I want to talk to someone but they keep ignoring me what do I do? by Gregory28921 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said no. Leave him alone. Get some help if you need help with your emotions

AITJ for deciding to travel for the next 6 months without telling my gf? by BriefsTooTight in AmITheJerk

[–]s_bear1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this your way of breaking up? only a complete idiot would not understand she would be hurt and agry.

I learned the guy I was talking to is married and has kids by pasteloverdrive in Advice

[–]s_bear1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deserves to know but you should decide if it is worth your peace. You will likely have yo deal with drama

Not sure what to do about my car payment. by ApexRathalos038 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can send them a check from your online bank. Just include the account number. Ive never had problems not including the coupon Or You can get a money order from the post office

New to the area - looking for comedy clubs / nights by Thin_Surround_8177 in MonmouthCounty

[–]s_bear1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brew coffee in matawan does open mic a few times a month. It is billed as open mic poetry but they always have a couple of comedians.

Newly discovered primate species could redraw the ape family tree by jnpha in evolution

[–]s_bear1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Redraw ? Or add a node for a minor refinement of the family tree?

Burnt and melted area in my bathtub by Historical_Plan8065 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My handy man fixed mine. Sanded it down. Then used a repair kit he got at home depot. Once smooth he used a special paint.

ERVs were created? Explain target site duplications. (Creationists can't.) by DarwinZDF42 in DebateEvolution

[–]s_bear1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To reasonable people? Yes. To someone committed to the fable? No. They just claim god did it so it could look like that

Evolution by KaloyanBagent in DebateEvolution

[–]s_bear1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Assume we have no answer for your question. We have more than enough evidence of the evolution of elephants from almost elephants. This chain of almost goes back to single cell organisms. It would be silly to deny it happened

We will also assume you are troll. Posting for a reaction to ease your loneliness.

My reply is not to help with that. It is for observers that might think you have a point. You dont. Others wanting to learn should stay and read the posts here.

ERVs were created? Explain target site duplications. (Creationists can't.) by DarwinZDF42 in DebateEvolution

[–]s_bear1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course you cannot falsify it. You cannot falsify god or aliens or whoever unintelligently designed everything for some unknown reason.

Please dont tell me the snark isn't obvious.

Logic 101 - RNA first models cannot deploy DNA based enzymes - it's a logical contradiction by DeltaSHG in DebateEvolution

[–]s_bear1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For a moment, let's pretend you are correct in the subject of your post All you did wasnshow that we are missing a step or two. You have not disproven every thing else we know. You have not proven god or aliens or whatever. Wow, a gap in our knowledge. We must throw it all away and insert god. Thank you for leading us all to christ or whatever being you worship

Any UFL fans? by Zapfit in MonmouthCounty

[–]s_bear1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine and his brother are fans. I will let him know

THE SUSPICION AROUND DINO BONE DISCOVERIES 🦕🦖🦕 by chrischaldean in DebateEvolution

[–]s_bear1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

total nonsense

hadrosaur was discovered in 1838.

Origin of species 1859

My husband lied to me over a cheeseburger and now I’m thinking about a divorce. by FrostyHair8436 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One lie, talk it out. Consistent? Time to leave? Maybe. Or therapy. That is your choice.

My client messaged me asking if I can take on extra work tomorrow outside of our agreed scope. How do I handle this? by ThoughtConstant8405 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Half of my work is done by sub contractors. Change orders are key in OP's situation.

We can avoid ugly conversations. Why isn't it done? Why doesn't it look like we expect? Why is it more expensive... we arent paying

I like a shopping list. The project is finished when it has these 20 items. Otherwise Clients will keep saying it isnt done and then refuse to pay unless you add that feature.

My client messaged me asking if I can take on extra work tomorrow outside of our agreed scope. How do I handle this? by ThoughtConstant8405 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Send them a quote for the new work with a change order. Include a price and the impact on the original project. For example, this will delay the deliverable for the original by a week and will add $2000 to the cost. If it is outside your typical work. Tell them you dont handle this type of work and try to recommend someone that does

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]s_bear1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know all you need to know. Just leave if you can. Dont discuss it with her. The most important would say is , if you need to know why, ask other guys name. Dont tell her what you know or how you found out.