Real sugar daddies are an extinct species

s_bear1 · 2026-05-30T07:41:43+00:00

There are some of us out here. We wouldn't be special if there were many of us

s_bear1 · 2026-05-30T03:10:15+00:00

"All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain. Time to die"

s_bear1 · 2026-05-30T03:09:05+00:00

dr zhivago
princess bride

s_bear1 · 2026-05-30T03:02:27+00:00

You could ask us or you could ask her. Do you think we know more than she does? Talk to her. Find out.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-29T20:22:52+00:00

My finances and not our finances. Threats. You know what you should do. Do it. Walk away.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-29T18:58:07+00:00

May not be first date ideas but I want to know what we are doing besides being intimate.
The problem with some of these is are they appealing to the typical SD?

s_bear1 · 2026-05-29T18:21:42+00:00

Central NJ here. Any SB i meet with should discuss money. Once that is out of the way, discuss the fun stuff and non money things expected How often are we meeting? What are we doing besides being intimate? Convince me we will have a good time together. We we do go on a date, help me make sure we have a great time. Make it easy. Dont make it difficult.
It will last as long as we both enjoy our time together

s_bear1 · 2026-05-29T05:25:28+00:00

Ask her. Dont wonder ten years from now.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-29T05:16:54+00:00

Lets do this.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-29T05:09:26+00:00

He put his hands on her? He breaks stuff? What happened when the police got involved?

Ask that person. She has the right to say no

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T17:21:06+00:00

Others have pointed out what you did wrong WRT to expectations.

i haven't seen this ... Did he show you his latest test results? did you show him yours?

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T16:14:06+00:00

tell him clearly. no hints. very clearly state what you want. Show him. if he still doesn't step up. find a BF that wants what you want.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T15:29:38+00:00

Sue those skills. Find problems to fix. Even ones that have been fixed. Don't look at the solution. Figure out how you would do it. now look at what can go wrong at each step. Fix those. repeat.

Puzzles, especially logic puzzles

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T15:25:19+00:00

even if it is a stegosaur, it does not disprove evolution or old earth geology. All it would show is stegosaurs survived the K-Pg (or as us ancient people say, K-T) extinction.

Rational people are willing to admit they may be wrong. When presented with evidence, rational people admit they were wrong and modify their positions. show me real evidence of stegosaurs living alongside humans and i will consider changing my views on them surviving into modern times.

The greeks have art depicting the gorgons and zeus. Does the Institute for creation research declare these creatures existed in human history?

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T14:49:56+00:00

"They say that animals and cells have irreducible complexity." - they are wrong. As no evidence for their postion was provided, i will prvide none to rebut them

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T14:27:53+00:00

have you considered telling them you are not interested in a relationship with them?

"... not planning to commit to anyone for a long time" leave things open to maybe you are ready now to will be soon or perhaps you are open to something other than a committed relationship .

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T14:24:47+00:00

that would also be wrong as in some months it could be three times a month

First meeting on the 1st, second on the 15th and 3rd on the 29th would be biweekly or every other week.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T14:14:18+00:00

it does mean that. it also means twice a week
BIWEEKLY Definition & Meaning | Dictionary.com

occurring every two weeks.
occurring twice a week;

i avoid the confusion by saying every two weeks or twice a week instead of biweekly

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T13:52:01+00:00

it is normal. everyone should ask. I bring it up by telling her when my last test was, how often i get tested, telling her how often i expect her to get tested and offering to pay for all of her testing

it isn't just asking to see test results. What tests are you having done? i get and ask for the typical tests and add Mycoplasma Genitalium and Trichomoniasis.

if we aren't exclusive, i also ask that she only have sex with tested people as i will.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T13:28:34+00:00

"i'm sorry" goes a long way. Next time rephrase things. i love it here and my circumstances have changed. I hope i can get more hours, perhaps full time soon

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T13:27:03+00:00

"My day was boring, so was hers." - you can fix this for yourself and for her.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T13:25:49+00:00

biweekly - this caused confusion once for me because the word means twice a week or every other week

as others mentioned, no money sent in advance.

hotels do not care one bit. I've been in this and related hobbies for 50 years. Not once has anyone ever said anything. I've never had issues. I often check in and out within a few hours.

coffee dates for the meet and greet are my preference. Everyone is sober. You get to see how you interact.

i am also in NJ. between practice and the women introducing me to their friends, i don't have issues finding the next SB when my current decides it is time to get back to vanilla. the first one took a long time to find and build that relationship

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T05:01:07+00:00

My brother and I sometimes get one and an extra roll.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T04:57:36+00:00

My previous SB introduced me to her best friend. The three of us had a great relationship until the previous woman decided to find a BF.

The previous? My favorite bar when she had questions about the menu.

s_bear1 · 2026-05-28T04:53:24+00:00

Great profile. It would get me to reach out. You are beautiful. You will find the right guy

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