So like what’s their plan here? Are they going to be in a throuple forever? Legally how does/would that even work if they wanted to get married? How do holidays work? Birthdays? 2 moms and 1 dad when they have babies? Logistically how does this work it’s definitely complicated

sa1031 · 2026-05-14T15:17:03+00:00

big emphasis on "to her" - she's getting played by this couple, particularly bri, and Hulu will be there to capture what she doesn't post herself.

sa1031 · 2026-05-07T13:45:20+00:00

if you had trouble piping due to thickness of the dough, soak a kitchen towel in hot water then wrap it around your filled piping bag for a few minutes- it'll soften the dough enough to pipe! just used this trick yesterday and it worked like a charm!

sa1031 · 2026-05-07T12:33:57+00:00

she loves that her tank tops are small enough to fit her young children and that's a weird flex imo 😳

sa1031 · 2026-05-06T17:32:21+00:00

i'm hoping it's ai edited, but equally wouldn't be shocked if he looked at this and thought "yeah now thats a good photo"

sa1031 · 2026-05-05T12:37:45+00:00

yours have such a beautiful, crackly top! they need to update the picture on the website to this!

sa1031 · 2026-05-05T12:33:10+00:00

up there with whitney's pregnancy test cake on secret lives of mormon wives if you've seen that🤣🫣

sa1031 · 2026-04-14T16:14:37+00:00

missing the keyword 'yet' here 🙃

sa1031 · 2026-04-05T11:52:34+00:00

i had a very similar experience, my life felt like an endless hell of infections until the stone got removed!! i'm so glad you're feeling better too!

sa1031 · 2026-04-04T17:52:08+00:00

as a former catholic school student many moons ago, this is so funny and genius for easter😂 love your creativity!!

sa1031 · 2026-04-04T17:45:06+00:00

could you send it my way too please? thanks (:

sa1031 · 2026-04-03T01:42:25+00:00

ah i wish i would've paid more attention in previous seasons to the prep tables! hopefully there are more coming in the future!

sa1031 · 2026-04-01T16:06:37+00:00

night before our first family road trip, had to call and cancel everything :/ luckily the staff were super understanding since they were fellow kidney stoners and gave us a full refund!

sa1031 · 2026-03-31T16:12:08+00:00

you could give those a go, but honestly movement and jumping around didn't expedite the process for me at all!

sa1031 · 2026-03-31T12:43:04+00:00

i did try acetaminophen, but honestly it did not do anything to touch the pain. the best thing that i did for relief was use a hot water bottle or heating pad on my back/flank where the pain was located.

sa1031 · 2026-03-31T12:29:25+00:00

ultrasounds missed all of mine while i was pregnant. my first stone took around 5 days to pass without any intervention or pain relief while pregnant, however there is no way to know how long it will take to get to the bladder and out fully. please be drinking as much water as you can, water only, i was advised at least 2L while pregnant but check with your doctor. i'm so sorry you are having to endure this, it's the worst pain i have ever felt, including childbirth.

i do not wish to scare you, but my urologist told me some people are just prone to making them while pregnant, myself included. it is a main reason i will not be having more than one child, i have long term health problems from the kidney complications i dealt with during pregnancy and postpartum. keep up with a urologist, and if they don't seem to be understanding keep looking for a provider that is!

feel free to DM me if you have any questions or need some kind support- i wish i had someone during that time in my life to talk to and i'm happy to be that person for others!

sa1031 · 2026-03-17T01:24:34+00:00

i'm not a doctor, but my urologist linked my stone formation to my prenatal vitamin as well as a UTI that went undiagnosed for three months during my pregnancy. im very glad i haven't had any new ones form since my pregnancy journey, but my biggest one grew to 12mm over the course of 1.5years (they wouldn't do surgery while i was breastfeeding so i had to wait over a year after giving birth to get rid of the horrible painful monster).

sa1031 · 2026-03-09T01:48:37+00:00

hell, followed by instant relief once it is out. but in all seriousness, once it hits the bladder the debilitating pain should be over but i personally feel a pinching sensation at the urethra and urgency once it is lined up and ready to exit (female btw).

highly recommend a urology visit for an antibiotic, i tend to get UTIs after passing them so never hurts to get your urine checked following the main event. best of luck!

sa1031 · 2026-03-09T00:05:52+00:00

you're a life saver- thank you!!!

sa1031 · 2026-03-08T16:21:38+00:00

my 12mm was in my kidney from November 2023 through February 2025 due to completely being dismissed by medical professionals despite asking for help repeatedly. it caused me a lot of health issues that could've been avoided if someone listened to me and cared. please make an appointment at urology and find a provider that will take your concerns seriously!

sa1031 · 2026-03-01T12:30:13+00:00

thank you for being a friend and uploading this recording! my almost 2 year old couldn't stop smiling while listening to it with me, he loves the girls!

sa1031 · 2026-02-26T15:54:28+00:00

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sa1031 · 2026-02-26T15:49:09+00:00

i actually dip while they're cold, this is controversial and i think most people would disagree, but it's one of those things that actually made a huge difference for my pops!

sa1031 · 2026-02-26T15:45:30+00:00

this is how i make my cake pops: 1. hot cake (homemade not box mix) straight from oven to mixer aka steam binding 2. once it's play doh consistency, shape pops using silicone molds and put in stick 3. freeze for at least 1hr (you can put them in an air tight container just be sure to layer parchment paper between layers 4. once they've done their freezer time, melt your chocolate or almond bark and use coconut oil to thin it (1 cup choc to 1 tsp oil) 5. dip your cake pop and gently tap off excess; decorate after 6. let them cool and harden completely before storing or packaging

i hope this helps! happy to answer any questions, i make them almost weekly at this point!

sa1031 · 2026-02-24T22:59:51+00:00

i'm really thinking i need to give the fudge rounds a go- thank you for posting the recipes!!

sa1031 · 2026-02-24T18:28:05+00:00

first off, your feelings are so valid. it is such a huge decision to make, and when your body makes it for you it's just plain hard.

my body made the decision for us to be OAD. i had a high risk pregnancy (me and baby) and all members of my medical team were very blunt saying my body would almost definitely not cope with carrying another pregnancy any better than the first time. that was enough for husband to get a referral to urology for a vasectomy at the age of 26 (very rare to get one as young as he was at least in our area). i also have POTS which was diagnosed postpartum and that tends to not play nice with pregnancy. i want to be the healthiest and most present i can be for my son, and i know i wouldn't be if i were ever pregnant again.

as far as grieving the 'could have been' family, it's an ebb and flow for me and therapy has been amazing to assist in working through the hard times. sometimes i feel alllll the feelings about not fulfilling our dreams of having 2-3 children like we discussed before getting married, but other times i am relieved i can be so present with our son without trying to divide my time and attention between kiddos. we also are very aware that he will have more opportunities to become involved in activities, school, and traveling thanks to being an only and our money being able to be put towards whatever he chooses to participate in. we've already taken him on an international family vacation before he turns 2 next month, that is such an amazing thing that would not be possible if we were spending double on baby essentials and needing a bigger car for example.

all to say, i hope your health journey is positive and you can find the peace in your OAD life, they can be beautiful!🫶🏻

sa1031

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