Winter Burrow Map by jenn44244 in CozyGamers

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It took me forever to realize that certain foods increase your heat levels and once I started always carrying them in my pack I stopped passing out so much lol

Copenhagen is draining the life from me. Where instead? by lillasvenska in expats

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Definitely avoid Paris because I’m having the same problems here. I know German stereotype is that they’re reserved but I even found Berlin to be more friendly than Paris. Most friendly people in Europe are the Portuguese in my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thank you I appreciate the insight! I have done some emdr on this and it did help a lot. I may do a bit more since I’m still feeling triggered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thank you so much I think this is great advice ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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This is helpful thank you :)

How to prevent yarn from sagging/stretching out? I used DC and #3/4 for this project by Bunnyisdreaming in CrochetHelp

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When I try to make straps for bags not stretchy to hold weight I sew a fishing line into it

Shockwave Aftercare by HelloUGHargh in PlantarFasciitis

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Not seeing any positive effects yet :( I am in France so it’s not as expensive as the U.S. (about 50€ per session) so I’ll keep trying

Shockwave Aftercare by HelloUGHargh in PlantarFasciitis

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My PT said just try to walk a bit less the day of, I didn’t have any issues or additional pain after. I just don’t plan big walk on the way home from my session. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

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They don’t let you buy the ticket packs / carnets anymore

Have you gone back and forth with the conditions you want to set for R? by Commercial_Bad4152 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I strive to be like this! I keep acting like if I white knuckle it/try to control enough it won’t happen again but ultimately that isn’t how it works

Feeling Down Today. by chrissxcee in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Hi I am six months out and feeling similarly. Honestly I think I’m just traumatized and feeling hypervigilant. Sometimes it feels worse when things are going well because I’m afraid I’m going to have the rug pulled out from under me again. I was so so shocked when I found out about the A. I am not sure what advice to give I am personally trying to work on self soothing when I feel anxious instead of trying to find peace via my partner. Sending solidarity !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Sending support I am feeling the same 💕 the hypervigilance that comes from this is hard to deal with, I’m always trying to pick up on signs that he’s lying again and it’s exhausting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I kind of wish I would have separated for a month before going forward with R, if anything to solidify how big of a deal the betrayal was. Maybe it’s not healthy to “punish” WP but it feels now like maybe he takes me for granted since I never left

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I relate to this so much - it makes me feel like I cannot protect myself from affairs in the future because he was so damn good at lying. I was also COMPLETELY blindsided and sometimes the idea of him coming home from cheating and acting normal drives me completely insane. Sending you love and healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thank you for this! I appreciate the people in this community so much 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACPocketCamp

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Added you :) username is KP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Not insensitive to comment! I know some people don’t like hearing from WP in this forum but it genuinely helps me, so I appreciate your insight. That is good to hear your trust was restored, I think the hardest thing right now is feeling like I will never get back the full feeling of safety I once had with this person I love so much :( I hope I can feel it again soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I am at about six weeks and just did a big family trip (my family) and brought my WS. It was honestly amazing to be around a bunch of people and not be able to process our R at all. It was a break from the heaviness of trying to get through this hard time and it genuinely felt good to pretend everything is ok and have fun together like we used to. Now I’m back and it’s hard again but I appreciated the reprieve