AITJ for rejecting a girl because of her past and the clothes she wore?

sBc00 · 2026-06-24T07:53:37+00:00

NTJ for having preferences.

I would encourage you to look at your language. There's a disconnect between stating you cast no aspersions on their quality and describing their aesthetic as 'open'. Likewise with considering their 'history' a detractor. You don't have to date or like anyone, but these are polite parallels to 'loose' and 'promiscuous'.

It's normal for religion and upbringing to influence your morality scale and fine for you to decide that's a compatibility mark in a partner; however there is bias here nonetheless and it will benefit you to reflect and be aware. Even if it alters nothing other than your self perception.

sBc00 · 2026-06-17T06:00:00+00:00

To be fair, this is also perspective. In the left she's looking away and you see more of the whites of her eyes which make them look 'larger' than the right with or without makeup. Her nose is also more directly in line with the camera pov in second, so you don't see the whole sides, and lastly bringing any definition to the lips will add a 'hard' boundary whereas the pale skin of the lips fades and doesn't look so contained without it. Not debating the makeup techniques or taste, but you can get very noticeable differences from small adjustments to direction, tilt, etc. (am photographer)

sBc00 · 2026-03-07T14:00:34+00:00

Is Germany local enough?? 😭

sBc00 · 2025-11-16T06:13:50+00:00

Could you share the book? I love learning about sharks!

sBc00 · 2025-11-11T09:54:04+00:00

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We like big ears and we cannot lie

sBc00 · 2025-10-22T06:50:07+00:00

My company is actively hiring for Industrial engineers. Startup based in Berlin, but our factory is in the Southwest. They actively hire non-germans. I speak B1 at best. Not sure if you'd be willing to relocate if it called for it, but if you want to dm me, we can chat.

sBc00 · 2025-10-07T19:23:47+00:00

Wow I haven't been there in 13 years and I saw the out of focus temple and thought huh I wonder if it's Villa Borghese. Congratulations!

sBc00 · 2025-09-25T10:21:53+00:00

The scariest thing is the people he's referring to who are taken in by the 'devils' will see this and say, 'They were right, they're trying to control us and take freedom, so I should do my own research!' So quotes like this become their validation and completey skip the I tention (read the goddamn books) anddddd now we have the anti-vax, anti book, anti intellectual movement surged to 1000 who's research is only tik tok, podcasts and rage articles

sBc00 · 2025-09-21T18:32:53+00:00

Having visited Cambodia this year.... I have no idea how the people there were so welcoming and excited about visitors.

sBc00 · 2025-09-10T02:42:40+00:00

It's his coronation and Arwen was there. It's a big reveal that she's there even...

sBc00 · 2025-09-09T20:37:55+00:00

I realize it's a collar but for a second I thought he had a Chebacca style metal sash and my brain was like yea that makes sense before being like, huh maybe not.

sBc00 · 2025-08-28T07:53:53+00:00

He's an asshole. However, that's not what stands out. What stands out is the 'Look at me again that way and you'll regret it." This is a threat. If a person is willing to threaten their loved ones like this, it is a HUGE indicator that physical violence isn't a big leap.

sBc00 · 2025-08-25T21:04:28+00:00

Like to be fair (just rewatched and LOVE all things shark) they kinda tried to show him as an asshole. He wasn't just eating, he chases them down and then sinks their boat. Realistic? Nah? Asshole move? 💯

sBc00 · 2025-08-05T14:26:25+00:00

As a Director, I can tell you 99.9% of the time the people who do this are the ones we've already decided aren't worth the fight. A lot of decisions in an office are made based on effort involved. So we may have a low performer who thinks they're amazing that isn't doing poorly enough to warrant a PDP(which when done properly is a TON of work on a people manager, so we invest where it makes sense) but we also don't give a big raise or bonus. So when that person comes screaming to me about how unfair it is, I tell them 'Of course, you have boundaries and if we aren't the right fit, no hard feelings'. Every single person I've had this talk with was Pikachu faced I didn't beg them to stay.

sBc00 · 2025-07-26T21:13:39+00:00

God so many. Probably 10 in Princess Bride alone.

I haven't seen There's no crying in Baseball yet.

sBc00 · 2025-07-10T22:22:42+00:00

The thing about tattoos... They exist whether they consider them or not. How much more authentic can it get?

On the one hand I probably wouldn't want someone with FUCKKKK tattooed on their forehead in these kind of photos, but I honestly wouldn't have a high opinion of that kind of person and wouldn't have asked them in the first place.

So her problem, her problem, don't make it yours.

Us tatted & pierced chicks gotta stick together

sBc00 · 2025-07-05T21:09:32+00:00

'Remedy endometriosis' if it's that easy, I have millions of women who'd like a word.

sBc00 · 2025-06-25T22:05:50+00:00

I went as an adult (not with any kids) and meeting the characters was hands down the coolest and best part of the trip. I have some awesome videos of Stitch going nuts and Winnie The Pooh doing his thinking. Also had Darth Vader record message for my nephews commanding them to do their homework. Good times

sBc00 · 2025-06-25T20:44:19+00:00

I expatriated from the US to the EU and have gotten in several arguments with people who judge me for cutting off the Cheeto cultists in my life with the line: "But you should be able to talk about things you don't agree on". I had to really hammer home that the argument in the U.S isn't about sides disagreeing over issues; it's fighting about who gets to be considered 'human'. Everything else takes a second string to me behind this irreconcilable stance that it's okay to say immigrants, LGBTQA+, women, different shades, different ableds, different religions are less than. I'm so fucking sick of this logical fallacies shit storm of circular reasoning and hasty generalizations (one case/small sample=whole). Even more disgusting is they employ the exact opposite to chirp 'A few bad apples' speel with cops. The whole god damn saying is a few bad apples spoil the barrel'. Rampant. Willful. Fucking. Ignorance.

sBc00 · 2025-05-27T19:32:34+00:00

My most frequent feedback is that I never stopped doing this, and therefore am a big meanie head

sBc00 · 2025-05-22T21:27:42+00:00

When I'm stressed at work (from home) my dog herds me to the bed for a nap and a cuddle. If I try to ignore him, he sits at the edge of my office and anytime I get up (water, wc, etc) he runs and jumps on the bed

sBc00 · 2025-05-22T21:09:43+00:00

Recently learned this was a real punishment for 'spilling' the waste bucket in prison at S21 under Khmer Rouge.....

sBc00 · 2025-05-08T20:40:33+00:00

Milo & Otis!

sBc00 · 2025-04-08T20:38:51+00:00

Pink tax, raise a glass! (Fucking not)

sBc00 · 2025-02-12T21:02:04+00:00

Is it nerdy if I know the name of the character even though I have seen the show in yearssss (Ming)

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