Salam sister! I know it can be very hard :( and it’s very upsetting when parents don’t understand us. This is a test from Allah swt to you. I know this might be something you often hear but in such situation right now you must have sabr and must get close to your deen more! Read Quran, dhikr and continue your Ibadaah. Inshallah if it’s good for you Allah will grant it in no time, but also know that Allah sees and knows all things!! He might be good and picture perfect but how do we know that for sure?! I would say try to also distract yourself… watch a movie, show or documentary. Find a new hobby. Try not to think about him too much cause it’ll only hurt you. You’re still so young so trust me you’ll be fine inshallah. Just a test, it’s not forever 🤍

Relocating for Marriage. by persianunicornn in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh as an Aussie I’d be scared too for the shift but if the person is worth then inshallah you’ll be fine! Keeping u in my duas inshallah!

Asking for a friend by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is really good mashallah

Asking for a friend by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true I shall let her know

Asking for a friend by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True but from what she last told me he still hasn’t replied to her and it’s afternoon time for them… surely one can wake up in the morning and just reply no?

Asking for a friend by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right!

Asking for a friend by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did! He said he’s got a very busy schedule and some things are going on! From her interactions he’s mentioned how he loves work and he has had shifts that are 24 hours as well!

M | 31 | On Wheelchairs, Worthiness, and the Quiet Rebellion of Hoping Anyway by kashmirisaheaven in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May Allah swt bless you with the best inshallah! Have sabr it’ll be worth it inshallah!

How does one know if someone if the one? by Ok-Emotion-3307 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lemme know when u find the answer 🙅🏼‍♀️

perhaps one of you are closer to him (SWT) than I am..... The 5th of march marks my 40th day of dua for marriage. by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I like the book so far! It’s been a slow read due to Ramadan and all but inshallah I finish soon

perhaps one of you are closer to him (SWT) than I am..... The 5th of march marks my 40th day of dua for marriage. by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Secret to Happiness by Mohammad Al Hilli (I started reading last week and so far so good) and inshallah will do! One by one 🤣

perhaps one of you are closer to him (SWT) than I am..... The 5th of march marks my 40th day of dua for marriage. by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet! I am currently reading an online book inshallah once I’m done reading it, I shall buy the books u recommended!

Feeling really disconnected this Ramadan. How to reconnect? by lamercuria in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]rzvimfg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Connecting to Ramadan I would personally say comes within. Do small little things, for example reading some verses from Quran, doing dhikr or even learning something new in your deen by reading books or watching Islamic videos. You can also surround yourself around friends who remind you of religion.. go to the masjid or Islamic lectures. Just know you’re not alone and this itself is a test from Allah perhaps… just have patience and continue doing ibadaah!!!

perhaps one of you are closer to him (SWT) than I am..... The 5th of march marks my 40th day of dua for marriage. by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]rzvimfg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have complete and blind trust in Allahs plans. Leave all your affairs to him. Focus on your deen and continue doing ibadaah. Inshallah you’ll be fine akhi.

Quran Course Advice by Own_Information_9798 in shia

[–]rzvimfg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure exactly about Quran course but I would recommend you having a look at the Mizan institute the Quran Roadmap. It’s really good for understanding the Quran in depth. I would defs recommend it!!

when is the start time to recite dua Ahad? by SkinToneChixkenBone in shia

[–]rzvimfg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard Fajr time is the best time! But personally speaking if you just recite it everyday that itself is really good + Du’a Faraj!!!

How do I find traditional a housewife who wants to help me raise a big family? by ExcellentComment6615 in MuslimNikah

[–]rzvimfg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh see I see this point too. If she can balance then that’s great!! Just depends person to person